Chapter 379:
Fang Qing's words made Chu Zheng and Han Zihe stunned, but soon, they figured out Fang Qing's intentions.
"That's how you told Chu Pin?" Han Zihe knew that Chu Zheng didn't want to talk to Fang Qing, so he asked himself, "So, after Chu Pin clearly refused, you want to move us and help you speak?"
After asking like this, Han Zihe looked at Fang Qing slowly bowing his head, and couldn't help but shake his head and said, "But why do you think I'm going to help you speak?" she looked at the other party and said, "Don't talk about it, we must be towards Chu Pin, just say that the child is still young, you just let the child leave Chu Pin and under our noses, and seriously, that's impossible!"
Han Zihe refused very directly: "I know that you probably want to use the language environment to persuade us to cooperate, but the problem is that as long as the language is used and listened to more, it is the same everywhere, but it is just fast and slow! Of course, it will definitely have a better role in promoting children's language abroad, but looking at the problem, you must be clear about the priority! You can't put the cart before the horse, don't you say? The use of language is important, but the shaping of children's thoughts and cognition is even more important, don't you say?"
Han Zihe's tone was very gentle, but when he heard Fang Qing's ears, he thought that her attitude was more firm and more difficult to convince. Fang Qing was silent for a moment, she could only nod, she knew that the other party made her unable to find a better way to persuade her, of course, she still wanted to try to see it again: "For them, the children's broad horizons are ...... There is a big help. So, if you can, why not choose to let them develop in an all-round way!"
"If you want to broaden your horizons and let the children have more knowledge, it's not difficult for us to take the children out to travel, isn't it?" Han Zihe knew that the other party was probably for the good of the children, so even if the other party wanted to persuade her and Chu Zheng, it was not enough to make her angry.
"Seriously, if you say that you take the children out to see, I mean, it's not that you take them out, but to accompany them for a walk, we have no objection, as long as the trip is not too long, we can cooperate with you, but, to be honest, you take the children out, who do you want to take them? You have your own work and love life, for Dabao Xiaobao to leave the familiar living environment, they are in a strange place, without your company at all times, their lives can not be comfortable!"
"You may be mistaken. Fang Qing heard it, Han Zihe thought that the children were going to let her take her out of the country to settle down, so he said this.
So, she hurriedly took out the words with Chu Pin and told them: "...... So, when I'm done, I'm going to bring them all back! And a lot of the kids are moving around with their parents. I can't count how many times I've transferred! Aren't they still growing well?"
"Yes, there are many children like that, but this life is not unaffected for them. For children, a stable life is even more important!"
"But Dabao Xiaobao they are not ordinary children, their IQ is very high! Ordinary children can't adapt to the situation well, they can! So doing it step by step is a waste of time for them!"
"The life of ordinary children is not bad, as long as they can grasp the most suitable development direction, then let them enjoy ordinary life at the same time, and develop their specialties, isn't that great?"
Dabao Xiaobao has a strong learning ability, so the knowledge learned in school is easy to complete, and they can basically be used to learn more knowledge when ordinary children are learning.
"......" Fang Qing didn't expect them to have a soft temper, but they were just as bad at talking, "Can't you just be a summer camp for children?"
"This is different from participating in the summer camp, the children have a domestic team of teachers to follow up, and there are familiar children to accompany them, if they go abroad, most of them still play all the way down; even if they go to the local people's homes to stay, it is actually just a night stay! Most of the time they still have to learn and play with teachers, classmates and local children! And the summer camp time is not long, the children can accept it. ”
Han Zihe clearly said to the other party: "So, I would rather the children participate in such a summer camp than let them go with you!" You can think that we keep the children going, but I really don't think it is a good thing for the children to go abroad before their ideological consciousness matures!"
"Are you afraid that the children will not come back when they go abroad?"
"No, we're just afraid that the children will be affected by the outside after going out for a long time, and they are not suitable for growth!"
Han Zihe said: "We have never denied you from meeting, let alone let you contact children, so if you want to cultivate a relationship with children, it is no problem, but you can't affect their growth direction because you want to have more and better contact with children." ”
"But haven't you all studied abroad?"
"That's why I said that I want to let my children go abroad for graduate school!"
Han Zihe asked Fang Qing: "You arrange the children like this because you want the children?"
Fang Qing nodded.
But Han Zihe shook his head: "You maybe, but you're just afraid that the children will be alienated from you! Otherwise, before separating from Chu Zheng, why didn't you plan for the children to go abroad? Your sister is the sister who went out after the adoptive trip, but grew up with you, it seems that she has already settled abroad, I heard Chu Pin say that the other party has mentioned to you many times before that taking the children out to study? They have promised you that after the children go out, she and her husband can take care of the children. ”
"You didn't approve of it before, but now you regret it, you can't let us think about it too much! Fang Qing, you know very well, right? Children live in China, in fact, it's better!"
"It seems that this time I'm going to ...... It's useless!" Fang Qing smiled bitterly and shook his head.
"If you don't plan to settle abroad, then don't dwell on these, it's better to have more contact with the children when you have time! And, seriously, you yourself have said that this time is not a long time to go out, doesn't that mean that you will be back soon? I haven't seen you and the children a few times in China, so even if you go abroad, you are far away from your children, but as long as you are busy, you may not be able to think of your children! Of course, if you really want to have children, it is easy to do, you can video!"
After Fang Qing heard this, he couldn't help but shake his head and laugh at himself: "I can't help but say it, I really can't talk about you!"
"It's not a question of who says it. ”
“...... Well, why don't you ask the kids what they think?"
Fang Qing can be regarded as mentioning the children, and Han Zihe and Chu Zheng do not object.
