Crying is a moment that everyone will have, when crying, most of the time, it is a person's psychological sadness to have such a feeling, but there are also a lot of children who love to cry, when adults are also some crying in front of people, this time I realized that in fact, crying is like a kind of blackmail, because when you see others crying, you will always feel that people have suffered a lot of grievances, just like that, I am not very embarrassed to talk about people or something, I have also seen some children, every time it is like this, in many times it is crying in frontWhy is that?

Because when crying, it's really very lethal, when others cry, we generally don't say anything, sometimes it's the same in class, when I see a classmate crying, immediately a classmate will tell me, teacher, you see XXX crying, in their impression, no matter how big it is, they all think that crying is the most serious, are there any other ways to express it?

No, every time the student would tell me loudly that the teacher was crying, and I said, what are you crying about?

I also asked with great concern, sometimes in class, I will also pause like this, no matter how important the content of my lecture is, I still have to solve such a problem, of course, the problem is solved first, in order to have a better class.

In my experience, I also know that at such a moment, it is most important for them to listen to the lecture with peace of mind.

At the beginning, I didn't know such a truth, I always felt that people had already cried, no matter what kind of big mistake was made, but also would not say anything and shut up immediately, had conquered me like this, I didn't say anything, but after a long time, I was also convinced by the lethal crying of others, no matter who it was, no matter what happened, no matter whether people were wrong or not, etc., they all thought that they already knew that they were wrong, and they didn't want to say anything, but then I thought about it carefully, in fact, sometimes, their crying really seemed like a kind of blackmailIf a child asks you to buy snacks for him to eat, or buy toys, you don't buy them for others, people may cry, and then when you are soft-hearted, that is, when people achieve their goals, I remember when I was young, I also liked some toys very much, that time to catch the meeting, I also went to the meeting with my relatives, who knew that I met a toy, I really liked it, but the parents didn't buy it for me, I just kept crying until they were willing to buy it for me, and then I got such a toy, and it was also in some other times, we always wanted to get what we wanted, so we kept crying and cryingIt's just to get the things you want.

If you are really sad, find a place to cry silently, if it is in the daytime, you will find a place to cry silently, if it is in the daytime, you will just find a place, go to a place where there is no one, and secretly touch your tears for a while, it is already equivalent to venting your emotions, but what?

A lot of people are not like this, if they cry by themselves, everyone has a sad time, everyone has a sad time, whether it is a man or a woman, it is the same.

I vented myself when I cried, but don't cry in front of others all day long, okay?

I remember that in the past, there was a little boy in the class, every time the teacher didn't open his mouth, people started crying, and he became a famous child in the class, because he loved to cry, everyone knew it, the teacher and classmates all knew, but in this case, he was also told by the teacher, you are late today, what is the reason?

He didn't say anything, he just cried all the time, just cried like this, and then what happened?

Later, every time I saw him, I didn't dare to say anything when I was late, when I was in class, I didn't dare to say anything, and it was the same when I made small movements, I didn't dare to say anything, as soon as I opened my mouth, it would cause him to cry, and there was nothing else, so I think it's better to forget it, don't embarrass people like this anymore, people don't want to say anything, what's the point of always making people cry?

Although he is just a very special one, we still feel that everyone is crying, forget it, such a conventional thinking, everyone will have it.

So after a long time, they will think that crying is really like a kind of blackmail, as long as you don't stop this kind of behavior, you will always think that they will use such a way to ask for something, what to get, this is my opinion, in the face of any resistance of you, will be conquered by their behavior, so I also think that crying is really a terrible act of demand, although sometimes, we also know that others are asking for things, sometimes it is really sad, but what？

We still don't know when they shed tears because they are really sad, we will be bluffed by the tears of others again and again, we will make concessions again and again, and we will be overcome by others step by step.

Crying, or don't take this kind of crying as a means, it's like this when we are young, and when we grow up, it's also like this, don't ask for it in such a way every time, it's really too boring, what do you want, you yourself directly said don't cry like this every time, cry in order to ask for something, it's too inhumane, we should all get it in the most correct way, don't get it because of a tear of your own, there will be many moments in life, which we can grasp, we can also grasp some things we know, sometimes think about itThere are many ways to pursue success, please don't cry like this, and do your best.