Chapter 189: Actually, I'm a traverser
Chen Quan smiled and said, "Simple hypnosis, I know." ”
Du Caige was full of expectations, but she continued: "However, I will judge whether to use hypnosis to advance the consultation based on the actual situation." If you are clear that the next step is that I have to do a session with hypnotherapy, then I can only apologize, I may not be a good fit for you, and you need to find another counselor. I can refer you to a well-known counselor in the industry who is good at hypnotherapy, and turn your basic situation along with you, and try to make your new counselor seamless with you. ”
"No, do what you think, Teacher Chen Quan, hypnotize me when you think it is appropriate. Du Caige hurriedly said.
He has a memory fragment, which is Chen Quan's psychological counseling for the original owner.
Chen Quan knew the original owner's biggest secret.
It saved him a lot of things.
Du Caige found it difficult for him to let down his guard and tell another counselor about everything.
"Yes, I will use hypnotherapy appropriately according to your own judgment and according to your needs," Chen Quan paused for a moment, revealing her trademark gentle, empathetic smile, "So there is still a little time today, would you like to continue talking?" Although there may not be enough time to solve major problems, I think this kind of casual chat should also be beneficial to you." ”
Du Caige was silent.
Chen Quan didn't urge, just looked at him with a smile.
Didn't stare into his eyes, didn't put pressure on him, just looked at him very easily.
In such an atmosphere, Du Caige felt that he could say the most unspeakable thing. Finally, he decided to take the plunge.
After making up his mind, he said with difficulty: "I have recovered a little memory before, and one of them is that you consulted him. He said to you......"
"Him?"
"Yes, please don't interrupt me. ”
"I'm sorry, I'm just surprised that you call yourself in the third person. ”
"For me, that's him, that's not me. ”
Chen Quan's eyes were deep, and he nodded lightly: "I'm sorry, I have some things I don't understand, but you can wait for you to finish talking about it, please continue." ”
"At that time he told you that he felt that there was another soul living in his body. Do you remember?"
Chen Quan nodded: "Impressed." ”
Du Caige raised his head and looked at her: "I am the other soul. Also, I consider myself a traverser, a traverser, do you understand the word? So I have a lot of other worlds in my memory. Of course, I'm not trying to prove that I'm a traverser, and I don't want to be treated like a psychopath by you, just to tell you how I feel. ”
Chen Quan did not show a look of astonishment.
Her expression was still smiling, gentle, empathetic, and a little surprised, but generally calm.
After a long time, she spoke: "I remember, I will consult you ......"
"Give it to him. ”
"Well, when I counseled him, he said that he felt that the other soul was unconscious, or that consciousness was sleeping. ”
"I remember this situation. ”
"Now you say, you are the other soul. ”
"I think I am. ”
Chen Quan squinted slightly, looking at Du Caige, as if he was assessing his mental stability.
Du Caige was a little apprehensive, worried about being misinterpreted and not being accepted, but he still boldly looked back at her.
Her pupils are darker, her demeanor is calm, and her demeanor is elegant.
It is said that women are like cats.
Among the women Du Caige has ever seen, she is the most cat-like.
Although it is an old cat, its fur has lost its luster and is no longer premature, but it is still elegant.
That elegance was carved into her bones.
After a while, she finally spoke slowly, "I'm glad you're being honest with me. But what I don't quite understand is that you tell me that you are the other soul, are you simply telling me about it, or do you want me to do something about it?"
Du Caige said without hesitation: "No, I just hope that our next consultation will be based on this cognition. I don't think it's a psychological problem, and I hope you don't think it's mine. I am currently in good mental condition, with clear self-awareness, and the only problem is amnesia. The only purpose for me to come to the consultation is to get to know him in the past, awaken more fragments of memory, find his life, and then live my own life well. ”
"Yes," Chen Quan replied without hesitation, "I will remember that this is the cognitive basis for our consultation." ”
Du Caige felt that he was completely relaxed.
Only then did he realize that he had been so nervous that he was sweating for a while.
It does take some courage to say those things and risk being considered crazy.
But after saying it, he got the respect and recognition of the other party (Chen Quan didn't necessarily believe it, or it could be said that she didn't believe it at all, but at least she agreed), and he felt that he was now in the most relaxed state after crossing over.
"Well," he smiled, relieved, "the biggest hurdle has passed." What's next?"
"It's all yours and you can talk about whatever you want. Chen Quan smiled.
