When I was young, my personality was a little withdrawn, and I don't know why I was such a character when I was a child, so in such a character, I also found that my personality should be a little introverted, but I didn't know what my introversion was, sometimes, when I was studying, I also felt that I shouldn't be such an introvert, and we would also follow the popular vocabulary of our classmates, they always said that they were people with dual personalities at that time, no matter who would say this about themselves, just like the civil service exam now, everyone wants to see it, and it is estimated that this is what most people think, just follow the trend, but there are also some people who never prepare, and don't try to tell themselves, I can't, or don't waste the registration fee, there are still some people who have a good point of view, that is, to keep trying, like trying to try it, maybe they have already gone ashore that time, but no matter which way it is, there are some biases, because you never try, you don't work hard, how can you tell yourself that you can't, and you really can't？

No one sees whether you can do it or not, only when you do it, you try to know whether you can do it or not, before you do it, don't deny yourself first, I always tell myself like this.

So in many cases, don't deny yourself like this, let yourself be so happy every day, in fact, I also know, in my such a process, every time I try, I know my ability after trying, only after trying to know whether I can or not, this is my idea.

I remember a few days ago, we went to the mall to buy something, when we bought something, at the exit, I forgot how to exchange, and then I just looked at my mobile phone, but my husband and I didn't care, it was at such a moment, we didn't notice what to do, it was really at such a moment, all forgot, nothing remembered, after such a moment, I also knew, we waited until we came back, only to find that in fact, there was really nothing, forgot to ask people to ask for a small ticket, nothing to ask, or in such a wait to get home only to find nothing, no receiptWhen we went, people were ready to close, and we just went to find out at that moment, when we were at home, my husband told me, don't go, I don't think so, this is what my husband said, I also know, in fact, when I asked him to go, he told me in such a tone that he didn't want to go, this is how he replied to me, I don't know why I met such a husband, no matter what it is, I want to come out, he always doesn't want to be the first to find someone, in fact, this is legitimate, everyone can have it, but we forgot to take the ticket to find someone to exchange, so after I was angry for a while, I began to go out, but he also said, he wants to go with me, really a very considerate person, so at such a moment, I also found that it really doesn't work, but still like this, I said I'm at home to rest for a while, you go and ask people, if you can't come back, but people still don't want to go, and when I say I'm going, people will still say that I don't feel at ease with me, so I want to go, or to walk with me, as a companion, but then, I also found that we really went like this, People are ready to get off work, already mopping the floor, and I just asked people like this, whether I can find my small ticket at the time, people said, it is estimated that it will not work, so just look for it, or not found, I am also in a box full of small tickets has been looking for it, looking for a long time, still can't find it, what is this, I also found that I was really struggling, just for a small gift that people can exchange, but I still spare no effort to find here, people have urged me several times, said that they have already gotten off work, have taken out the garbage and dumped it, I just realized it, There is really no hope, just give up, I also told myself, people said so, then forget it, I also found that at this moment of my own, I really don't want to explain anything, if you don't give it, you won't give it, anyway, I've worked hard, this is my biggest effort, I can't work hard anymore, I can really tell myself, I really can't do it, I really can't do it.

When I want to learn how to deal with others, I actually want to get along with others, but why don't I have this ability?

Sometimes I think about why I envied my mother every time I was young. She gets along well with her neighbors and everything, but why can't I have no friends?

I also found that the people we study in college, there are very few friends, maybe it is really not possible to play with others, but those who play with us, are also similar to us, a little cultured, but those who have not read any books, when I graduated from junior high school, I also tried to play with others, because when I went to school, everyone was in the same class, so I was also at a time, I mustered up the courage to play with others, but later, when I played with others, I couldn't insert a word of what people said, and I didn't know the characters they said, but they all knew each other, so they kept talking here, But I don't know, so I don't know what to say, but when I really found out, I came down all night, I didn't say a word, I really didn't say anything, I don't know what to say to others, the topic that people say, sometimes it seems to me to be vulgar, in fact, it's just their own pretending to be high, so after such a snub, it's the only time I play with others, and then it's not good, no one around me plays with me, maybe it's really not fun at all, so people are not interested, so I have to be bored by myself, but sometimes I think about itWhy is your communication so poor?

My mother can get along with others very well every time, and I can't do it, I have been envious of my mother in the process, and I continue to grow, but later, I found out that I still have to learn from my mother, because I really can't do it, I can't do it, it really takes some skills and some time to accumulate it, or let myself have such an ability, no matter what the lack is, as long as it is innate, or find a way to make up for it.

Sometimes I think that I still have to be diligent, let my mouth be diligent, and learn from my mother.

You've been like this all the time, when will you learn? So you still have to practice diligently in the future, so you will still have some gains.