When you're down

Yesterday I was very angry and deleted all the contacts on my phone, in fact, it doesn't matter if you delete it or not, because 80% The above phone calls, I have never been in touch, just lying quietly in the address book of the mobile phone, every time after a period of time will be cleaned up, the unwanted people are cleared, on the one hand, for the mobile phone and the heart to make some space, but sometimes see some people always feel that these people, we may contact in the future, some people, when they see his phone number, only to find that this person is our classmate or we are familiar with, but, for several years have not made a call, before some people told me that after a period of time to make a phone call with the person on the phone, talk to each other about family life, but later I found outIt's hard to do this, because some people may do it like this, that is, in order to maintain the so-called interpersonal relationship, contact, it feels like our friends, like we are still connected with each other, and there is something to talk about, but then I found out that I had worked hard before, and some classmates and friends around me contacted a few times, and then I found out that it was so boring, we have not been together for many years, and it was also many years ago, because of some common goals together, but then each had their own goals, and after many years, I found that we seemed to have become passers-by, although it can't be said so ugly, but it should be about the same, when you encounter a problem and ask others for help, everyone is busy with their own things, they already have their own lives, those who used to be maybe they have forgotten from their hearts or run away or lose it, and we also deliberately contact others, and later found out that when you lose your soul, you find that only you are sad, only you are crying, and all the people around are watching jokes or watching the scenery, no one should do such a good thing, such people are very few。

Because when you lose your soul, they can't see your existence at all, like those begging people on the street, how many of us can see their existence?

In fact, they only exist in a corner of our lives, in a small space, but later we found that in such an environment, each of us only cares about the rush of each day, and does not even have time to observe the surrounding environment, and there is no time to see what is happening around us and what everything around us should look like.

And when I really found that all the phone numbers have been deleted, when all the phone numbers are only one person left, in fact, this person's phone number I have memorized very familiarly, I also found that the people who are really close to me are really the people around me, their phone numbers, I am all backwards, those phone numbers that we can never remember, even if they exist on the mobile phone, even if they can call someone at a certain time, and we also have a lot of topics that do not hurt, sometimes make a phone call in the past, the other party may be busy with other things, and we still feel inconvenient to disturb or do not want to botherAs a result, the other party will also feel that we are busy with something, but when someone else calls, the first call, still, I think I will answer it, because, after all, I haven't been in touch for many years, but if I call again, people will feel that it is not interesting, people have a new life, and we just gradually become superfluous and passers-by in other people's lives.

So later, time slowly deleted a lot of things, and also filtered out a lot of things, and those hurried passers in our lives slowly all lost with the years and became strangers.

And those numbers that can be skillfully remembered in our minds are enough for our lives, and the numbers we can't remember, why do we keep so much?

What do you do with your phone every time? This is what I thought of yesterday when I deleted the number on the phone, in fact, it doesn't matter if I have a phone number or not.

I found that there are also some people who have a lot of phone numbers stored on their mobile phones recently, and the phone book is not enough, and the address book is not enough.

When you save a phone number, you need to delete one or delete two, carefully choose in the end, which one is not used often, which one needs to be deleted, so that after weighing the pros and cons, you will find that you can delete one and add one, maybe everyone is a person with power or ability, so I have a wide range of contacts and a lot of contacts, but I found that my life has gradually become simpler, and the simple only the most familiar people around me are left, and there are only those people I care about and those who don't care about us, and those who don't care about us or we don't care, Even if it is lying quietly in our phone number book, it only occupies our mobile phone memory for a few years, and we haven't called for several years, filtering again and again, deleting again and again, only to find out, in the end, those are useless at all, and finally I found that in life, those that can be used, are only the ones that can be received in my heart recently, and the rest of me really don't have the time and mood to deliberately call and contact feelings, and I don't even have the mood to harass others, because I don't want to harass others at all。

When life became like this, I found that my heart slowly began to calm down, because life gradually became simpler, and those who did not have the social interaction you wanted should all give up, because it is simply a waste of youth and a waste of time, but still in a limited life, cherish those things that should be cherished, and those who do not cherish themselves and those that they do not want to cherish, then throw them away.

And this time the phone number was deleted, many people will think it is incredible, and think that your attitude is really too rebellious, but then I found out that it doesn't matter if you have a phone number or not, is there any difference?

And those who don't care about themselves may not have been in touch for many years, may not have made a phone call for many years, not a single one, you say, what is the point of saving so many numbers in the phone number?

It's not interesting at all, I still have to live a real life, in order to live the truest heart, to live the truest feelings, in order to live the truest self.