Everyone hopes that the people around them can be a person who is consistent with the inside, and when I wrote the title of this person who does not necessarily have to be the same person on the outside, I also thought about it for a long time, is it contrary to everyone's point of view?

Is there some rebellious feeling, but later I found out that I still have some ideas, maybe my ideas are not very correct, but I still want to say, publish, welcome everyone's correction, wrong, I hope you can tell me in time, let me correct it as soon as possible, I think, you don't have to be the same person on the outside, for example, I have seen a lot of people, some of them are very ordinary on the outside, but they are very connotative people on the inside.

Many times it is like this, what we think of as the inside and outside may be what we think in our hearts, how to speak or do things, this is called the same inside and outside, what we think is not to deceive others, we must be realistic to say, so that we will get the affirmation and respect of others, but what I want to say is different, some people are indeed very different from the inside, some people wear bright and bright on the outside, but there is no connotation on the inside, and some people, on the surface they dress very poorly, very ordinary, but you can't imagine that someone may be a capable manager, or may be a bossIt is also possible that it is a person who is very capable of making us unattainable, and these are all possible.

The phenomena we see in real life are not necessarily our reality, maybe we will also be confused by a lot of illusions, but in the matter of doing the same thing, maybe my understanding is too one-sided, every time I will always understand such a word from a one-sided aspect, for example, the inside and the outside are the same, the meaning of the appearance is the inner meaning, I can easily understand that the outside and the inside are the same, in fact, many times my thoughts are also very simple, because slowly I also found that gradually in the teaching process of several years, it has become a child's thinking, and I don't want to bother to think about such complicated things。

And sometimes children's thinking is enough, enough for our life, and you think so much, it is just an increase in the burden on yourself, and if we think less, we find that our thinking is simple, and life is also simpler.

If you really want to be a person who is consistent on the outside, it is a glamorous appearance on the inside is also a very connotative presentation, and some people who are very ordinary on the outside, maybe they are also very ordinary on the inside, these are even the so-called cases of the same, but sometimes we find that our eyes are liars, and sometimes we will be confused by all the illusions.

I also saw a lot of chicken soup texts on the Internet, and before, I still liked to read these inspirational texts for a period of time, but later I found out that it was not necessary, because the stories of those successful people are just the success of others, and I still have to face every day's life, or face every morning's alarm clock, or face every day's things to do, or face every day's troubles.

And other people's success may have a lot of external conditions, or there may be opportunities in other aspects, but we can only do our best, work hard to do ourselves, and leave the rest to fate, and those who have external conditions, we also carefully examine a lot of people around us, and some are grassroots success, and some families are a person with a family background, so we use the resources of the family, such success, we cannot deny the ability of others, but with such a family background, it is enough to support other people's dreams, and we do not have such a family background, so we have to silently accept something, live our every daySometimes, when we insist on doing something without asking about the result, we may really have an unexpected harvest in the end, this is the expectation in life, we are just like Ma Yun said, we still have to have dreams, what if it comes true?

In fact, although such a sentence carries many miracles, but what can we do? We are still waiting for a miracle, or looking forward to a miracle, looking forward to a miracle to come to each of us, in real life, everyone, hope to succeed, but we still lack all kinds of conditions, but we have at least worked hard, and it does not prove that we have not worked hard, we do not need many conditions from the outside world, in the later times we also found out, as long as we can stand up to the sky, it is enough, there is no need to fight for the father!

But having said so much, I later found out that there is no need to care about the appearance and the inside, everyone has their own characteristics, some people like to pay attention to the appearance, dress themselves up brightly, so that they will feel confident, only to feel very confident in front of others, and have a good sense of self, but some people do not pay attention to the appearance at all, will pay attention to some substantial improvement and development, and some people are glamorous on the outside, and the inside is also very good, but there are not many such people, so in real life they still have to respect their own opinions, you don't have to be a person who is the same on the outside, and you don't have to be a glamorous person, and what others want to do is completely determined by other people's will, right?

I can't simply blindly deny other people's views, but what kind of person I am, then respect my own meaning, this is a sudden idea during this time, you don't have to be a person who is the same on the outside, but what you think is the same on the outside may be the same as I think on the inside and outside, there are some differences, it has been explained very clearly, what I think is the same inside and outside, that is, the appearance and the heart are such a very simple understanding, and you may have a deeper understanding of it, and I can only say what I want to say, spit it out, that's all。