Father's Day without a father

It's been a few days since Father's Day, and I realized that I didn't feel anything at all when I celebrated Father's Day, maybe my father was too far away from me!

Some people think that even if they don't have a father, they will have a good Father's Day, especially the last time I saw "Father's Day Without a Father" on the Internet When I see such an article, many people will also find that some people are celebrating Father's Day because they have their own biological fathers, and they will be able to have a lively festival on Father's Day, give their fathers some gifts, and honor their fathers, but how should those of us who have no fathers celebrate such a holiday?

Some people write an article about Father's Day without a father, such an article comes out, and after we read it, sometimes, such a blessing, we are still not very suitable, especially myself, when I see such an article, I don't feel at all, but just want to write a little article, want to write a little thing, and such a title as father seems to be really too far away from me.

Looking back, in the past years, because there were no fathers, my Father's Day really became a blank, such a Father's Day, every time it became like a normal day, and I seemed to have forgotten what day Father's Day was, what Sunday of the month it was?

But although I have never had such a festival, I later found out that when I thought of such a festival, my father had passed away for 13 years, and in such 13 years, we have gradually lived our own lives well, and gradually let ourselves be happy, happy, happy, and satisfied every day.

But a few days ago in the office when I talked about Father's Day, I was also in the office, and my colleagues said those words, I said, I haven't had Father's Day for a long time, it's true, I haven't paid attention to such a holiday for a long time, just because my father has passed away, and those blessings I think are just a little bit of my own mood!

Some people think that they should give some blessings to their father in heaven. But every time I think about this, I think that I once had the experience of having a son who wanted to raise but didn't want to be a parent, so now, I don't have any thoughts about Father's Day at all, because my father has passed away, and I may not have any comfort to my father in such a blessing.

But my mother is still alive and well by our side, so every time I think of Father's Day, I still want my mother to be happier and be able to honor my mother, which is the best comfort for my father.

In fact, when I thought about this, I realized that it is a good choice to take good care of my mother, so that she can be happy, happy, and happy in her lifetime, and sometimes, we pay too much attention to those forms, and we can't honor our mothers well in the lifetime of our parents, and when we can't honor our parents, and give some blessings to our parents in heaven, in fact, we still feel that we should be filial, which is much better than giving some blessings to our parents.

In fact, sometimes we will find a lot of problems, especially such a festival, there are many festivals in China, in such a festival, each festival has the origin and intention of each festival.

But when I saw Father's Day, I don't know who wrote an article on Father's Day, such a festival, saying that Father's Day in China should be August 8, that is, the 88th Festival, and said that Father's Day on the third Sunday in June is an American holiday, in fact, they are not wrong, Father's Day on the third Sunday in June is indeed the first created by Americans, which is the content of the moral book in primary school, I also have some of my own festival dates and times, and I have some of my own festival customs, which is also very good, but later I found out that no matter what kind of festival it is, especially such a father's day, and I don't have a father at all, such a festival is nothing for me, but I have been reminding myself to honor my mother and take good care of my mother.

This is what I understood in the instant after my father died, and I grew up in an instant. In fact, I also knew before, in the years when my father was alive, I also felt that taking care of my mother was my father's business.

At that time, my father and mother cared for each other and took care of each other, so we didn't have to worry so much, but when my father died, we found that taking care of my mother slowly became a matter for our siblings.

But then I found out that on such a father's day without a father, I saw an article written by others, and I also had a lot of insights, especially in such a festival, to do what I should do, and in the face of my father in heaven, I really don't know what to say, and what I can do is to take good care of my mother and be a filial child, in fact, many times no matter what my mother does, I have to follow my mother's wishes, so that my mother can laugh happily every day, so that it is filial piety!

Sometimes Chinese homophones are still very interesting, especially one of the meanings of filial piety, which is laughter.

It is the best choice to be able to honor her mother well in her lifetime and let her enjoy her old age in peace.

And my idea is that there is no father's Father's Day, then it is just Father's Day, such a holiday as the most ordinary day to go, it is also very good, although I have not had a good Father's Day in these ten years, but I also have no regrets, because there is no father, so this item is a kind of lack, but also to avoid a lot of trouble, just to live a good life and take care of the family, work well, is the greatest comfort to the father!