When we encounter multiple choices, standing at the crossroads of life, we don't know whether to turn left or right, sometimes we think that this is okay, that is okay, but what is the future?

We don't know at all, it's all about choosing, sometimes maybe your choice is right, maybe your choice is wrong, and there is no other way to have an effect, but we can't see the future road at all, we can't see what will happen in the future, we can't see what kind of status quo the future will have, and we can't see what kind of results the future will have, but we still have to have a kind of psychological preparation in advance, for example, Du Fu, he has an early warning every time, he has an advance view, he already knows what will happen before something happens, so he will prepare in advance every time, he successfully predicted the Anshi Rebellion, prevention and preparation in advance, and what we need to do in real life is to pay more attention to what every time, people in real life, where the heart is, where the achievement is, and what you pay attention to, there will be some unexpected gains, you pay attention to things every day, it will definitely be unpredictable in the end, this is the wonder of people.

Many times when we don't pay attention to the future at all, you can't see the future road clearly, you don't know what will happen in the future, and every time you don't have a foresight, you must have worries to think about some problems, maybe you can really feel what will happen in the future, and we can't see the road clearly, maybe you will guess wrong, maybe you don't know whether the future will be simulated according to your own thinking, and whether the future will be according to your own thinking, but we at least have a pre-idea, so that we can take precautions, not when we encounter things, we are in a hurry to prepareAt this time, it is very late, and we face these unclear roads, when we see the future, we don't know whether our choice is right or wrong, sometimes it happens that our choice is right, then we are really happy, saying that my choice is right, in fact, there is a lot of luck in it, and sometimes our choice is wrong, maybe it is just a thought, and we don't need to blame ourselves, why I didn't make another choice at the beginning, and such a choice, you see how much regret now, is there no need for this？

If you want to make a more correct choice, you need to learn some sense of worry. There is a saying that is born in sorrow and dies in peace.

Seeing this sentence, we know that sorrow is often accompanied in our lives, but this causes us to be able to spend it safely every time, and you don't think about sorrow every time, every time you sit back and enjoy it, so a comfortable life, and finally you will find that you are facing death, so although you can't see what will happen in the future, but there is still a sense of worry about ourselves, so that we can reduce the number of wrong judgments, many times we have to make such a choice, at any time, we have to make a choice, in the face of ambiguous things, at the crossroads that cannot be chosen, in the end we have to choose a direction out。

And what Fan Zhongyan said was the worries of the world first, and the joy of the world after that, his sorrows were so grandiose and so confident, which made us think of his mind, so he has always been a poet who worries about the country and the people, and although we can't do such magnificent things, we can at least have a sense of distress for ourselves, what will happen in the future?

What are we going to face now? These should be considered by ourselves, in the face of those roads that we cannot see clearly, we have already set out, we have made preparations, we have no longer been afraid, and we will not suffer from gains and losses on the road ahead.

However, in real life, we can't see the future clearly, some people play a very important role in our lives, they will always give us all kinds of advice every time they encounter something, and some people will always ask us what to do, what to do, for example, some time ago someone has been asking me, should I resign?

I can't tell my family, but after asking several times, I found out that he actually has no idea in his heart, in fact, he is more focused on resigning, or insisting on working, he should have a choice in his heart, but every time he always asks others, should I resign or stay and continue to work?

What should I do? Should I tell my family? But later, every time we gave him advice, we didn't know what kind of advice was good, and sometimes told him that if you wanted to resign, you should resign, but then when he asked once, we saw the melancholy in it, and saw his reluctance to work, if he really wanted to resign, he might leave all of a sudden, and there was really no need to ask me again and again, whether he wanted to resign or not?

After asking many times, I found that he still has a little attachment to work, so he doesn't resign, but he wants to resign every time, every time he wants to ask what to do, in fact, we don't know what to do, his work is not going well, can he do it handily in all aspects, can he find happiness in his work, this is simply what we can't understand, and the party has always been him, in the future on those unclear roads, everyone has a choice, maybe you are looking for a job, not as good as the current job, maybe you are looking for a job, for yourself is a kind of promotion, has far exceeded the current jobIt's all possible, what will happen in the future?

How to go in the future, this is not clear to us, so we still have to make a variety of choices when we encounter problems, or to make a good and prudent choice, since we have chosen not to regret, since we have chosen to persevere, there is a sentence called the road you choose to kneel and finish, although such a sentence has not sounded in the ears for a long time, but there are still some encouraging effects.

Can't see the road clearly, we still have to stick to the way, and can't always stand at the crossroads hesitating, so it's just a waste of their time, a waste of life, time will not wait for you, and life is also passing in 1 minute and 1 second, whether we go left or right, we will eventually have a choice, just stick to what we think is the right path, keep walking, you won't be wrong, all roads lead to Rome, we will meet in Rome, and someone is already waiting for you in Rome.