He also said very angrily: "Otherwise, we will give you time to contact alone, and you can make it clear to them yourself, if the children really insist on going out with you, then ...... You let the children explain it to Chu Pin by themselves. ”
"If the children want to accept it, you won't object?" Fang Qing didn't think that the other party was so easy to speak, otherwise why would they say their previous opinions?
"You said the children are okay, what can we do? Just make it clear to the children, of course, if they insist that they can't say no, then they have to respect them. ”
Fang Qing was a little angry when she heard this, this co-author, the opinions she gave were not as important as the children's thoughts! If she had known this, why would she have to talk bitterly to the children here! It is better to convince the children directly!
"Yes, if you had asked your child for advice from the beginning and then talked to us about it, you could probably have succeeded!"
Han Zihe just wanted to tell Fang Qing that it was because she didn't value the child, that is, she was too self-righteous, so they didn't accept her opinion!
Fang Qing felt uncomfortable when she heard this.
The reason why she didn't choose to tell her children in the first place was not because she knew that her arrangements for the children were not bad!
Moreover, as long as she said that the children would leave with her this time, then she would have too much time to contact the children, so why rush?
As long as you get along with the child, even if the custody of the child is still with Chu Pin after returning to China, what can you do?
But can you make it clear to them with a big grin?
No!
However, their solution is not bad, as long as they can persuade the children to go with her!
......
"Huh?!going abroad?" Dabao and Xiaobao saw Fang Qing so easily, and they didn't have any affection, when they heard this, they couldn't help but be a little confused!
"Hmm. ”
Fang Qing nodded, and told Dabao Xiaobao what he had said many times before.
"No, I remember, didn't you tell me many times before that you chose to go out when you were in graduate school?"
Dabao's memory is very good, Fang Qing was just about to make persistent efforts and continue to talk about them, they shook their heads and said, "Don't! I don't want to go abroad!"
What the little brothers said was called a neat one!
"It's really useless!" Fang Qing didn't want to be as polite as Chu Zheng and Han Zihe when she talked to the children.
"Isn't it good to go out and see?! Gain a long insight and broaden your horizons, which will be very beneficial to your future development! You have to trust me, I can harm you!"
Fang Qing couldn't help but be a little angry when she saw that she couldn't say anything about Dabao and Xiaobao, and her voice inevitably rose a little when she spoke.
When Xiaobao heard this, his eyes rolled, and he immediately opened his mouth to cry!
Chu Zheng and Han Zihe were not far from outside the reception room, so as soon as Xiaobao made a fuss, they heard it.
"Don't you follow along!" Han Zihe saw that Chu Zheng was about to pass over when he heard the sound, and immediately grabbed his arm and said, "They are Fang Qing's own children, Fang Qing is at most bluffing them, not to mention that Dabao and Xiaobao are so clever? If they see something wrong, they will definitely withdraw, and can they really let Fang Qing fight hard?"
Han Zihe suggested that Chu Zheng should not mix: "Don't look at her as if she respects us, in fact, she can't listen to the advice we give at all, if you go over now, she will definitely think that we instigated the child not to listen to her, then, if she can't get over because of this face, and then let her have a bad heart for the child, it is not good for the child, right?
"Well, it's true! If you hadn't said it, I would really have to be a little treasure!" Chu Zheng nodded and said with a wry smile, "This little guy is really cunning, he just wants to call us over!"
"So you don't pay attention to her!" Han Zihe thinks it's time to educate these little guys!
Besides, who is Fang Qing? She is Fang Qing's child! Therefore, Fang Qing can naturally educate her! How can she have to find ways to use her strength because of an adult's reprimand!
"Now it's time to wrench her!"
Han Zihe feels that this child should be extra careful when he is smart, because sometimes smart children are more likely to have problems!
"Well, when I go back this time, I'll let Chu Pin take care of them. Chu Pin feels that educating children must not bypass the children's parents!
"Listen, isn't this a fuss!" Han Zihe noticed the teacher outside the reception room, and when he saw her waving at them with a smile on her face, he knew that Xiaobao's little trick did not continue.
That's right, the reason why Han Zihe is so one-sided is mainly because there are teachers waiting outside the reception room.
"Why don't you underestimate anyone! Even children, you can't take them lightly!"
Chu Zheng sighed, but in his heart, he was still a little depressed.
Han Zihe ignored him!
Chu Zheng could only sigh when he saw this.
......
"Look! You are making a fuss like this, and your grandparents are not coming, why? It is because they know that I am your mother, and it is a matter of course that I have come to educate you! You can be unhappy or angry, but you can't question my qualifications to educate you!"
Fang Qing was originally afraid that Chu Zheng and Han Zihe would come over and disturb them when they heard the movement, but she didn't expect that the old man and the old lady would really be able to grasp it at a critical time, otherwise, she really didn't know how she was going to contact the children!
"Since you know the legitimacy of my education of you, you have to seriously consider the advice given to you, do you understand?" Because children are smart, many times Fang Qing doesn't talk to them like coaxing children.
"Understood!" Dabao saw that Xiaobao was still protesting, and hurriedly stretched his girl's sleeve, signaling her to be interesting, after all, no one came to solve the siege without seeing it?
If you still can't figure it out...... That's stupid!
"But understanding is understood, but understanding is not the same as accepting!" "Dabao is his brother, how old is he, no, he is a little talker, and he immediately lost his temper when he said Fang Qing.
"Why don't you think about it?" Fang Qing said weakly.
"Don't think about it!" Without waiting for Dabao to say, Xiaobao immediately followed, "We don't want to go! We just want to live here! Even if we want to go out, we must wait until we are fully grown!"
Although Xiaobao spoke first, Dabao was very much in favor of this opinion!