The last time I went to dinner, we were also out shopping, and sometimes I found that my husband was also an ambiguous person, but he was so ambiguous, but it also made me give him a lot of face, in many things, he didn't know what to do, sometimes, this is not a shortcoming, people don't know what to do, when they don't have their own opinions, of course I want to make my own decisions, but I will still respect his opinion, just by his side to see what he means, he also keeps saying this, instead of clearly specifying, when I go to dinner, I say, I don't have an early time in the evening, We either eat outside, or eat in our own home, whatever you want, but my husband also arrived at the designated place to wait for me, and when he saw me, it was also a normal situation, before every time he pulled me home to cook, but now it is different, on such an occasion, we also deeply found that eating outside, there are also some meals that he has not eaten, of course, I have not eaten, because I am often with him.

When he put forward my second suggestion, he said that he was going out to eat, and I agreed, so I ate with him outside, and kept looking for many places, but I still found a lot of places, and it was indeed as my husband said, many restaurants we have not eaten, and in this case, I also found that I was really embarrassed, in such a place, we have eaten very little, so let's try it, we walked into a store, and when we went in, we also sat like this, just went in, I don't know what the situation is, just listened to the boss said, how affordable their dishes are, It's enough for us to eat, we believe it like this, after I believe it, we start to order, although there are not many dishes ordered, but it's still good, the taste is good, and the dishes ordered are also very simple, but when the dishes come up, my husband is also puzzled, he said, he obviously didn't order this dish, how can there be such a dish?

I don't know, but what is the reason for this? After the consultation, I don't want him to talk more, I also look at the business of such a boss is really cold, there are only me and my husband two customers, I don't want him to say anything, just take care of some people's business, but my husband still wants to say this, what about after that?

He asked his own question, I didn't order this dish, I just consulted, how much is a dish, etc., what kind of dishes can I buy, etc., why is there such a dish?

At this time, I was still on the sidelines, I didn't want him to say, did it make so much sense? But under my stop, he still didn't say much, but his mood can be imagined, it must be bad, at such a moment, can he be happy?

Originally, if I came out to eat, I still hoped to have a happy meal together, but then he was unhappy, from the time I entered the door, I have been looking at such a boss, in fact, his words are very few, because we don't know each other, so he won't tell us anything, but look at his silent appearance, I don't know what to say, it's also a very strange feeling, I feel something, sometimes I also tell my husband not to talk so direct, but then I also know, he can't change, in some days like this, I also know, he is also very stubborn, Every time in life, I have to continue to do what I think, and I don't care about anything else, I can't help it, he wants to be like this.

But then what about when eating, it's obviously not very affordable, but I also found a pattern, and others told me, when I go to eat, those deserted restaurants are generally empty, and the most important thing for catering should be hygienic and clean, but we will always be ignored by such problems, and always feel that when we want to eat, we will go to a delicious place to eat, and we will really be attracted by such deliciousness, rather than thinking about many other problems.

My husband and I are looking for affordability, so we keep eating, eating all the time, and in the end, it's still not enough to eat, so I added another dish, but what about after adding it?

It's still not enough, we also looked at the time and started to pay, but when we paid, we also found that this person's name is called Story Man, really a man with a story, from the beginning of the meal to the end, I didn't say a word of sympathy and other words for him, but kept telling my husband how to speak, whether to say some real thoughts in my heart, or what others like to hear, this is really important, neither deceitful, nor lying, but also to tell yourself like this, what you say is from the heart, and can also bring joy to others, so why not do it？

But there will still be some moments like this, we always can't do such a thing, can't do such a point, I didn't ask anything and walked away, although this meal was not very pleasant, my husband also said that what I said made him not good, so that his heart was sad, when I came out of the door, I found a place, and then at this time only when my husband and I were alone, I told my husband that you are sad, you can continue to grow when you are sad, not sad to play so hi every day, how can you realize the existence of the problem？

Or grow up well, only in this way, you can face yourself well, in order to continue to change your shortcomings, in this way, it is also good, I am also at such a moment, I understand, this is very important, sometimes, people's biggest shortcoming, is that they are obviously very depressed, when they encounter a thing, so depressed, but still do not have a long memory, in this way, it is very troublesome, you do not have a long memory, how do you say you will progress?

If you fall somewhere, you will get up from somewhere, so that you will not let yourself fall in the same place after a long time, and then you will make great progress.

Sometimes I think about it, every time I criticize him, I don't criticize others, those who are not criticized, on the surface, is a kind of confidence and satisfaction, but after a long time, I will find that those who are often scolded grow faster and have more strength.