After thinking about it, Du Caige said: "I want to talk about Duan Xiaochen......"
......
At 6 o'clock, Du Caige took the stack of A4 paper that Chen Quan had printed and sealed into a brown paper bag, came to the door, thanked Chen Quan, and said goodbye.
Chen Quan still had that gentle, empathetic smile on his face: "Based on your current situation, I think the frequency of bi-weekly consultations is enough. Remember, two weeks later, at the same time. If you want to cancel your consultation, or if you have something to do at short notice, you need to call me in advance, otherwise I will still charge you. ”
"I know the rules of this business. So how much does it cost to consult today......"
Before he finished speaking, he was interrupted by Chen Quan: "Your consultation fee has already been prepaid." ”
Du Caige was a little surprised: "Can you tell me who it is?"
"I'm sorry, but I promised to keep it a secret for that lovely girl, who is also my patient. In fact, when you were in a difficult financial situation before, she paid for several consultations, if you remember. ”
Du Caige understood in seconds, "Duan Xiaochen?"
Chen Quan looked at him with a smile and didn't say anything, but persuaded: "I suggest that you don't need to dig deeper." It's not a number for you or that girl, and it's not a favor. ”
Du Caige nodded: "I know." However, it's hard not to be touched when you learn that someone cares about you in every way. ”
"If you wish, we can open up on this topic for the next consultation. ”
"I'll talk about it next time. Thank you again, Mr. Chen Quan. Du Caige waved goodbye.
After seeing Du Caige leave, Chen Quan's eyes became a little solemn, returned to her computer, put on reading glasses, opened a document, and began to record.
8 May 2008, 18th consultation.
The client's temperament has changed greatly, and there have also been changes in word habits and language styles, so it can be said that he has completely changed a person.
It can be seen as a huge change in personality. Rapid personality changes in such a short period of time are usually accompanied by intense mental stimulation and even mental abnormalities.
However, based on observation and judgment, the client did not have any mental symptoms.
The counselor deliberately examined him in some small details, such as telling him that he had never mentioned who his child's biological mother was, and he did not suspect it.
Judging by all indications, he did have complete amnesia.
In addition, the visitor may suddenly have a super memory.
Along with complete amnesia from past events, there is also the emergence of a super-memory ability, which may have a specific meaning and will be tried to verify at the next consultation.
If true...... Delete, delete, delete.
The visitor refers to him in the third person, as if he has been disconnected from the past.
He seems to think that he is a latent second personality that awakens after the death of the first personality, and whether there is a depersonalization, or dissociative personality, or schizoid personality disorder, is to be verified.
Currently, the client is emotionally stable, not aggressive, has no depressive symptoms, no psychiatric symptoms, and is eager to receive hypnotherapy to awaken past memories.
But the visitor considers himself a traverser and believes in it. In the absence of any other psychiatric symptoms, this cognitive bias may represent certain not-so-good tendencies.
Consider superficial hypnosis for him starting with the next consultation.
Consultation process:
Interview: I forgot that I had a daughter and that I was married.
Counselor: You've never been married, you're still single. I don't know who your daughter's mother is, but I guess it.
Interview: How old is my daughter?
Counselor: 6 years old.
Interviewer: I don't think I have any psychological problems, I'm happy now, I just want to know about my past......
......
Du Caige came out of the consultation room and stood downstairs for a while, carefully reviewing what he had said before and reviewing Chen Quan's expression.
No problem.
It seems that the consultation should go smoothly.
Then he hurried to meet Fan Yuhong for dinner, talked while eating, and roughly explained what he was going to deal with next.
Fan Yuhong has been listening carefully.
Then the two made an appointment to meet tomorrow morning, Fan Yuhong had a model contract there, and if Du Caige saw it, he would have to sign it.
Neither of them drank, and Du Caige found out that Fan Yuhong seemed to have been struggling to endure something, but he also had something on his mind, always thinking about his daughter, and was a little absent-minded, so he didn't ask much.
However, when the two of them finished eating and were about to drive home, Fan Yuhong asked: "What are you doing today, you don't seem to be in a state?
"He's not scolding," Du Caige smiled, "As a senior in the literary world, even if he talks and relies on the old and sells the old, I can only pinch my nose and admit it." ”
Fan Yuhong pointed at him with a smile: "You, listening to your first half of the sentence, I thought you had become honest." After listening to it, I realized that you are still so arrogant. ”