The last time I had my period, it was on the train, on the train back from other places, it was very uncomfortable, and the people around me saw my expression and said, why is it so uncomfortable, and my husband didn't believe it, and sometimes I found that I was really sad when I was very uncomfortable.

And this feeling has been lingering in my impression, when I have experienced such a few days, I found that my usual life is still very good, at least I can live like an ordinary person every day, and do all kinds of things like an ordinary person, and girls always have a few days of sadness every month, it is because of such a process and experience that you don't have to do anything, just quietly enjoy such a process.

Although it is still very good in many cases, from the very beginning to the present, it is only two times of pain, and it is not very serious, but after two pains, I found that a few days have passed when I don't feel pain, and this time I found out that the pain was so sad.

A few days ago, I experienced such a sadness again, although it was as sad as last time, I was sleeping all day, sometimes I didn't even have time to eat, and the hygiene in the house was not cleaned, and I couldn't take care of anything, not to mention that reading and writing was simply a thing outside of my consciousness, and I couldn't take care of such a progress at all.

But this time and the last time the difference I also saw, because the mood is not very good these days, so the heart is also very painful, and the physical pain and the inner pain, as if to create a kind of balance, a while is very painful in the heart, a while is very painful in the body, when these two kinds of pain in the body are constantly wandering, only to find that the previous physical pain is not so painful, this may be when many people encounter something very sad, they find pain to hurt themselves, maybe not so sad, slowly I also understand the feelingIt's not that the pain in my body has been reduced before, but there is another kind of pain to press such a pain, many times people are very strange, when they encounter an unpleasant thing, they feel unacceptable, but when another unfortunate thing appears at the same time, it is not so unfortunate when they find that the two misfortunes appear at the same time.

And when you are really resting and doing nothing, you also find that closing your eyes will hurt here, and it hurts there for a while, and you are also enjoying this pain, in fact, sometimes the pain is not necessarily the moment you are most looking forward to, and it is not necessarily the moment you want the most, people want their lives to be safe and peaceful, and spend it like this every day, but later I found that if you are drinking plain water every day, you will find that life really has no taste at all after a long time, and sometimes you still want to buy a bottle of mineral water to drink from time to time, which is to buy a bottle of green tea, or buy a bottle of iced tea or something and change the taste.

Our lives are the same, in ordinary times, we are so ordinary, we have been doing something we want to do, and in ordinary times, we have been doing things for a few days, and we have let go of what we are doing, just for a certain moment.

Only people who have experienced pain will deeply realize that although the ordinary moments are so bland, they will find that blandness is also the best state, and not necessarily always pursue something that they can't satisfy every time, and when they work hard once, they will find that a dull life is still quite good.

No one in our lives wants their lives to be hurt a little, and everyone wants their lives to be smooth sailing, but can they?

There are many things and aspects in life that are not smooth, sometimes it is like this, sometimes it is like that, and we have experienced a lot of unhappy times in life, only to find that in fact, those ordinary lives are really good, and they are really the lives they want.

In real life, who would wish they would also be in pain? When I saw the topic of enjoying pain, it was also a text by Bi Shumin that I read a long time ago, "Enjoying Pain, Enduring Happiness" Maybe it's really just such a statement, who would be willing to look for some pain for no reason, who wouldn't want to pursue their own happiness, but when we wrote down such a paragraph and a topic, we found that it was just a state of mind, just sad when it hurts, but what can I do?

Or every time you have to go through it, instead of cutting out such a process when you are sad, life is never a movie, only those good clips are left, and the bad clips are cut out, it is simply impossible, and we can only accept it with our own good attitude, and what other way is there?

It's simply not possible. For example, like people, sometimes they are irritable and really don't want to live, don't want to live, but since you are born, the moment you are born has been destined to your existence, after birth, you have to be with life as a companion, no matter what happens in life, you still have to experience or accept, not when you want to experience, life will let you go, those troubles in life will still come every time, the unhappiness in life, or every time you knock on the door, and we still have no way to get rid of it, until the end we found that we still accept it calmly, because there is no way to change reality, let alone escape。

When I really find myself able to face those unhappy moments in life and those setbacks in life with a different mentality, it is actually just a kind of mentality of my own, although pain is not what we pursue, but we can have a mentality of enjoyment to face such moments, which is the best state of mind, a positive attitude, just the happiness that I give myself, not the moment when others can change, the mood is always my own, and those people and things that can affect your mood, we still accept it calmly, because nothing in life affects you, then we have all become immortals.

After saying so much, I realized that the pain is not terrible at all, and I have read a sentence before that is called making the storm more violent, perhaps it is the most experiential mood in this moment.