Teacher Xia Incident (2)

I just heard today that Teacher Xia is not dead, it is a rumor on the Internet, why is there such a thing? It is actually a rumor that Teacher Xia hanged himself, but now the document of the Education Bureau has been published, saying that Teacher Xia did not die, but was transferred to another place, I don't know if it is true?

Is it true this time? Or rumors, these are all without evidence, looking at the red-headed documents of the Education Bureau, but there are too many fake things in society now, is the first time true or the second time is true?

I can't even say it myself, and I really don't know what kind of mentality to look at such a thing.

In Jin Xiaobei's circle of friends, I saw such a text, Teacher Xia is not dead, but her heart is dead, and she will never make up classes for students in the future, in fact, what I want to say is that there is no need to make up classes, because making up classes will also cause big problems, such as the problem of students going home, what happened on the way, whose responsibility is this?

Parents blame it, or have no words, let the students go home after school, this is a good choice, so that it can be all the rules of the school to abide by, our school generally does not advocate make-up classes, how many things can be made up by make-up classes?

There are still quite a few questions. But I think this is already a very good choice, although Teacher Xia was transferred, but from such a thing, she can still learn something, that is, the importance of make-up classes and safety, this is to have a clear judgment, the current society is really like this, no matter how good your grades are, if there is a safety problem, it will be worthless, so safety is the most important.

But Mr. Xia's life like this is also a good choice, at least alive, there is still hope for change, and when I first heard the news, I didn't know whether to be excited or to comfort myself, the shock to me yesterday was too great, it was actually a human life, but not dying is a good result, I really think that sometimes it is a blessing and a curse, I know that it is a disaster, but it is also an ability to use my own ability to resolve it, there is nothing absolutely bad in this world, and nothing is absolutely good。

I really hope that Mr. Xia can have more peace in his life in the future, sometimes it is a very small thing, but it is a big deal, in fact, it is not a big thing, but it is not good to be troubled by parents like this, it has become a widely spread news, it is difficult to think of being famous, but it's still necessary to grasp a degree, whether it is to look at students Jackie Chan, in fact, there may not be so many students who can become dragons, even the great educator Confucius has more than 3,000 disciples, only 72 have succeeded, this is when we were in college, one of our university teachers played an analogy, saying that he is not a saint, Confucius is a great educator, The success rate of the disciples is 2.4%, not to mention us sentient beings, so don't be so stressed, many times, what you do, there is no problem, but when was it caught by someone by luck, it is endless, like this time, I think it is better to seriously reflect on such a thing, after all, it happened, and such a thing should not happen again in the future, I think Mr. Xia's heart is also very uncomfortable, he was originally kind, but it became like this?

In today's society, parents are also divided into many kinds, most parents can still understand the teacher's education of his children, but it is not excluded that some parents do not understand, so they can only manage themselves, do not make mistakes, or can calmly carry out every day's homework and work, is it that I said this is a little bit of three views wrong?

Actually, when I first joined the work, I also seriously hoped that every child would improve, so I did it seriously, I did what other teachers didn't do, what are the ways and methods of parents, but it still doesn't work, in such an environment, I once called parents, those two parents are really funny, they are a village, I am really helpless, their students can only take a single digit test at a time, I am wondering, a semester down, don't you take a few points?

But after calling their parents, their parents' words, so that I never called the students' parents again, they said, I know they don't study well, but we have no way, me and his father we are all authentic farmers, you say that the current book is so difficult, we won't, we want to tutor the child, besides, we really can't, we can't do anything?

I know what they said is also true, when I just graduated, I went to a rural middle school, they are all authentic farmers, not to mention their own tutoring, they simply don't, this is true, besides, they don't have that kind of economic conditions to ask for a tutor, I don't know what to do in such a mountain village?

I was speechless about what they said, this is what these two parents said, I remember it deeply, I think the people in these villages next to the middle school in such a mountain village are going to the farmland to farm, they all think like this, I am also very helpless, so since that incident has never asked them to call their parents, because the fact is that it is really useless, and it seems that they are incompetent, and now I usually have something I will solve by myself.

Another time, the student had a conflict with me, and I was really angry that time, and told the principal, and then what?

Guess what? The principal asked me what the situation was and asked the students to find out the situation, but the students who were present were talking in the principal's office, and the principal was learning some details, but when the principal heard these students scolding me, it was indeed the truth, and his attitude was really difficult for me to accept, he was laughing at the time, and I don't know what he was laughing at, why?

Is it so funny that the student scolds the teacher? I was standing outside the door, I heard their conversation and his hearty laughter, I didn't know what to do, and then turned to leave, and then I knew that such a thing would be quietly digested by myself, it was really like this, although under the principal's last ideological work, these students also apologized to me, but that time the hearty laughter has been in my mind, I have become a lot more well-behaved in the future, I really dare not provoke the students again, even if he has a very excessive behavior, I can only say about him, I don't dare to do it at all, and I don't dare to punish corporal punishment, because this is really making trouble for myself, I am deeply aware of itIt's not that I'm a responsible teacher at all, but I still have my own bottom line, and I will protect myself well at work to prevent my easily injured heart from hurting!

I sincerely hope that Teacher Xia can learn a lesson from this incident, I think she should never physically punish students in her life, this lesson is profound, but also painful, sometimes, some things are forcing us to grow, although we think we are right, but others do not think you are right, then you are wrong, the fact is like this, can not be justified, or accept the reality, after all, we are not so free and easy people, when I write these words, how heavy my heart is.

But it's also helpless! I wish Mr. Xia to protect himself well and live a good life.