I wrote this article completely stimulated by Liu Tong's book "Whose Youth is Not Confused", I saw this topic, I really can't agree with his idea, I once read a sentence in the book before, it says this, genius is never confused, only fools will be confused, in fact, it is true, I also think so. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 I also wonder how such a book can become a bestseller of the year, I don't know why, and here I state that I have no hostility towards anyone, nor do I mean to attack him. Just casually write about my own thoughts and opinions.

My youth is not as rich as other people's, nor is it as happy as other people's youth, but I have the same time as others, I live 24 hours a day, so that I am content, at least there is still time to fight, in my life, I dare not tell myself how smart I am, I am a genius, but it is true.

No matter how sad I will be when I encounter something, or how sad I will be when I encounter setbacks in life, I have always been clear about what I want, I never change it, and I never regret it, this is who I am. I don't like to be confused, at the intersection of life, I can give myself courage and direction, life is not born for confusion, besides, what do you have to be confused, you don't know what you want, how do others know what they want, they don't understand themselves, how can others understand you, you don't know what you should do, others can help you.

On the road of life, I am like a kite, the line is in the hands of others, and I am trying to fly, I have my goal, I have my direction, in fact, my direction and goal is very simple, that is, for the people I love and those who love myself, saying such words, may not be recognized by others, in this era when they can only take care of themselves, there is no trust between people, the fact is that the city's high-rise buildings are getting higher and higher, which witnesses the development of the whole city, and also witnesses the indifference between people.

In this society where the distance between people is getting farther and farther away, I can't change myself to adapt to society, my subconscious still hopes that I can have the most sincere feelings, this is the rhythm of my life, no matter how others are, because I can't control it, I can't control it, this era is an era of pursuing individuality, we used to have a lot of things and people that we couldn't get used to, but later, I found that I really felt that all other people's behaviors were for a reason, don't deliberately evaluate other people's behaviors and thoughts, everyone is an independent person, that is, an independent individual with thoughts and consciousnessThere is no need to spend so much time paying attention to others, I always felt that many people were not used to me some time ago, and then I adapted and changed a lot, now I am used to seeing others, but I am not used to seeing myself now, because every time I am so far away from the goal I set, maybe I am not satisfied with myself, is the motivation to work hard, I always believe in such a sentence, so I am never satisfied with myself, I work hard, so I progress, so I grow, the road to pursue my dreams never stops.

After so many years, behind every injury means that they will grow, everyone hopes that they have a happy, rich, and satisfying environment and the other half, but the reality will give us a test every time, giving us one hurdle after another to face, it is such setbacks that we have the courage to overcome, if we have been growing in good times, then how can we withstand the baptism of the storm. I don't think these sad and sad things are bad for our growth, every hurt means another growth, so I never hold a grudge but thank those who don't like me, because they give me the best things in the world.

Every time I look at myself, I will find that I have a lot of shortcomings, so every time I see such a self, I never feel how accomplished I am, even when my classmates said that I was good, but I still felt that I was not good enough, so I still chased all the way on the road of my dreams. Those past pains and tears have finally turned into our growth, as long as we work hard, there will always be achievements there. It's just that the only thing I can't change is that I still want to take feelings as the cornerstone of my personal world, everything is for the sake of feelings, everything I do is for those I love and those who love me, this is my life, there was once a saying that is very good, you have to keep working hard, so that the people who love you will be happy, so I work hard, for their happiness, as for what the consequences of my efforts will be, I haven't thought about it at all, and I don't know what the future will be.

I have also seen many people rebel and uncoordinated with their family members and relatives and friends, in fact, I also have such a moment, rebellion is a process that everyone must experience, at that time, we often have an attitude towards the face of our relatives, because we think we have grown up, we think we have our own ideas, we think we can live well, and even we have tried to prove that we can live well without the help of others, and there was a moment when I was really disappointed in my parents, because my father did nothing but give birth to me, they didn't give me a good background, so many times before, I really think that my background is not good, I have complained many times, and there are many reasons for complaining, that is, because the burden of the family must be borne by myself, and I can't live a carefree life like the son of a rich family, so that I can do some things I like, such as reading books, Write articles, but what I want to do most is not to show off my wealth like the second generation of the rich, but to live in seclusion, like Li Yu, he is an emperor who is not willing to do, and the person who writes good words, our world should also be like him, not for fame, not for status, not for profit, to be able to leave the best words for others, in front of those frustrated people, but to give others courage and strength words.

That's my truest thought, for this dream of mine, I used to complain, but I found the mistake of complaining very early, in fact, complaining is useless, it is better to work hard at this moment, for the dream. The attitude towards relatives has been very good, the ideals and dreams I know do not need to go against my family, nor do I need to rebel, they can't give me the dreams I want, but I still have myself, others are fighting for the father's era, but I am fighting for myself, fighting for feelings.

I am seriously doing what the people I love want me to do all the time, because I know that feelings can change everything, their dreams are my dreams, the kite is in their hands, I am trying to fly, when one day I am tired, sleepy, I will find that when I look back, I can still see so many expectant eyes, which at least proves that I am not struggling alone, so I have confidence. How deep the love is, how tenacious the heart is to pursue the dream. This is me, in fact, if I love someone, I will love everything about her, what she likes, no matter how resistant and disgusted I was at the time, when I knew that this was what she liked, one day I found that I really liked it, and I couldn't extricate myself from it, this is the feeling, which gave me endless strength.

Only now did I know that I really like what I like to do in my heart, but in front of the person I love, the things she likes will still occupy my heart, I will give up all kinds of things I like for the sake of feelings, and like the things they like, the direction and dreams they give me are my dreams, one day, such dreams will be the best proof, so in the journey of life, no matter how much happiness, sadness, sorrow, Low self-esteem, or everything else, will turn into an invisible force.

Youth should be well grasped, should not be confused, in the confusion, the opportunity is missed, in the confusion, others have succeeded, in the confusion, they may have to give up, shaken, so, for the people I love, for their happiness, I have been on the road, happy efforts, happy life, I hope all of us are like this, in order to give love, give yourself the most correct direction.

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