Worrying about other people's affairs (1)
Every Sunday, I have to tutor my nephew and nephew, last week, I took my nephew to my house, the reason is not because of anything else, but because his homework has not been learned well, next week will learn new knowledge, and the learned texts are still not learned, the task is very heavy, only on Sunday overtime, to help him tutor, but after he came, my own things are also delayed a lot, in the morning to help him buy study materials, in the afternoon to help him tutor homework, and I want to do what I want to do is also repeatedly postponed, although this time he learned some, but the little nephew at home to study by himself, she is also deeply confused,Some of the test questions won't,Whatever,Say next time come to my house with me.,Two come together.,Both are 6,7-year-old children.,I'm afraid of losing.,Just like that.,I'm usually in my own spare time.,Busy helping them with homework in their spare time.,But do you want to take two children like this on Sunday?
Don't I have any time to rest? I'm tired all the time? Sunday is no exception, and it's not my own child.
There is no problem with tutoring homework, but I also want to have some freedom of my own on Sundays, where I want to go, so that I can have some freedom, but I can't go anywhere if I take two home, I have to take care of my children on the street, safety is something to consider, this is not my own child, there will be a lot of trouble if there is a little problem, and my conscience is not at ease, so I can only try to reduce the number of times I go to the street, and then I can only be at home, a child is good to bring some, and two, I want to go shopping, what to do, Sunday, should be able to relax, so I still thought of a way, that is, I can not go home on Friday, and then go back to my own home when they help them finish their homework, so it is okay, my husband is also very busy at work this day, and he has no time to accompany me, I told him that he also agreed when I went back on Saturday.
One day from Friday to Saturday, I decided to help them with their homework, and then go home alone, this is my idea, Friday after Sunday, just after school I let them take out their books, and began to tutor and the consolidation of usual learning, two children together, one tutoring this, one tutoring that, one writing a little homework, the other explaining, one explanation is finished, the other explains, and they are also busy with their own learning.
And I can only keep saying, correct the words they wrote wrong before, the professor gave them the right one, I kept saying, the mouth is dry, because I have to hurry up, time is limited, I still want to complete the task, tomorrow can go home as soon as possible, the little nephew is okay, when I ask questions, the words and tones are basically right, there are very few wrong, especially the tone, there is no mistake, I also feel surprised, because the words of primary school students, the four tones are difficult to remember, can remember so accurately, this teacher is awesome, can only say this, the method is very good, I asked the little nephew how your teacher taught,How to teach you the pronunciation of words,She told me the method of their teacher's description,While reading,While acting,Just remember the tone.,No matter what word you say.,As long as it's in the book.,In the text.,The students in their class can accurately say how many tones they are.,Awesome teacher!
She didn't have many problems, and she slowly overcame the problems she found in the process of guiding her.
And the nephew is not very good, when I used to read because the foundation was not laid, a lot of words can not be written, even if there are words that can barely be written, the stroke order is not right, the handwriting is not good, the writing is very messy, the tone is very messy, a poem on the book, required to be recited, I am 1 clearly read his text, in the instructions after class, the teacher is also so requested, said to memorize, go home and memorize again, this is also what I mean, I just started to let him memorize it again, because I was afraid that he would not be able to write the words, and there will still be a few such blanks to fill in the blanks according to the text during the exam,Can only be written down accurately to write right,Always can't usually not learn,To try your luck when it's time for the exam.,I also told him.,When you memorize the words that won't be written, draw a circle.,When you're done, come back to see how to write.,How to correct.,But when I read the text he memorized.,It's just not in the eyes.,There are a lot of circles.,There are a lot of typos and other words.,A poem is a total of 16 sentences.,Each sentence is about 9 words.,There are not a few words.,But a lot of words can't be written.,No sentence is completely written.,I'll let him read the book.,Writing.,He just looked at the writing. ,There are still almost 20 mistakes when I write it.,I don't know what's wrong.,I said this is what you look at and write.,Is there so much wrong?
At the beginning, I thought that he was like this, the teacher asked for it to be memorized again, he didn't care how he memorized, whether it was written correctly, whether it was learned, whether it really achieved the effect, just according to the teacher's requirements, you said let me memorize it again, I memorized it, I didn't care, this is purely to cope with the rhythm of the teacher's homework?
I thought of this at once, and when I went to write again after doing the ideological work, the second time I looked at the writing, there were still a lot of mistakes, what is this, I was also very angry, looking at his careless appearance, I suddenly felt that this child's attitude was not good, and his learning attitude was not good enough.
From 5:19 p.m. when I got home from school, it had already begun, except for half an hour to eat, and half an hour to go out for a walk, and the rest of the time was all about learning this poem, until 11 in the evening:30,I actually memorized it again.,I watched the writing a little more.,The second time I didn't finish writing.,It's looking at the writing.,I wrote so many mistakes.,I read the first copy.,It's still a dense mistake.,I said,You're looking at the writing.,No wonder you memorized it.,But why is this?
After a few hours, I wrote so many words and made a lot of mistakes, is there something on my mind?
I think so now.