There are many things that put parents in a dilemma, in fact, the biggest one is to find a partner, but when looking for a partner, in fact, parents are reluctant to give their children to others, especially girls, as soon as they grow up, they become someone else's family in a blink of an eye, how can they not accept it psychologically, many parents want their children to be by their side, all the time, but what about after?

They will still have a lot to consider, especially when the children are old, what should they do? If you blindly raise children, do not let children get married, do not let children marry, when the children are old, there is no one around them, how should they deal with themselves, thinking of these, many parents compromised, they let their children get married at a marriageable age, but they miss day and night, many times, they talk to their children on the phone every day, and even hope that their children can live in their parents' house for a lot of time after marriage, in fact, they know that they are very tired to live in their parents' house, and they have to take care of their children, like when they were young, but they are still willing to work tirelessly, and I also slowly feel that in this matter, they are in a dilemma, but in the end they still choose to let their children get married, start a family, and have their own future life.

Sometimes think about it, when faced with these dilemmas, there are also some parents who will feel deeply experienced, in their hearts, they will also have some special feelings, how unwilling they are, but in the end there will still be such a result, this day will come sooner or later, in their hearts, they always hope that their children will live well, although it has always been their care, and even one day become someone else's person, many times, when they are in the dilemma, they will feel the taste, but in the end they still endure their emotions, let the child find happiness, everything is like thisSo when they miss their children, they still want to video call every day.

I also gradually understand that many parents want their children to find objects in their hometowns, in this way, they can still take care of their children, and children can also take care of them, in fact, those who are looking for objects from other places, many of their parents are unwilling, but because their children are willing, they have no way, many times, they also make the greatest tolerance, let the children have their own lives, let the children have their own choices, let the children have their own ideas.

So sometimes, when you really grow up to become an adult, you will understand the difficulties of parents, you will understand those parents who are in a dilemma, you will understand their situation, you will feel their feelings, you will know their thoughts, at this time we are often already married, want to let parents worry less, but they are no longer young, they are already old, and at this time, we also have our own lives, we are all confused and troubled by those things in our own lives, sometimes we don't even have more time to pay attention to what the elderly think, sometimes think about it, their lives are really hard！