In real life, we always feel that we have to be kind to others, which is good, but such moments are rare, when encountering things, we often have different ideas, especially in the face of different ideas, we still have to face other people's gossip, face other people's statements, and we don't want to argue at all, because we know that it is meaningless to win or lose.

The reason for the incident is this, the last time I went to repair the motorcycle, because there was nothing to do, I started chatting, that person suddenly asked me, now students have nutritious meals to enjoy, in fact, there is no problem with this, but then he said this, he said, with the nutritious meal project, the person who manages the nutritious meal will make a lot of money, in fact, I don't want to argue about anything, he didn't mean to say it, and I don't want to argue about anything, because I don't manage nutritious meals, so I don't argue, but if I meet someone who manages nutritious meals？

They might have a verbal argument over something like this, and it has nothing to do with me, and I have nothing at stake, so I'm silent.

But I thought a lot about it, and they didn't think about the meaning of letting students supplement their nutrition and so on, but thinking about the profits that people get from managing nutritious meals, so why can't they be kind to others?

The reason is that when we encounter something, we always think about the bad side, that is, the bad side, instead of thinking about the good side of the student.

And last time, the nutritious meal was sent, and people still felt that the things were not good, so they scolded them, saying that the things they sent were not good, but in fact, the things they sent were still good, why didn't they understand it?

It is not necessary to pay for it to enjoy, why don't they feel that these nutritious meals are free of money, they are free to enjoy, it is already very good, in the previous years, our fathers, they couldn't even eat, they also lived like this, but now we not only have improved our living standards, we can eat well, our living standards have been greatly improved, we can eat well, dress well, these needless to say, everyone's life is good, and there are free nutritious meal supplies, how good, how good they can't think of this layer？

Why do you think that the things sent by others are not good? After all, such parents are in the minority, but they also exist.

How much does it affect the mood of others? But this is just my example, in real life, some people often think of some very paranoid thoughts, although such things have never happened, it is a non-existent thing, but when they say it, it will still make others have some unhappiness, in this mode of thinking, we will still feel that they are indifferent to others, although you have a lot of reasons to justify, but you still don't want to argue, whatever they say, but when can this mode of thinking be changed, it is always like losing to others, it is already a good life, but it will still feel that they have not gained a lot, and others are collecting money in a big package, writing so much, for these individual people, it is better to be kind to others, investigate the facts clearly and then talk nonsense, don't guess and draw conclusions!