Is there any other reason for this child besides not being careful? I asked him, do you don't want to study, because there was a time before when it was like this, I helped him guide his homework, he carried the schoolbag, but when I wanted to tutor, he said that he didn't take his book, not forgetting to bring the expression, obviously deliberately did not take it, after asking carefully, I found that the book was placed in the teacher's desk, I always thought that someone brought the schoolbag, the book should be in the schoolbag, I really didn't expect this result, that day just watched him finish his homework, and then there was nothing, and then I found out that he was obviously not motivated when he was studying, and it was much more negative than before,Last week it wasn't like this.,Last week, the study was still very positive.,The effect is still good.,Later, I heard from my classmates.,He fought with his classmates.,Or his table.,The teacher gave him a new table.,I said that's fine.,The teacher doesn't let you sit with him.,There's nothing to do?

But his absent-mindedness told me that he didn't want to study, which was obvious, and looking at such a poor assignment, even the worst student couldn't write it at all.

What should I do? I was angry at night, I still felt that if I really couldn't give up, if he really couldn't do it, I had to give up, my mother also said, not all children can read very well, parents worked hard, it really can't work, no one can do it, looking at his writing so badly, and so many mistakes, I don't know what to say, he is still writing, but it's already 11:30, my mother said let him go to sleep, I said I'll talk to him, I don't let him sleep, there is my own emotions, there is that kind of expectation that he can study better, I have seen the slightest trace of the fatigue when he grows up and does not study.

I thought I would finish tutoring at 9 o'clock and finish my writing, and the task for the day was completed, but it was almost 12 o'clock, from 5:19 to 11 p.m:30,In addition to the time to eat,That is, 5 hours,Recite a poem of about 160 words,Didn't learn,No effect,I deeply pity my time,If the counseling is really effective,I'm also worth it.,After all, it's a meaningful thing.,But my time is wasted.,It's no effect.,When criticizing him.,Still rolling my eyes and not convinced.,I'm angry and can't eliminate my resentment.,I'm also constantly comforting myself not to be angry.,It's still not good.。

I talked to him.,When it happened to school recently.,It's actually the current table mates who always mess with him and don't let him study.,But it's a problem.,I didn't know it in advance.,I told him that I'll deal with it when there's a situation.,But what is your current mood and attitude towards learning?

And when I was at school, did I have any conflicts with the teacher? He said no, the relationship with the teacher is good, and children who don't like the teacher will also have a heavy dislike of learning, and then I found out that this is the reason, because I am at the same table, and there is nothing else to do, so I said that I know, and I have understood the situation.

Then they went to bed after reasoning, and it was already 12 at night; 23, I can only do those things tomorrow, because it's too late, it's obviously not okay to stay up late to make up for what I want to do, my physical fitness is not good, not to mention, staying up late is also like this, the later I stay up, the harder it is to fall asleep, but I can't sleep that night, I think a lot, and then I still think like this, this is not my own child, I have worked very hard, for his learning, I study with him, I think I work harder than him, after his teacher told him, when I instructed him after class, I read new words, words, pinyin, how many times I read, how many times he reads,The number of times I read is the same.,Close the book.,I asked him like this.,He answered.,As a result, I don't read the book and I know where he's right and what's wrong.,I'm more familiar with the content of his book than him.,Although the time I read the book wasn't the current textbook at all.,The version has been changed many times.,What about the latest version now.,Why is he not as good as me learning?

Obviously, it's not careful, a child's memory should be very good, but it's not as good as my memory, isn't it a joke?

I still have a lot to think about and do, not only to learn his textbooks, but also to comfort myself, I have tried my best, he is not my own child, why am I so angry?

It's not worth it. It's not my fault that he can't learn, besides, when he grows up, he can't learn well or not, can he think of this aunt of his?

It's not his mother, why am I so angry? No, I understand the reason, there are still a lot of aunts who won't be like me, but I still can't sleep, and at 2 o'clock, my head is not good, and I can't sleep, and then I picked up my phone and played for a while, and my mood calmed down, and then I fell asleep smoothly.

The next day, he got up very early, at this time I haven't gotten up, only heard my mother talking about him, how to write, I know that he is already writing, or working hard, this morning started, to 9 o'clock, I just got up to eat, just wrote again, there are still a lot of mistakes, but under the persuasion of my mother, the words are neater than before, that's all, said yesterday 3 times, today again, how many times have this been, it still doesn't work, not at all, it's all because of something？

The psychological work I did last night is still useful, it's better than yesterday, I can only say that, I helped him correct the typos a few times, or the same mistake, I don't know what this is, some words have been corrected a few times, he doesn't remember, he's still such a mistake, can't he change it at all?

