Fighting with the teacher, you are still a little tender. (1)
When I wrote this topic, I actually felt like I was joking, it was really a very interesting topic, because only students and teachers fought hearts, but then I found out that in fact, fighting with teachers is really not good, because when we were young, we always love to play some cleverness to show the teacher, and sometimes we think that we have a lot of very smart places, and then give the teacher such a conceited performance, sometimes it is like showing off what you are, but then I found out that in fact, sometimes, your own cleverness is just harming yourself, can you deceive the teacher?
The teacher is an adult, and we were just a child who studied with the teacher at that time, just like those apprentices in the past, who followed the teacher to learn things, and the teacher must know more truths than himself in all aspects, and has more abilities and knowledge, so that he can be our teacher.
Yes, people have a lot of knowledge, have a strong ability, we are willing to follow others to learn some knowledge, but we didn't understand this kind of truth at the time, every time they play some cleverness to show the teacher, in fact, when they grow up to be a teacher, they will also find that some students think they are very smart, always give the teacher some small actions that they think are very smart, especially in class, your students love to do some small actions, as if the teacher did not see it, sometimes the teacher also sees it, but just doesn't want to pay attention to you, because the class time is very precious, each class is only 40 minutes of classSometimes, because of your small action, the teacher may have seen it, and there are so many people waiting in class, so the teacher does not spend too much time educating you.
Sometimes students also think that the teacher is a good bully, so they just mess up something every time.
Is the teacher really helpless to you? Actually, I don't think so, because the teacher thinks you're a child.
Besides, every day to manage everyone obediently, in fact, there is no such time, the teacher is just to take care of most of the students, I have heard a class before, people said that a successful classroom should have 80% of the students have mastered the knowledge, so that it is a successful classroom, according to this calculation, if a class is 60 students, then we have a class of one class, there are 48 students who have mastered the knowledge of this class, then this class should be successful, and the remaining 12 students, there is no teacher is no way, it is impossible to master all the knowledge in a classUnless it is a very simple course, but for a course of general difficulty, there will still be some students who cannot understand it, and they still have to do some homework after class.
This requires parents to do their own homework, and our teachers also take care of most of the students, and if you do small actions in class, the teacher may give you a look to stop because he doesn't want to waste time.
But if you don't stop, it's too much, and if it affects other students' lessons, the teacher may really stop and stop your behavior, but in general, the teacher will still focus on the teaching task and won't spend a lot of time on you, because you have to take care of a lot of people.
But some people really don't understand this truth when they are young, and then when they grow up, they will regret it, just like that, some cleverness, when I was young, I was also a person who loved to play smart, but then when I grew up, I regretted it every time, and every time I always felt that I was not good enough, not hard enough.
That's right, everyone wants their life to develop better, but then I realized that I didn't work hard enough, which can actually be regarded as a kind of fate.
When I became a teacher, I saw that some students were clever in class, which was exactly the same as when I was young, and I always felt that the teacher didn't know the same, but I met the previous teacher again, and found that sometimes I still wanted to be an interesting person, so that the teacher would feel that I was a progressive person and a down-to-earth child in the eyes of the teacher.
Later, I found out that in fact, sometimes I didn't dare to meet my former teachers, just because I didn't mix well, many people are like this, because I didn't mix well, so I didn't dare to meet my former classmates and teachers, and I closed the door and lived alone.
And those students who mix very well, will swagger back to see their teachers and classmates, maybe this is a very normal psychology of people, but we don't dare every time, always the teacher who thinks about our hearts, and I don't dare to see the teacher every time, because I am really afraid, always afraid of talking about homely things, every time I see the teacher will always ask you where you are now, what work, in fact, sometimes I don't want to be asked by the teacher like this, maybe this is also the teacher's concern for us, and we don't dare to answer such a question, so we have been running away like this, evading。
This is a very common chat, and we really don't dare, sometimes the family is the same as us, they are also very afraid of the previous teacher, just because they dare not see the previous teacher, because their life is very ordinary, just like this to see the former teacher, sometimes I still feel that it will bring some unexpected effects, for the teacher is not much help, to themselves is also like asking the teacher for something, in fact, sometimes I see the former teacher, I feel that you are not good now, sometimes you will still find ways to help, sometimes we don't want to see our own teacher like this, as if he was like his parents all his life, and he has always had a dependence on his teacher.
You are already such a person, sometimes you find that you have been graduating for more than ten years, and you still have to live with your own efforts, and you are living well now, you have always been working hard, don't worry about the teacher.
At that time, I really wished I could go to see my former teacher, but I still didn't have that courage, even though my former teacher was very kind to me, I still didn't dare to go, maybe it really needed courage.
Maybe it's really that I'm thinking too much, the teacher doesn't need anything from us, and we don't want the teacher's help, maybe the feelings between people should be pure, and I shouldn't think so snobbish, I still have to change my mind.