I didn't write this article for a long time because I really didn't know how to write it, and it was an incident that happened to someone we knew in our neighborhood.

Because it is inconvenient to write the names of the characters, they can only use small A and small C instead of names.

The story goes like this, Little A and Little C are upstairs and downstairs neighbors. However, neighbors like Xiao A and Xiao C got along very well at the beginning, because there was nothing to do, and they didn't have anything to experience, so they got along okay.

In fact, people are like this, when they don't experience anything, there is no friction between people, and there is no fighting, at this time you can't see the ugliness of human nature at all, but when something really happens, you find out that there is a fight between people, and you find that a lot of things will happen in life.

The quarrel on this day is actually very simple, that is, when the upstairs Xiao A's home is equipped with air conditioning, the air conditioner is installed on the bay window of Xiao C's house, sometimes some people think that the problem is really strange, especially the installation of air conditioning, Xiao C is also a person at home, many people will not install air conditioning on the bay window, because they generally build a bracket, so that the air conditioner is suspended in the air, but the people of Xiao A's family, especially Xiao A, always look cheap and not enough.

Such a family wants to put the air conditioner on the bay window, you can save part of the cost, and the air conditioner is placed on the bay window, which is also very good, but this is just his own idea, when they go to install it like this, Xiao C tells them that they can't install the air conditioner on the bay window, because Xiao C also has her own considerations, if the air conditioner is installed on the bay window, everyone knows that the air conditioner has air-conditioning water, and the wastewater discharged from the air conditioner flows down the window of Xiao C's house, which is very inappropriate, this is the way Xiao C thinks about the problem, so Xiao C tells all the staff of Xiao A's house that you can't let such a device be installed on the bay window, and you need another bracket, but the people of Xiao A's family didn't agree with anything, because they always felt that they didn't take advantage of it every time, and the people who installed the air conditioner at that time also said that it could be installed on the bay window, so they seemed to have a reason to install it on the window of Xiao C's house, so there was a contradiction, and in the end, the people on the property were called, and there was still no explanation.

In fact, sometimes for such things, many things are not clear, especially such things, I think to understand each other, both sides tolerate each other, such things will be solved, but both of them can not tolerate each other, so there is a contradiction, sometimes, you find that the neighbor you keep talking about, in fact, is not necessarily very close to yourself, sometimes the neighbor will not necessarily help you anything, and just today he is your neighbor, sometimes you find that you are not related to the cause, don't care so much。

However, I later found out that after such a thing happened, the neighbors were still not so good, and it was better to take care of each other's emotions and not hurt others before the incident happened.

Later, I found out that when the air conditioner was being installed, it was also Xiao C who made concessions, because Xiao C's husband felt that he wanted to make concessions, and every time he always felt that he wanted to make concessions, so he asked the family to install the air conditioner, but then a lot of problems happened, especially the air conditioning of Xiao A's house discharged a lot of air conditioning water, that is, it flowed down the window of Xiao C's house every time。

In fact, many times, as neighbors, we should think that whether it is the beginning of the problem or the end of the problem, at the beginning of the installation of air conditioning, we should think that there is such a problem, but they may not think of the existence of such a problem, but feel that occupying the place of other people's homes is a matter of taking advantage, especially the people of Xiao A's family, maybe they think like this, and the people of Xiao C's family do not agree except for Xiao C, and Xiao C's husband is also very shy, so causing today's situation, I found out that in fact, as long as there are people between people, there will be quarrels, there will be fights。

But when we deal with the problem, we can't be like you at all, every time it's always cheap and not enough, and Xiao C because her husband is very weak, so she was installed with air conditioning like this, if this is really the case, in fact, in real life, we will also find that don't take advantage of others, there are many disadvantages in the cheap.

And in the process of getting along with the neighbors, this kind of practice is not appropriate at all, because this kind of occupying other people's space, such a happiness based on the pain of others, is really an inappropriate phenomenon, when the air conditioning water of Xiao A's house flows down the balcony of Xiao C's house, and flows down the window of Xiao C's house, Xiao A's house is an inappropriate practice.

In fact, whether it is between neighbors, or in the process of getting along with others, don't take advantage of yourself, but don't suffer a loss, sometimes we find that if you have been suffering, after a long time, others will think that you are very stupid, very good to bully, and sometimes we also don't like to be a person who takes advantage of each time, but we also don't want to be bullied by others every time, and at such times, I have also thought about it, sometimes, always being bullied by others, you will find that being bullied by others has become a habit, your life has no direction, there is no coordinatesIn real life, everyone is like this, do not suffer or take advantage, so do a good job of yourself, manage your work and life, do your own job, is a very good choice, in getting along with people can not be too much, in the process of getting along we just found this little a, there is a little bit of excess, but sometimes, we have no way, can only tolerate each other like this.