Some time ago, when listening to songs, I found that some songs have a very loud sound, and some songs have a very small sound, which may be something that each of us will encounter, many people have a button like music on their mobile phones, in fact, I also have it on my mobile phone, every time we listen to a song, it is like this, it is very convenient, but when we listen to it, we find that some of the songs in it are very loud and loud, and some songs have a very small volume, so that we sound very uncomfortable, and some of the voices are very small, we turn on our own volume to the maximum, so that it still sounds better, although every time I turn up the volume on my phone, one will appear on it

"The volume is too loud to damage the hearing" such a button, but there is no way, listening to the song is to listen, in order to make yourself have a happier mood, sometimes you are in a bad mood to listen to the song, you can adjust your mood, but some of the sound of such songs is very small, how can you not hear what is singing, you can't hear the sound, so you still want to put the sound a little louder, although the above tips keep saying,

"Excessive volume damages hearing", yes, that's right, but what if you can't hear the sound of such music, you still have to adjust the volume yourself until the volume is turned to the maximum, and some sounds are still very small, then you can only do this, and you have done your best.

And some songs are very loud and play very little at a low volume, but they are already very shocking to their ears, so what should I do?

You don't have to consider those factors in the outside world, just adjust your own volume to a little smaller, so as to better adapt to your ears, in fact, many times we also find that some of the sound is very loud, we have to adjust it a little smaller, and some of the sound is small to be turned up a little bigger, so as to better use their ears, in fact, we all understand this truth, and it is the same in life, everyone will exist for a life that is very suitable for themselves.

Those that are not suitable for you, then you have to try to eliminate them, and choose the meaningful things yourself, and those that are harmful should be properly controlled.

Sometimes we will find that some people around us make us feel very uncomfortable, in fact, we are enduring a lot of the time, and we feel that there is no need to say this, but one day when we really can't bear it, we will still be angry.

Everyone has their own personality and temperament, don't push others into the middle of nowhere. When you force others to have no way out, then they will definitely get angry and make trouble with you, which is not good at all.

People have to live, no matter who they are, although they are a poor egg, although they have nothing, but they still hope that they can live, yes, everyone has a strong desire to survive, and they are reluctant to die, especially these people around us, they all have a strong desire to survive, at that time, I found that in fact, everyone is very afraid of death, but why do some people commit suicide, this is really a difficult question to understand, maybe there is really no way out, will choose to commit suicide。

I later found out that these people were also the ones who later took revenge on society and others. This phenomenon is really easy to understand, that is, they are really forced, when there is no way out, they will take revenge on the society like this, they will retaliate against others like this, I think we should give others more psychological comfort, reduce some psychological burden on others, so that they will not retaliate against the society for no reason, will not do something harmful to the society for no reason, will not hurt others for no reason, and will not commit suicide by joking with their lives for no reason.

Sometimes I think about some problems, I just didn't see the essence of the problem, and then when I really saw it clearly, I found that I still didn't have the ability to do something I should do, and I was just a very ordinary person, although I had a lot of ideas, I could change something, but in the end I found that nothing could be changed, I still had to change myself to adapt to society, sometimes I thought a lot, and faced a lot, and finally found that life has not been what I imagined, not what I want to have, or to adapt to the development of society, adapt to the surrounding environment, adapt to the people around you, and when you are uncomfortable, you can only vent, sometimes you find that nothing can be changed, you can't solve the problem at all, but you still have to constantly adapt to the environment, so that you can survive better, live better, this is your own problem, in fact, yesterday was also, in my mother's opinion, it is also my fault.

Every time it's like this, when you encounter a problem, please always criticize me, saying that I'm wrong, not someone else's fault, but your own fault, this kind of education method is very good, I will also find myself in the process of such continuous education, will be aware of a lot of their own problems, in fact, when I was a child, I always felt that my mother had little education for me, and later found out that in fact, at that time, because I didn't think about it, I also felt that it was difficult to talk about some reason, because children are sometimes not sensible, and it is difficult to say what is reasonable, and it has always been the love of life。

That's right, everyone's childhood is like this, when they are very happy, but later they found out that when they are in society, there will still be family members who will tell them some truths, talk about some psychological problems that they should change, and other problems, so that they can gradually become normal, this is what they should do, not other people's problems, everyone is a normal person, but I myself am a person with psychological problems and depression, so I can only change myself, make myself better, better adapt to society, and have a better existence。

So you still have to change yourself, sometimes you find that you are under your own control, and you are not an official, so you can't control anything, although you understand such a truth, but you are still a very ordinary person, so when it comes to control, you can only control yourself, and you can't control others, because you have no ability, and there is no reason, and controlling yourself is the best choice, and the best way.