Sometimes we inevitably fall into a dilemma, because others obviously don't let us do something, and we still do it every time, maybe it's really for the sake of conscience, so we think like this, do it like this, but later we find out that this is really good for ourselves and others?

Many times, a lot of things, we still think over and over again, so that we think a lot, think very complicated, but also cause confusion of thoughts, in fact, people are like this, thinking like a wild horse on the plains, when you think a lot, there will be a kind of cranky illusion, will cause some unnecessary troubles, and I slowly found that I also fell into such a predicament at some point, some time ago, I think the leader said to let me take sick leave, but I really feel that I can still go to work, although sometimes confused, although sometimes slow to react, but I can still insist on going to work, what the leader said is also rightMaybe she thinks I really can't do a good job, but then I found out that I really don't want to take sick leave, take the country's salary for nothing, but, let me resign, the leader disagrees, I really don't know what to do, and then I thought for a long time, what to do is good for others, but after thinking for a long time, I still don't know how to deal with this matter, and finally I also found that we do a lot of things out of conscience, are hoping that every day, we are responsible for the work we have done, and we must go to work every day, instead of opportunistically taking sick leaveThis is not a good phenomenon at all, but later I realized that I am doing this for the good of others?

Others obviously don't let me do it, but I'm still doing it like this, maybe it's really because of a job, my classmates also encountered a similar dilemma, at that time, it was difficult for the leader to speak, but we were still there, only to find out that we had reached the age of 30s, and we had reached the age where we could no longer change jobs casually, and we didn't dare to jump jobs casually, because interlacing is like a mountain, and starting again in another industry may be the biggest challenge for ourselves.

So we don't dare to change jobs easily, we don't dare to leave easily, but when we really have the idea of resigning, we find out, why do others disagree?

Why is this the case? I don't agree and I can't go to work, but how do I do it?

How should I do my job, but then I found out that it is still so natural, I can only do a good job every day, after all, it is a job, I can't go away, and I don't have a good mood to do it, but I still slowly insist on it, for example, my classmates told me some time ago, she said that because the work was not going well, she was ready to change jobs and then look for a new job, but after a year, when I asked her again, she told me that the original job did not skip the exercise, and occasionally endured it when it was the saddest, maybe she was right, in many cases we survived like this, and it slowly passedIn fact, many times we are always thinking about others every time, but the leader is also thinking about us, thinking that if you take sick leave, you can go home and rest for a while, and adjust your emotions well, but I can't do anything, I always feel that I can still go to work, and it will be much better to mediate my current situation in my free time and holidays on Sunday.

So when school starts, you still have to go to work well, do a good job, so that you don't let others gossip, will let yourself enter the state faster, this may be a result I want, and can't because of a little thing, and choose to skip the, now it's not easy to jump job, re-choose a place, to face the unfamiliar environment again, to face new colleagues, to be a new employee, to face other people's pickiness and white-eyed again, in fact, sometimes we can't start over, this is because we don't want to go through the same childish things again, and sometimes we also hope to be able to persist in an industry, to be able to do a lifetime of steadfastness, so that even if I am bad, I am also an experienced and capable person, and can not continue to jump ship, do all the three hundred and sixty lines, and there is no work I want to do?

It's not very good for us at all, when I was in college, my teacher told us that he had met some people, and they were still hanging around the talent market years after graduation, do you think that's sad?

Although we sounded a bit unbelievable at the time, but in the end I was actually such a person, I felt like I was listening to a joke, but later I found out that such a thing still happened to us people, we graduated for several years, some still have to go to the talent market to find a job, or to find a job we want, just challenging job, people are like this, always ambitious, feel that a good job, is to have a good working environment and good treatment, so it is a good choice, but later we found out that in fact, a good job as long as it is done well, this is the greatest funWe also slowly realized that if you do a job with a monthly salary of 10,000 yuan, then your monthly workload is 10,000 yuan of workload, and the monthly salary you earn every month is 2,000 yuan, and the monthly workload is 2,000 yuan of workload.

Later, we slowly chose a relatively stable work and life, slowly learned how to work and live, and how to balance the relationship between the two.

And it is not necessarily necessary to choose those jobs that are intriguing and challenging with all aspects of their body and health, which is not the wisest choice at all, so it is better to do the current job well and grasp the present.

I also want to learn a little lesson in real life, in the future, others will not let me do the work, don't do it so reluctantly, it is not interesting at all, since I didn't get a good face, and I didn't achieve good results, why bother?