What's wrong with this, the heart is not in the study, or not attentive, he just memorized it again, or no, looking at such mistakes repeated again and again, I said I corrected the mistakes for you, you remember such words, the progress is very fast, correct or don't remember, don't change, how to progress, and, this time write the right place, next time it may be written wrong, this is not necessarily, this time it is wrong here, next time it may be wrong somewhere else, every time there is a mistake in the different.

I'm also drunk, 5 times, it's 12 o'clock, noon, what kind of concept is this, when I was in school, I wasn't allowed to write so many times, and I thought it was corporal punishment if I wrote too much, and I tried hard again and again, but it was still so bad, I thought of talking to him, he should have some knots, I heard his mother say that the degree was still good at the beginning, but in the second half of the semester, the grades repeatedly declined, and it got worse and worse, and now it is a bad student.

I haven't been home for a day, I haven't been home for a day, and there's still no effect, if I could go home earlier, wouldn't it be nice to waste my time, but the result is still ineffective, I'm really disappointed, then don't write, let's talk, the second time I started chatting again, I learned that something did happen in his previous school, which affected his enthusiasm.

I knew there was a reason for this, he couldn't untie the knot, he wasn't focused on studying, no matter how hard he tried.

I only knew that the day he went to receive the award that semester, because of the family, he was late, and the school only gave him a certificate afterwards, no prize, and he thought that the reason was because of his tardiness, the school deducted his prize, I thought about such a problem, only to know that when the school issued the prize, there was a difference, but he and his parents were not aware of this problem, he was not there when the award was issued, and he didn't know if others had a prize, and I told him with the example of my little nephew that the award is a prize, but the difference between winning the prize is still very big, the first and second place in the school,And the prize for the tenth place is different.,It's easy to understand.,It's not that the school deducted your prize because you were late.,But because you may not be very good in that exam.,You didn't get the prize.,People give you a certificate to encourage you.。

There are also some students who are like this, although they got the certificate, but the grades are not good, so it is normal to have only one certificate, the little nephew is like this, every time he wins the award, but it is not the same as other people's prizes, some children's prizes are stationery boxes or something, and the little nephew is just a book, or only one certificate, this is very understandable, that is, your grades are not very high, even in the Olympics there is a difference, are all awards, and the difference between gold medals, silver medals, and bronze medals?

Although they are all awards, the rankings are different, the results are different, and the rewards are also different!

As a result, he slowly began to understand this matter, in fact, many times there is a reason, from good to bad, from bad to good, it is the impact of a thing on a person's psychology, a very small thing, can change a person's thoughts and opinions, the result is explained clearly, he understands it, and the knot in his heart is opened.

In the afternoon, it was the last time I memorized it, I hope he will, he wrote it once, this time it was written very carefully, there were only two words reversed, and all the others were correct, I was also surprised, do you read the writing or memorize it?

He said, "I wrote it by heart, and I believed him." After all, I spent time and energy on one thing, hoping to see the effect, and the disappointment without the effect was really bleak.

I said you go play, the study task is completed, go play casually, he hasn't played well from yesterday to today, I let him rest, I'm busy with my own things, I'm making up for last night's writing, I'm very busy, I still have to rush home, hurry.

But after a while, he came to me and said, my Sunday homework has memorized words, I said you prepare first, and find your uncle to read it to you at night, he said he wanted to write now, I said, will you, ready to prepare, this is Sunday homework, I have to be busy, he should also go to rest for a while, but he said, I want to try, I reluctantly said, I want to hurry, you can write, I still think, when I am busy with my own things, he has not finished writing when I hand it over to others I am gone, time does not wait for anyone, the car does not wait for people。

He wrote on the table near me, I wrote my own things, and read them to him, I finished writing my own things, and he finished writing, and when I went to see them, I looked carefully one by one, and I was also taken aback, all the words he wrote were all right, and the words were also good, and there was nothing wrong, but I was not surprised, because the texts would be memorized, and these words were all in the texts, and he finished writing, and the Sunday homework was finished, and he was happy to play.

After a busy day, I finally learned this text and completed the study task.