1. I heard a colleague say that his mother has always interfered in his marriage, and when he first started looking for a partner, he always wanted him to do what she wanted, and he didn't like the girls she found for him, but what about the girlfriend he talked to himself? His mother didn't want to live or die, I really don't know what they thought, when I first heard my colleague talk about such a thing, he said that he was really the most afraid of going home, every time he quarreled with his mother, out of control, but when he brought his girlfriend home, his mother exploded all of a sudden, angry and said everything, really what is ugly to say, he didn't dare to go home now, but after a long time, his mother still couldn't help it, went to the unit to find him, and then he still didn't want to see his mother, or to hide, I don't know why it became like this, it was a good family, It became like this in an instant, as if there was a big contradiction, but if you think about it carefully, they seem to have reached the point where they can't compromise, and his mother went to the unit to find him, and she also hoped that he could accept the objects she helped him introduce, it was really too well-intentioned, but his mother didn't understand what he thought in his heart, he just talked about the object when he was in college, and then he has always loved his girlfriend very much, but the first time he saw his mother, he ran into trouble, and what about the other party's parents? also disagrees with life and death, the two of them can't escape the opposition of their families for a long time, and they are still in such a stalemate, and no one is willing to give in.

In fact, I won't comfort people, watching his mother have been waiting for him at the door, watching colleagues come and go in and out, why didn't she go, but she still didn't let go, she still didn't let go, and still asked her son to accept his request, but the son has never accepted, this time such a mother finally couldn't help it, so she went to the office of the unit and cried, or in front of the leader, this time such a colleague really wanted to die, I said are you okay? Or I went to persuade Auntie, I went out, I saw Auntie say a lot of words, and I kept standing, there was our leader next to me, I really hope to solve the matter as soon as possible, and then said, Otherwise, you and him break off the mother-son relationship, right? This aunt at this time, but she didn't cry much, she was very confused and helpless eyes told me, how is it possible, I will never be, she is just thinking about how I can think of such a mixed idea? Why didn't she persuade her to do anything, not to persuade her not to cry like others, but to persuade her to go home well, she didn't say anything, just said a word, that is, to persuade her to break away from the mother-son relationship, after thinking about such a seemingly simple question, she instantly seemed to understand something, and said, how can I be? He is my only son, how can I break away from him?

I said, since he can't give you happiness, and he is also such an unfilial person, isn't it necessary to raise a child now to prevent old age? You are so old, and he is still angry with you? After breaking away from the mother-son relationship with him, there will not be so many things after that.

She said, "What do you think is that simple?" How can I live without him? I can't just lose him!

I said, at least you don't have to suffer such a big grievance?

She seemed to understand my words and said, I don't feel wronged now.

Actually, I didn't figure out what she thought, she just went home like this, and then she accepted her son's girlfriend, got married, and now lives a very happy life, and I still haven't figured out how she figured it out.

2. There is a woman, she is very hard, she is basically all housework, the child is still not pulled once, her husband doesn't do anything after work, every time in addition to playing with the mobile phone, it is drinking, playing with friends, chatting or something, sometimes she also goes to gamble, it is really a bad habit to let him take possession, every time she takes the child to the middle of the night, she secretly cries, and another time, or in her home, they are quarreling very fiercely, her husband still wants to beat her, and she doesn't give her a little face, the enthusiasm that pursued her at the beginning seems to be gone, and there are all these vegetables, rice, oil and salt left, she really feels very tired, and I don't know what happened after that, Seeing her is really distressed, she also found a lot of psychological counselors to consult, what to do, but it has no effect at all, and then I thought of divorce, because it was really too wronged, what kind of grievances she suffered, and then I really supported her, when I went through the divorce procedures, I went with her, but when I arrived at the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau, she hesitated, thought for a long time, and I sat with her for a long time, we didn't speak, and then, just turned around and went home, after going home, it seemed that the mood was much better, in fact, on such a way, I didn't say anything, and I didn't do anything, just helped her hold the childIt was as simple as that, and I wanted to know why? Did I help her hold the baby? No, what was the reason? She started talking to me, saying, "My life is not very good, but I accept my fate."

I said, don't, don't be wronged, how good it is to be relieved.

Actually, I really think I'm really a bastard, everyone is trying to make peace, and I always encourage others to separate, whether it's mother and son, or husband and wife, why is there no ivory in my dog's mouth? I also deeply wondered, but I figured it out, because I'm not a dog, I'm not a dog's mouth, I'm a human mouth, of course, there is no ivory, so a lot of what I say is nonsense.

She cried and said, "What should I do with a baby bump like me?" I can do without him, but this baby bump in my family can't do it, do I want a stepfather or a stepmother? I said, this problem is indeed the most serious problem we are facing, and it is worth pondering. In the end, she told me that she figured out what it was to be wronged for the person she loved the most, and she didn't feel wronged, everything was worth it.

I said, you still have an attachment to him.

She said resolutely, no, the person I love is not him, it is my precious son, I am living for my son.

3. There is a wage earner, every time he goes out early and returns late, he is very tired at work, he still has to face the doubts of his subordinates, sometimes he still has to face the bad temper of the boss, and sometimes he still has a lot of unspeakable hardships. If not, forget it, don't be so wronged yourself, for a few thousand yuan a month, not to, a good life is the most important, I persuaded people to resign again, I really want to smoke myself, why such a cheap mouth, every time is to persuade people not to be motivated, not to reconcile? But he thought about it and said, forget it, although there are some tired, although there are a lot of grievances, but I still have to do it.

I said, "Why is that?"

He said, you said that I am now, my wife has no job, my children still need to be supported, I still need money, I still have my mother, my father, and I have a mortgage and a car loan, how dare I resign?

I said, just because of this, there is no intention of resigning?

He said, yes, if I quit my job, my wife would secretly stuff money into my bag, and my mom and dad would come up to me and ask me how my new job was, how was it adapting, was it going well, and so on.

I said, that's because people care about you, why don't people ask you?

He said, I'm in my thirties, can I make the people I love worry about me so much?

I said, then you have wronged yourself like this, don't kill you?

But he told me that life and death are destined for life and prosperity.

I really took it, I don't know what these people think, why there are so many can't let go and worry, in fact, I am a very free and easy person who still likes to be free, but they can't, they have suffered so many grievances, or have been silently endured, and later I found out that for the people they love, they can support their appetite so much, only so much tolerance, so much patience, so much grievances, so, in their opinion, everything is worth it, and they don't feel wronged at all。