Grandma has been dead for several years, the third anniversary just held last year, but whenever I think of grandma, I still have a feeling, because when I was studying, every time grandma is too old to walk, but still will sit on the stone at the intersection, watching me go away again and again, watching me go away again and again, watching me carry my schoolbag again and again to ride the vehicle, and at that time I also found that she was really old, and then every time I went back, I just brought her some simple food, milk powder and the like to drink, supplement nutrition, but then I found that I found out that during this time, I was a little unhappy, and I remembered grandmaIn fact, her birthday is very special, that is, July 7 every year - Valentine's Day in the lunar calendar. Although it is just a coincidence, but such a festival, at least it is very easy to remember, every time you can remember such a festival, every year when there are many people in their ears to say happy Tanabata, in fact, they already know in advance, this day is coming soon, many festivals are the same, when the festival is coming, everyone sends some text or other information in advance, saying happy holidays, etc., and some are talking about some holiday stories and the like, those words, and they will also be at this time of the year, every time they will think of their grandmother, remember those things before her death, remembered that every time she occupies such a big position in her own life, every time she goes to her grandmother's to eat delicious snacks, but later I found out that after her grandmother died, everything is gone, and I can no longer see the faces of my relatives, I can no longer find this person, and sometimes I just recall those fragments in my momentary memory.

Our customs here are different from some places, if we celebrate our birthday, we usually have relatives to visit their relatives, if people are still alive, that is, after the age of 60, they will go to celebrate the birthday of their relatives, before the age of 60, but never let the birthday, what kind of reason for this even I don't know? What is the difference between before the age of 60 and after the age of 60, but according to the custom, you can only celebrate your birthday with your relatives after the age of 60, and those before the age of 60 are not allowed to celebrate.

When grandma really left, I found that every year on grandma's birthday, there will still be relatives to go to grandma's grave to have a look, and there will still be relatives who are missing. I still think about some other things, after all, it's family affection, but because such a day is very memorable, I can remember such a day every time, and in such a day, although it is the day of the meeting of the Magpie Bridge, it is also a very good poignant story. And I found out that my grandmother's birthday was just a coincidence.

Thinking of such a day, it is Valentine's Day in China, but on this day there is a story of meeting on the Magpie Bridge, which has been handed down like a good story in the world, that is, the story of their pursuit of love, and they also hope that they have a beautiful emotion every time, but every time they always can't get their wish, after a long time, I found that our life seems to be comparable to the TV series, those plots on the TV series are gradually defeated by us, and the details on the TV series are gradually conquered by us, and those loves in real life may really be more convincing than some mythological stories, maybe that kind of thing has crossed the boundary, has surpassed his own heart, so there is such an inexplicable feeling and extraordinary behavior.

When I found out one day that I really made such a reality very real, it was actually because of my own feelings, everyone has their own feelings, not that you deliberately show it. If you really have your own true feelings, then you can't hide them at all, if you really don't have such real feelings, then how can you disguise your care and truth? Later, I found out that I still lose to feelings, time, fate, and the care and ties in my heart every time.

Although this day is grandma's birthday, but don't think about it so much, after all, it is already a departed relative's feelings, birth, old age, sickness and death are very normal things, and we can't change our own fate, and we can't change the fate of others, everything is God's arrangement, and we only have to accept the reality, in real life, what we like will always exist, what we don't like has long become dust, and it has already become the dusty memory of our past.

When I write this text, perhaps, I really write it for the person I love the most, because I like it, so I care so much, because I like it, I feel that every moment in my life is full of surprises and expectations, so I will pretend to create some accidents and surprises in the area and moment of life. Life does not necessarily develop according to their own ideas, and young people do not necessarily develop according to their own ideas, and I still choose so stubbornly every time, because I do not deliberately want to choose like this, but because I can't control the reality that cannot be changed, so I will insist on it like this.

This reminds me of a truth, whether it is my own feelings, or my own work and other aspects of some problems in real life, when I am really interested, I will find that I can still overcome a lot of difficulties to do it, when I am not interested, I find that I have no patience at all, I have no enterprising meaning, and many times I also find that I like it or not. Whether you care or not is simply your own inner pursuit, and some of the children around us are the same, we should be encouraging them to do what they love to do, so that they can live their lives to the fullest. And every time it's not to pull others onto their own forced track, a few days ago I also bought a lot of books to read at home, but, my husband said, give your books to the children, I said that if people want to read it, people will come to see it, but my husband always thinks every time, after I read these books alone, put them there like a waste, if his children come to see it, it won't waste resources, maybe he has his own ideas, and I didn't agree to it. If people don't want to read books, but every time you say, you should read books, or some other hobby, the end result is that you don't fulfill others, and you make yourself so hard, and the effect is not good. Therefore, when I was a child, I should also observe the children around me, what kind of interests they have, what kind of things they can do successfully, and do what they want to do well, which is the biggest choice. When I told him this, it was just because I thought that children were not yet old enough to read and read, and all the time was spent learning the knowledge in books, and this was the most important task at each stage. When the time is right, it is natural to pull these children around them to the most correct track, so that they can do what they should do in a down-to-earth manner.

So on such a special day, every year I not only wish my grandmother a happy birthday, but also wish myself a good day on this day, but also wish the people around me to be happy.