Sometimes I find that other people's lives are my own thoughts, such thoughts, and my life does not have so many ideas, maybe it is a person like me, who does not have so many of my own thoughts, and from childhood to adulthood, what kind of ideas are instilled in you by others.

The education in life, what kind of family was born, and the final result is not unexpected at all, sometimes you see such a child, only to find out what the child's parents have invested in him?

And every child is the same, from the time we are born, we have no ideas, no kind of practice, and our parents and the people around us are like a writing board in our lives, constantly drawing the shapes and colors they want.

I remember when I was a child, although the family did not teach me much, but the spirit of teaching me has fully affected my life, some parents think that family education is many aspects, and their children are better, so they want to manage everywhere, and let their children do it, but later I found that when my children grow up, they still do not have the things and personality they want, and when I was young, the people in the family did not teach me too many things, but the things that taught me are all deeply rooted in my life and life, and they are not allowed to be shaken by others。

For example, when I was younger, my father always told me to be a determined person, and I didn't know what it meant to be a determined person.

At that time, the explanation of the people in the family was to be a person with his own ideas, but I didn't know where my thoughts were, and the thoughts of my family were my thoughts, so I always did what my family wanted, and you were not allowed to disobey it at all, and then I slowly found out what a determined person is like.

Because I also saw the word determination on a slogan in school, my understanding of determination, that is, no matter what you do, you must persevere in it.

This is the same as the perseverance we understand in daily life, I think it should be the same as the substance, it is just to persevere in doing what you think is right, and in life you can also insist on doing one thing, not like a monkey picking peaches, discarding this for a while, discarding that for a while, and the final result is very little.

After I grew up, I found that it was difficult to give up every time I did something, and it was difficult to let myself give up halfway, it turned out to be from here, and I didn't learn anything else, I was not good in many aspects of my life, and even a person with a lot of problems, for a while it was such a problem, and for a while it was such a problem, so that others would see it, and they would feel that such a person was too ordinary, not even a normal person, in fact, I also felt that I was not good at all, but at least there was one point, that is, to be a determined person, which was a deep-rooted idea carved by the family in their own lives。

When I was young, there were still some other aspects of ideas and concepts injected into my life, which is like building a house, we have many aspects in life, and the most important points in our life, just like the main body in life, must be done solidly, just like the framework of those houses, and we must establish these ideas in our hearts.

When I graduated and joined the workforce, I realized that I still didn't have any ideas, because I just wanted to live and take care of the life of my family.

Nothing, and then I met some people in my life, met some people I cared about, and met some people who cared about myself, that is, people around me, this one said such a thing, that said such a thing, and because I cared, I felt that what others said was as deep as taking root in my heart, and I felt that my life seemed to be someone else's thoughts, but later I found out that all the thoughts were fused together, which is all my own life.

Because of the relatives and friends around me, some people think like this, some people think like that, and later, I am also in a constant life, this person said that he needs this need, and later other people also said that he needs other needs, and because he cares about these people around him, he found that he has been thinking about other people's words, and later found that the needs of others are also like their own needs, and like the needs of many people, take root in their hearts.

Later, I found that I seemed to have a little ideal, like I had some ideas of my own, in fact, I later found out that it was others who were achieving themselves, because they didn't do what others liked to do, or for various reasons, they didn't have the ability to do it or they didn't think about doing it at all, and my family also told me what to do until a long time later, and there were all kinds of hopes for myself to do, what kind of things to do, and all these things were integrated to become my whole life。

Life is like this, many times we are in other people's laughter and other people's words and deeds, constantly influenced by others, only to have such and such hobbies and ideas, many times it is like this, your hobby may be just a story, your momentary thoughts may also be influenced by others, and then we find that when we really think of what we want to do, we find that our life is just a puzzle, this person put together a piece, that person put together an idea, and finally a complete figure, is a complete shapeAnd I'm just a blank template to put there, not to mention the people who draw and make other art, it's the same.

I'm also creating my own work, sometimes sketching lines, sometimes coloring, and then I actually make a product that they want.

This kind of life is really good, and when you can do what others want you to do, it is actually a very happy choice.

Because our life is never our own struggle, although other people have not appeared, and we seem to be walking forward alone, walking alone, but there have always been other people's expectant eyes behind, so that we dare not slack off, in fact, it is also a good choice, because we are working hard with feelings.

Maybe we don't have too many skills, too many skills, and too many means in our lives, but we still do it with the most authentic thing, that is, feelings, because we are doing it with our hearts.

Let yourself be able to do a good job of the things that your relatives have given you, maybe you will succeed, and you will be the most perfect puzzle piece.