That day, someone from the education group added my WeChat, if it's a stranger, there are other people in the group, we don't know each other at all, they take the initiative to add me as a friend, generally like this, I won't agree, because I'm the same as everyone, in WeChat, I generally add some familiar people I know, and some people close to me are friends, people we don't know at all, we either refuse to add as friends, and sometimes, silent, don't refuse or accept, so it still won't pass through friends, but this time, because I know that the people in this group are some cultured people,Or the elite of the education industry,So just like that, add her as a friend,In fact, I'm just her gender.,Or from the profile on WeChat.,I don't know anything else.,Later, she took the initiative to tell me that she was a teacher in another town.,That's it.,We've never met.,But it's from a group.,Add as friends.,This became a person who has never met.,But such a person who has never met.,In your spare time,,Still be able to chat.,Can say some happy things.,Can also say some unhappy things. 。

Although I have never met, although I don't know each other's faces, I don't know each other's height, and so on are not very clear, but when I send a message in the past, someone will always reply, and there will always be a very warm feeling, although it is just a stranger who has never met, I can still chat like this, so I am also aware that our requirements for strangers, we are familiar with people, we are for our relatives, we are for our lovers, these people's roles are different, our requirements for others are also different, sometimes think about it, such strangers can still chat well, But some people who are familiar with us, can't chat very well, and it's not like the kind of relationship we imagined, in fact, there was a boy before, in the eyes of others, we are very fateful, but what happened?

I've never talked about someone, and we don't have any feelings and thoughts about each other, this boy is not someone else, but someone who has been studying in the same classroom with me for 7 years, has been studying in the same classroom, has always grown up in an environment, in the eyes of others, say you are boyfriend and girlfriend?

I said, we're not, we're just a very ordinary classmate relationship, it's really just like this, this is also God's arrangement, and I didn't deliberately choose like this, but it's such a random result, even if it's boyfriend and girlfriend, we deliberately want to go to a classroom to study, and even sometimes, it's not necessarily like this, it's good to be in a school, but what about the final result?

It's often not as everyone wants. When chatting with this stranger, I also suddenly had a sad feeling, some people, we have known each other for a long time, and some have known each other for more than ten years, in fact, I really hope that those who pass by my side can be eternal, can always be by my side, but what about the facts?

I can't escape the elimination and selection of time and fate, how many people can always be by my side?

I think it's not much, when I graduated from college, those college classmates all went their separate ways, we had a casual meal at that time, I didn't expect it to be the final end, everyone went to their own places, each has their own place and life, and I am the same, with a job, a family, everything in life, and those people before, it's not that I don't connect with others, but those who seem deep feelings to us, but always can't stand the toss of the years, think about those who have experienced a lot together, those people have disappeared in the vast sea of people, and can no longer be found in the vast sea of people, can no longer be seen, and such a stranger can simply chat.

When I said this, I suddenly felt a little cold, if we knew that the final result was like this, would we have the desperate effort we had at the beginning?

Sometimes I think about it, the past self, those friends in the past, they are also doing their best, but how about many years later?

It's still going its separate ways, or it's really a broken gang. I still can't find any trace of the other party, I remember that time when I went to call the mobile phone number left by my friend, I actually said that I didn't know this person, I think maybe they really changed jobs, changed cities, so after a long time, even the mobile phone number became someone else's, but what will happen?

That is, I was sad for a while, and after I was sad, I wouldn't be so uncomfortable, because we had no way, no matter what, we couldn't find any trace of each other, so we could only give up like this, but if we meet again, will we still have the same enthusiasm as we did at the beginning?

If all the things in the world are silently giving, and then become like geese flying by, leaving no trace at all, there will be no one desperate to pay, and there will be no one to work hard for others recklessly, but then I also figured it out, in countless nights thinking about them, slowly became cold, slowly became a habit, and slowly accepted the sadness of not meeting and not contacting, so in the days that followed, I thought, will there be many people who are the same as me, do not want to contact others, do not want to interrupt other people's lives, so silently bear the pain and cold feeling？

Maybe everyone is like this, those who understand us, those who we also know very well, they have already gone to a distant place, and then feel that life is really like a journey on a bus, some people get on the bus, some people get off, on the journey of life, or accept fate, in some time to meet some people is an inevitability, and in some time to lose some people is also a kind of inevitability, but we are so easy to accept a person, but to forget those good times, those good past, how difficult, how reluctant, but after reluctance？

Fate still won't go according to your choice, or it won't transfer according to your will, so you can only imagine it like this, you can only forget it after being so cold, you will feel happy if you can chat with a stranger like this, and it is really not easy to fall into the current situation, so you can only laugh at yourself.