Children's childhood really can't be ignored, what kind of children are general, since childhood will already behave out, why some teachers have taught students how that teacher can express their views very thoroughly, in fact, it is not only the teacher who understands the students, but also the parents, in many cases parents know their children better than others, because the life time is so long, it is strange not to understand.

In the years I have been working, I just summarized the students roughly today, and I won't talk about other aspects, but from the point of view of crying, some students don't say much about him, but he has already cried, including boys and girls, but after all, boys love to cry is a minority, girls love to cry is the majority, and it is the same when they grow up, many girls still love to cry after becoming women, this is destined since childhood, why hasn't it changed? Maybe parents don't notice, because in China, farmers are the majority of Chinese citizens, so many children still have a little bit of a lack of education psychologically, especially children in mountainous areas, which I do admit that there is no perfect development of urban children, maybe our IQ is not a problem, and the test scores are not low, but psychologically, there may be less education, which is a fact that I know.

Some time ago, I found out that there was a little boy, in class, every time I talked to him, he didn't talk first, but cried first, you don't even know why he cried, in fact, sometimes he didn't criticize him, he didn't say anything, he was already crying, and we were very inexplicable and embarrassed, and then I heard that his class teacher was also like this, I thought it was just for me? That's a little afraid of me, but it's not like this, all teachers are like this, you say, such a boy, when he reaches the society, what should he do if he is so timid? Or is it because of timidity that he can bring out the advantage of boldness. This boy, I didn't dare to call him up to answer questions after class, I didn't even dare to talk to him in class, after a few encouragements, it still didn't work, and I still had to continue to try in the future, but so far, I still didn't dare, I still had to keep trying, this boy became a dead end in my class.

There is also a boy, he is very naughty, every time he is active in class, there are a lot of small movements, but every time I criticize him, he doesn't cry, no matter how long you do the ideological work, he is still an expression, in fact, it's not that he didn't listen, it's just that he is a very strong person, I have never seen him shed tears, in fact, there are still a lot of such boys, and there are a lot of girls, that is, he is not afraid of people, bold, I am not sure that he is making trouble in class, but he has such a good psychological quality, maybe he is really criticized a lot, so he is used to it, in fact, no matter what kind of thing it isIf you do it continuously, practice continuously, it will eventually become a habit, and you will not be afraid at all, and the same is true for criticism.

I remember one time, the school had just given out buckets and sweeping supplies, and I wanted to find a few students to send to each classroom, and I remember that I was calling the first grade elementary school students, but none of them could complete the task, and I wondered, why can't they do it? Isn't it just the school? It doesn't have much area? Why can't it be done? Still don't know the numbers? It shouldn't be, but it still doesn't, I shouted in the classroom, and still no one raised their hands, called a few classmates, or no one sent them, several of them were afraid to knock on the door, afraid of the moment the door was opened? In the first grade of elementary school, I am usually 6 or 7 years old, but why can't I finish such a small thing? So I did it myself, and although it was a small thing, it was imprinted in my mind.

When I was young, forget it, don't talk about what happened when I was young, because today's children are different from our previous children, we used to be several sisters and brothers, and we didn't think we had much money, so I went to a far place to play alone, or with my companions, and one time, when I was busy with farming, I also went to the field alone to deliver food to my father, such a field, not as good as everyone said, not very close to home as everyone thinks, it is on a hillside, in the countryside, there are many graves in the field, but I don't know why I went aloneAt that time, my family was really relieved, why didn't I think I would throw it away? I didn't think about anything, or it was the negligence of adults, and when my mother talked about it, she always thought that I was still behaving well at that time, that is, 6/7 years old, but I could go to the hillside to deliver food alone. Today's children, after a while, are not in front of them, and they begin to look everywhere, perhaps because there is only one child in the family, so many times they are also reluctant, but in modern society, how many good things and good habits are lost in the parents' reluctance. In addition, there are many parents who work in other places, and those grandmothers and grandfathers always spoil their children with their children, which fully embodies the truth of the next generation.

Once in college, because when the teacher checked the homework, I didn't finish it, and I don't remember how many times I didn't finish it, in short, I was a little too much, I always didn't like to write homework, and there was another reason, the homework in high school was really incomplete, nine courses were synchronized, at that time we were taking the university comprehensive, nine subjects, Chinese, mathematics, English, the remaining six are a test paper, the knowledge of the exam is very wide, it is destined to study on time for nine subjects, and none of them can be pulled down. Nine homework ah, I'm also drunk, it's normal not to finish it, and the people at the same table are the same as me, when I meet the teacher talking about the test paper, sometimes it's actually blank, and sometimes it's even possible to forget that there is such a test paper. The teacher criticized me, I didn't react at the time, and then she was even more powerful, saying that a boy was criticized, crying throughout the class, crying on the table, why don't you cry when a girl scolds you, there is no reaction at all, I still didn't react at the time, the teacher seemed to really scold me for crying, just said, why don't you have self-esteem? Whatever, I don't know later, because I've already lowered my head, I think her purpose should be this, and then I didn't hear what she said clearly, I still haven't remembered, those two lessons, I didn't listen to anything what she said, I didn't cry, I just made a gesture to show her, she still walked in my seat, secretly glanced at me if I was crying, really interesting!

But I really don't blame that teacher now, forgiveness is the greatest virtue, and I have lived like this heartless for so many years. Later, I have been thinking, in fact, no matter what kind of child, whether it is a girl or a boy, you should develop strong habits from an early age, and you can't wait for children to cry before giving them what they want, many children will cry as a threat to get what they want, but the habit is also very scary, if you are already an adult, you still cry like this and get the approval of others, get the sympathy of others, get the respect of others? People always have to learn to be strong, and they still have a little psychological resistance when they encounter things. You can't live by crying and the sympathy of others. Instead of waiting for them to enter the society and become stronger, it is better to learn to be strong from an early age, not to cry, not to fall behind, and to be a strong child. Although that child is a naughty child, the strong sparkle in him is something I don't want to destroy, and I admire his strength from the bottom of my heart!