People get along with each other, many times it should be sincere to make one or two intimate friends, however, many times we don't know about other people's character, and we don't know anything else, but most of us know because of what? Many times it comes from others helping themselves in an unintentional situation, or helping others in an unintentional situation, in this case, many friendships established more or less have some elements of interest, I really found that several of my feelings come from this, sometimes when others help themselves, they are soft-hearted, moved, so they know the benefits of others, and then begin to be the same good to others. Or better, but after a long time, the existing friendship slowly faded away, which is a very normal thing, after all, people are changing, the environment is also changing, nothing is static, but when such pain hits, I seem to find that many people are actually passers-by in their lives.

Is it the same with a lot of friendships in other people? When you find that a person is really good to you, sometimes it is not necessarily good to you, sometimes there may be other purposes, but we don't know what such a purpose is for a while, or we know what the purpose is, but we will still be moved by those small favors, maybe people are such an animal, when they encounter something that conforms to their own hearts, it is really unstoppable and will accept, or accept it so quickly, and sometimes, we are obviously for the good of others, and the words we say will inevitably be contrary to the ear, so that others not only do not listen, but there will still be some other opposite effects。

Therefore, in the days to come, no one dares to tell the truth, even if it is the person closest to them, they do not dare to say so, because it is difficult to be accepted, sometimes they will still change the way, or change one or several other ways to say, and sometimes the words they say will be accepted by others, and sometimes they will not be accepted by others. That's why people can't tell the truth to each other.

Nowadays, the relationship between people and people has become more and more difficult to get along, in fact, it is difficult to get along, in fact, it is easy to get along, because now many people have become just for interests, and do not consider emotional things, so it is easy to get along because as long as there are interests, there will be affection, but once the interests are gone, such feelings will fade, which is the current rule of doing things.

It is only now that I have discovered that such rules of doing things are still different from the most original components of people, in the beginning, people should exist with feelings, but one day, all of them have changed their flavor and changed into interests, and such things and the status quo are slowly accepted by some people, and even not in the first place, but isn't this kind of society frightening?

Many of today's friends, they only think about themselves in many cases, and don't think about other people's difficulties at all, so in many cases, such feelings can't last long, why do they only think about themselves, the reason no one wants to know, because such reasons should be hurtful.

When such an era comes, I don't know whether to be happy or sad, because I can't figure out how to cry or where to cry. Because the whole world is like that, and I don't seem to find a single voice that would stand up and say something fair, something true and true.

In people's hearts, no one dares to say it, no one dares to do this, because no matter what kind of society it is, there is always a reason for its formation, and this is the general direction of society, or it is really the trend of social development, and we cannot change it.

I also slowly began to accept this reality, although I sometimes have a lot of unaccustomed phenomena, but those phenomena still do not change to their own preferences, when you don't like things does not mean that others don't like it, for example, drinking bars, I really don't like it, smoking, these are, but it doesn't mean that others don't like it, what can be done when you don't like it? But people who like it still really like it, they really know the pros and cons, but they will still insist, such things are common, and they happen from time to time around them, but what can they change? We can't change anything at all, just like the relationship between people now, we know what it should be like, but the reality is really not what we imagined, what can we do? It's just that we will only increase our sadness, hurt ourselves, and there will still be many other things like this in the future, and we can't change it at all, let alone other things.

When I write this text today, I know that maybe it's true, maybe it's not true, maybe it can't really change anything at all, it can't change at all, but I can only say that this text I wrote can help me improve my writing level, this is certain, and I can only think about it this way to comfort my desolate heart. Seeing so many helpless things, I was indignant at the beginning, but after a long time, I became numb, and people said that this is the so-called growth, is this really the case? I don't know, but I have been pondering, when I can think about the problem that is not esoteric in saying this, it is my greatest pleasure, but I don't know when I can think about it.

Or do I feel sad that I can't do anything about this happening over and over again, or I just don't want to do anything at all, and I can't even tell myself what I think, what about others? Maybe it's the same as me, things that can't be changed, so I can only slowly accept the reality, accept the so-called growth, and hope everything goes as I wish.