The joy of doing housework together

When he asked his husband to do housework before, he always found a lot of reasons to shirk, he always said every time, clean the house, next time it will be dirty again, or clean, such capriciousness, is not a way at all, so he rarely does housework, sometimes, let him do housework, he is done in three or two clicks, and when I go to see, messy, and no difference between doing it, he has been lazy like this, but one day, he still has some changes, that is, the days when his mother-in-law came to the county, it was also a last resort, because she had to do gallstone surgery, so there were a lot of relativesIn this case, it is inevitable that relatives will come to my house, this time, I let him do housework, he is still very active, he is also a smart person, like me, afraid of relatives coming to my house, our house is too dirty and messy, so that relatives feel bad, give relatives a bad impression, the impact on both of us is not good, so he is driven by such an idea, he actively did a housework, he is responsible for a large area of cleaning, and I am responsible for each corner of the dead corner, such a cleaning, the two of us were busy for 40 minutes, although this time is not very long, but the cleaning is very clean, this time cleaning, Because it is the two of us, not as tired as when I cleaned alone before, and this time, because of my husband's heart, I am also working very hard, in just 40 minutes, the effect is still obvious, there is a feeling of refreshment, after this cleaning, I also think it is very good, and my husband is also walking on the floor, he does not wear shoes, in order not to stain the floor, before, he did not have such ah, always walking around on the floor that I dragged very clean, sometimes, I told him to remember to change shoes when entering the door, but he always couldn't remember such a thing before, but violated again and againIn such a situation, I also have no way at all.

He always can't remember to change shoes, can't remember to respect the fruits of other people's labor, what can I do, so I have been living like this, but after this cleaning is very clean, he still told that our house is very clean, and he also does not wear shoes every time, walking around the house barefoot, this incident gives me a profound truth, the fruits of other people's labor, no matter how you tell him to respect, he still will not respect, only his own labor results, he will respect, this is after such a thing, the biggest experience and lesson for me。

But after doing housework this time, he didn't feel very tired, he also jokingly told me that we can do cleaning for others in this way, the two of us go to work part-time together, to make money together, isn't it very good, I also deeply agree with what he said, it is very reasonable, not only can we make money, but also exercise our own body, but also lose weight, this idea is really good, really good!

But then I also told him that I wouldn't go, because I'm also a literate person, and my current economic situation is not very bad, and I haven't fallen to the point of cleaning others, in fact, many people know that when you do a decent job, and your economy is not very tight, I think there are very few people who want to do coolies for others, just like this kind of dragging the floor, and so on, how many people do it?

Speaking of this, it is not easy to do such a housework, the time it takes is not very long, but both of us are sweaty, after cleaning the room, we also feel a sense of accomplishment, after showering, and then rest on the sofa, there is a great sense of happiness, because housework, in the eyes of many people is not worth mentioning, but to be able to do it together, but it is an extraordinary existence, after this time to do housework, I also think that it is really a joy to be able to do housework together, doing housework in their own home。

In the days that followed, he also did housework with me several times, and sometimes, I also found out that he didn't want to do it, and I didn't want to do it, to be honest, who should we do this kind of work?

No one wants to do housework, in today's society, no one wants to pay all the time, take care of the other party, so we still have to do housework together, so it is fair to do it, so when there is a chance in the future, the floor at home is dirty, or there is something that needs to be done, I wait for him to get off work, we do it together, sometimes, he doesn't want to do it, sometimes there will be some inertia, but every time this happens, I will tell him, if you don't do it, then I can go to call cleaning, he asked me what the price of cleaning is, I also know, after telling him, he was distressed, said what to spend that money for, I do it, so that he began to do housework with me, just like this together to do housework, it is really good, he will also do it seriously, clean the house, so after a few times, I also feel that not only can clean the house, but also can experience the happiness of two people together, the happiness of working together, I will think like this every time, this is not my home alone, this is not his home alone, about housework, or two people to do it together, in this way, can bring happiness to each other, but also bring some time and space to get along, in fact, can get along with the other halfIt's still very good to spend more time with each other, although after every housework, sweating, a little hot, a little fatigue after labor, this is very normal, so after every housework, I still feel very happy, as for the cleaning he mentioned before, it will still be dirty and so on, I also want to say, just like eating, after eating today, tomorrow I will be hungry again, is it not necessary to eat?

After a few calculations like this, I still feel that the truth is the same, although there is no need to tell my husband about this truth now, because he will already clean up with me, and he has changed those previous thoughts with practical actions, so I still hope that such a good habit can continue to be maintained, and it is good to do housework together like this all the time!