Balzac said something similar: "In the storms of life, we often follow the example of the captain, and in the storm, throw away the bulky cargo ship in order to reduce the weight of the ship"

The encounter is too beautiful, and it always seems that the breakup is too sloppy。。。。。。

The person who finally said "will marry me" and "will marry me" finally dispersed。。。。。。

No matter how good and hard you have been, when you fall in love with someone, you will find that you are not a superhero, you have no superpowers, you are just an ordinary person.

You are always longing for the attention and appreciation of the other party, looking forward to the greetings and love of your lover at any time, you feel more and more that you are the luckiest person in the world, and at the same time, you are more and more afraid of losing the person you love.

But you don't know from what day you will begin, for one reason or another, and you will be caught up in endless quarrels. You are exhausted, you start fortifying, you doubt each other.

The ability to love includes not only the warmth and well-being of the other person, but also the need to take care of oneself.

The premise of loving someone well is that you can love yourself well.

If you have no patience to continue a relationship, and you are unable to choose between advance and retreat, giving up may be the best choice. And the process of learning to give up is actually learning how to love yourself better, but it does require some courage.

Love is honey and makes people obsessed, but it is also arsenic and makes people poisoned.

We used to look down on the kind of fools who fought hard in love, but how can we explain that you can't hide?

Envy of love is not ridiculous, and giving up a person you love deeply will not be so chic。。。。。。

There is such a story written in the NetEase Cloud of "Say Scatter":

I gave you a ride on a bicycle for 3 years, and he drove a BMW to give you a ride for 3 days, but you chose him and lost me. Later he cheated and you ask me what to do. I also want to ask you, did you think about what I would do when you cheated?

The simple and calm narration can't hide the huge emotional surge in the heart. Yes, you want to leave, how can I persuade you to come back?

They all say thank you to your ex and let yourself grow.

However, it was you who went through those painful days alone, it was you who shed those painful tears, you forced yourself to let go, those painful days were spent by you alone, why should you thank others?!

It's not easy to give up, and it's not so great to be fulfilled. After breaking up, I can't really hate you, and I can't continue to love you, the only thing I can do is to forget you.

Therefore, the loss of someone is considered to be a serious illness. When you are well, you can still eat well, sleep obediently, and do what you should do.

He doesn't deserve better, but you do!

It's hard to let go of a relationship that doesn't belong to you. But in the longer term, it also relieves you of a pain that doesn't belong to you in the first place. Learning to give up takes effort, courage, and wisdom.

In other words, how to give up at the right time and how to get the other person to accept it takes time and thought. You can't just do what you want, and end up lifting a rock and shooting yourself in the foot. Thinking clearly before you act may make your renunciation more forceful.

Some people say: "The hardest thing in life is not to learn to have, but to learn to give up" and others say: "If God closes this door, it will definitely open another window for you"

It doesn't matter if it's right or wrong to give up, but learning to give up will definitely help you distinguish between right and wrong. You should also believe that once you decide, your abandonment is a timely stop loss, and it is also a desperate situation, he allows you to see other possibilities, and also gives you a new definition of love。。。。。。。

There is no such thing as perfection in this world, so there is no such thing as giving up just right.

Thinking twice is an indispensable part, and once you've made a decision, don't look back.

In the final analysis, when you choose to give up, it is a reconciliation between yourself and yourself, and it is also a break between yourself and yourself。。。。。。

"When will I reconcile with myself?" Looking at his phone, Ji Fengchen muttered to himself, tears already covering his cheeks.

After wiping away his tears, Ji Fengchen changed his clothes and left. When I walked to Xiao Mei's side, I looked at her quietly from behind, for a long, long time. It wasn't until she got up to change the guard with others that Ji Fengchen turned around and walked back, he didn't want to leave in front of Xiao Mei. But when he walked to the exit of the station over there, Ji Fengchen turned back again, he wanted to walk in front of Xiao Mei, and wanted to leave his back to Xiao Mei.

Why is it that Xiao Mei leaves her back to Ji Fengchen every time? Ji Fengchen is unwilling, really unwilling!

"Madman, why are you doing, why don't you go back?" Long Ao found Ji Fengchen and asked.

Long Ao's voice was so loud that Xiao Mei should have heard it, but she didn't turn around to take a look.

"What's wrong?" Long Ao walked over and stopped Ji Fengchen at the exit of the station.

"It's okay," Ji Fengchen said lightly.

"Let's go, go up and smoke for a while," Long Ao patted Ji Fengchen on the shoulder and said.

"I don't smoke cigarettes," Ji Fengchen said.

"It's okay, just smoke a few more" Long Ao finished speaking, and walked towards Xiao Mei with Ji Fengchen.

Xiao Mei made a way for Long Ao. In fact, in front of Xiao Mei, Ji Fengchen's heart was extremely unwilling, but he couldn't do anything about being held by Long Ao like this.

At the moment when he met Xiao Mei's eyes, Ji Fengchen quickly lowered his head. To be honest, Ji Fengchen wanted to see Xiao Mei, but he didn't dare to look at her.

"Lost in love?" asked Long Ao with a leisurely puff of smoke rings.

"En" Ji Fengchen frowned, then nodded.

"You, I told you, think about how she treated you, trust your own feelings" Long Ao took another puff of cigarette and said, "Didn't you say that you would have a good talk with her?"

"Talked," Ji Fengchen said lightly, "She accepted my marriage proposal, but now she's gone without a sound."

"What?!" Long Ao was shocked, "This style is not good, and you are not a person who really has feelings for you, and you still propose to her?"

"I 。。。。。。 I...... Ji Fengchen lowered his head and looked at the ground, not knowing what to say.

"I'm really happy and secure when I'm alone with her," Ji Fengchen said, tears streaming down his face.

"You, completely carried away by love," Long proudly slapped Ji Fengchen's shoulder and said, "You two will be good colleagues in the future."

"I don't have anything to do with her anymore, I don't want to know her!" Ji Fengchen wiped the tears on his face and said, "It's normal this morning, but when I saw her during the shift, I 。。。。。。 I'll just 。。。。。。 I just want to hide, and when I look at her, my heart hurts."