Girl, why are you so tired?

Bus No. 15 came, everyone flocked to it, what a lady, what a handsome guy, etc., all did not care about their own image, because everyone is catching the bus, this is a picture of the bus stop sign in the morning, it really makes me a little bit I don't know what kind of emotion to make, such a bus, is afraid of being late, because in the morning, who doesn't want to sleep a few more minutes, because yesterday's work brought us really too sleepy, there is always a feeling of not enough rest, but what can be done? No matter how hard and tiring the path you choose, you have to finish it with a smile.

When I first joined the work, I was working in the south, and at this time, many of them would be a little dissatisfied with my approach, at that time, I really had no choice, how should I choose? Just graduated from college, no experience, no social knowledge, let alone any way of doing things, for poor children like us, how many people are well-educated, people who know everything, we are all struggling on the food and clothing line, but what I tell myself is, I must live, this is my only hope, there are other tasks, that is, to support myself, to support my family, this is my responsibility, just graduated at that time, how can I take care of so much? It's impossible at all, only you can take care of yourself, maybe some people are super capable, not only can take care of themselves, but also take good care of the family, such people really have, I envy, for example, one of my classmates, when she just graduated, she gave her home 70,000 yuan within two years, which is really astronomical for me, because I can't make so much money at all, I am a worker who goes to work in a factory, a month's salary is 1100 yuan, and there are other things that can not be predicted, for example, sick and take medicine, which is not daringBecause I'm really afraid that I can't afford to pay for such a medical bill, it's too expensive, but this is my own choice, what can I do? Every time I get off work, I am very tired, because this is my own choice of life, and I am also helpless. After that, with my own efforts, I took the civil service examination and the examination of public institutions every time, every time I resigned, or asked for leave, but I was not admitted, after going to the south, I looked for a job again, which was the hardest, I really hoped that I could have a stable place to stay at this time, what a big luxury, because every time I change jobs, I have to carry heavy luggage to interview and physical examination, etc., I carry such heavy luggage, and I really have a special taste in my heart.

I am also in this two years, constantly tossing and turning between Dongguan and Luoyang, is this my mission? Or is it my choice? I don't know? At the beginning, I watched all my friends around me find relatively stable jobs, even if they were part-time jobs, they were also good, a few thousand yuan a month, and I was still tossing, I still didn't stabilize? Is my ability really very poor? My senior brother also criticized me and said, if you want to be in Dongguan, you will stay in Luoyang, if you want to stay in Luoyang, when can you find a better job, when can you have a better platform, when can you develop yourself? In fact, I know that he is for my good, but I have no bottom in my own heart, I always have to try it, I just graduated when I chose to work, because I saw the high wages in the south, but after I went, I found that the salary at that time was not very high, not much higher than the mainland, but others said that it was much higher, of course, people have different opinions, when in the mainland, a month is 800 yuan, and the first factory I went to in the south, the salary is 1100 yuan, and here more than 300 because the working hours in the south are 8: 30 hours, and Luoyang's work is 8 hours, more than half an hour of work every day, and occasionally overtime at night, or no overtime pay, what do I think, isn't it the same? Anyway, I don't think this kind of life in the south is for me.

Finally, with my efforts, I was admitted to our teacher's exam, but I was not very satisfied at the beginning, because the salary was not very high, what about my classmates? I had the opportunity to see my classmates, and the clothes I wore were incompatible with my classmates, my classmates were in the big city of Beijing, and I was just staying in a small county town, although I was wearing clothes from specialty stores, what Anta, what Adidas, what Kinglake, etc. However, it is still incompatible with the prosperity of the big city, my classmates are fashionable, and I have become rustic, although my clothes look of good quality, but still a little less beautiful. My classmates said to me, you see, people from small places are different, they can't take the subway, in fact, I really can't take it, the first time I went to Beijing, we don't have a subway here, I really regret that I didn't take it when I was in Guangzhou, and I felt like taking the subway? I asked my classmates to send me to the train station, just because I couldn't take the subway. This time, I became the laughing stock of my classmates, and she was happy for such a thing every time.

It was also at that time that I listened to my classmate talk about her cousin, this is the life of many Beijingers, her cousin is working in Beijing, there is no house in such a city center, or the house is very expensive, and there is not enough money to pay for the house, so they choose the house in the suburbs, and get up at 5 o'clock in the morning to take the bus to work, or take the subway, every day to go back and forth for 4 hours in the car, I really don't understand such a way of life, because I am too lazy? Maybe yes, because I really wish I could sleep more in the morning instead of being innocently woken up by the alarm clock, so I don't think this kind of life is really for me. I still wish I could have more time to do what I love, and of course I really don't rule out that they really like a city like Beijing. But my understanding is that I would rather choose a second-tier or third-tier city than live such a life, it is too wasteful of time, is life such a waste? Isn't it tiring to run around on the bus every day? It takes about half a day to take the bus every day. I deeply disagree, but they are not me, and of course they are not the same as I think.

There was nothing wrong with choosing such a job, and there was nothing wrong with the low salary, but I had a lot of time to spend on myself, saving myself the trouble of crowding the bus, and they spent a few hours on the bus, I could read some books to improve myself, and I could do something that was beneficial to myself, which was a good choice, and I deeply felt that my choice was worth it! Because I still have time to do other things, such as leaving some time for dreams! I have also seen a lot of texts on the Internet saying that they don't like to stay in small cities, thinking that small cities have few opportunities for development, but in fact, what does the opportunity for development have to do with you? Does it have anything to do with you? Civil servants and public institutions are all euthanasia, but in fact, euthanasia is not decided by others, and you can completely prevent yourself from euthanasia! If you have the ability, you will be a capable person wherever you are, and you will be excavated, not the region that determines you.

You might as well do the math, my working hours a week are 18 classes, which is more than 10 hours, and if you work part-time, you may have to work more than 10 hours a day, and if you work more than 10 hours, can you achieve the same effect as you want? If you think about it, how do you calculate the salary for more than 10 hours a day and 10 hours a week? I am not surprised that you are a little higher than me. But can you really improve yourself at work, double your salary, and become a person with potential? I really don't rule out the rebuttal of those who get an annual salary, because after all, there are only a few people who can get an annual salary, and they have a high ability, so they choose to challenge, but most people, what do you choose? After a few years, you still want to work for more than ten hours a day and get a salary of several thousand yuan a month? Is it worth it? Please don't refute it, because it's not that you don't have the opportunity to enter a public institution, it's not that the civil service exam is unfair, it's that you don't plan to enter a public institution or a civil servant at all. If your heart is not on this top, how can you calculate the ratio of output to income? Many people end up just sighing that they are very tired and tired, and the amount on their salary card is not much more, that is, they are very tired and tired? Sometimes I think about it, it is not who is much better than whom, in fact, the difference between people is very small, the key is to see where your direction is? Can you use the most important years to change your destiny and change your current situation! Missing the best time is just as terrible as missing your own life.

Girl, please don't be so tired, okay? It's not that others make you so tired, it's not the boss's fault, it's not the mother's fault, it's how you choose, how to plan your life, when you want to be relaxed, you can be relaxed, you can be tired when you want to be tired, the key is to be naturally happy, and the tired should be worth it!