This is what I dreamed of! There are HR people who appreciate me and people who appreciate me, who don't meet me in real life.

However, I found that it is very difficult to be appreciated by HR or by the boss in real life, perhaps because my work ability is not strong, sometimes we find that in life, we can only do our best every time, and some people are born with strong ability, even if they are very easy, they can easily do very successful things, and then be appreciated by others.

However, many of us do find that we have worked hard, but we have not been appreciated by others, some people will think that you have worked hard if they understand the reason, but some people will not value such a process, they will only see the results of your work.

It also takes a lot of ability for you to be appreciated in real life, and I found myself being able to be appreciated by others only in my dreams.

It's really strange to say such a thing, when I dreamed a few days ago, I found out that a friend of mine was appreciated by a group of HR, and when my friend introduced himself to know that group of people, I found that HR also admired me, but then I found out that when I woke up, it was still the same as reality, there was no change at all, I don't know why, I was still easy to dream in recent times, and the content of the dream was various, but I also thought it was a normal thing, because people always have to dream。

In real life, as long as we can do things worthy of our conscience, what is the final result?

Whether or not to be appreciated by others, is another thing, in fact, some people will find that getting the affirmation of others is the success of their career, in fact, I found that I have my own opinions, I think, whether it is to get or not to get the affirmation of others, as long as you work hard enough, do what is worthy of your conscience, that is an unexpected gain, but also an unexpected success, in real life, we can not be exhaustive, some people have worked hard to do very well, will not necessarily be affirmed, or there will be the danger of being dismissed, and some people do it easily, but can get the attention of others. There are still some subtle relationships, some people are good at handling relationships with others, and are good at interpersonal communication, so his work is not very good, but he can be affirmed by others.

Some people are not good at interpersonal communication, and even if they do a good job, there will be some rifts due to the disharmony between them and HR.

In real life, no matter what kind of thing it is, no matter how high or low your EQ is, you still have to have the factor of IQ, and your IQ is still the factor of EQ!

Later, I found out that no matter what kind of person it is, he must have a certain comprehensive quality and his ability in all aspects is not bad in order to be considered a qualified person, while some people are only outstanding in one aspect of ability, and very poor in other aspects, I think they will never be recognized and affirmed by others.

There are similar problems in the teaching process, some students have good grades in all aspects, very average, so they have been affirmed by the teacher, but some students only have good grades on one side, and other aspects are mediocre, or very poor, other teachers think you are very poor, only the teacher who teaches you that excellent subject will have a good evaluation of you, other teachers will not, so in real life, I think, it is still necessary to develop in a balanced manner, and in the face of the pressure of the college entrance examination, if we do not develop evenly and do not pay attention to every subject, we will fall behind, or even be eliminated by the college entrance examinationSo in real life, we still have to pay attention to the balanced development of all aspects, so that we will get the teacher's affirmation, in real life we are the same, we are the same, only the balanced development between this will be affirmed by HR, whether there are all kinds of troubles in life, but we will still appreciate those versatile people, in fact, in school is the same, some people are good in this aspect, that aspect is good, and finally, in the teacher's impression, there will be the best impression, and we are the same in real life, we have to have more talents, or now, people often say that comprehensive talents, you have the advantages in this regardIf you have other advantages, it is easy to be recognized by others, but if you have only one aspect of ability, or if your interpersonal relationship is not good, I think it may really bury your talent.

Life is often like this, some people are very talented, but they have not played out, some people have no talent, but it is smooth sailing, there are a lot of unfair phenomena in real life, you think it is unfair, but in fact, there are all kinds of mysteries in it, some people are eliminated because of such shortcomings, some are promoted because of such advantages, maybe in real life, those unfairness you think are actually caused by your own lack of ability in some aspect, but in the end I found that in real life, it will be good to be yourself, as long as you are worthy of your conscience, don't think about anything else, It's still not interesting to think so much, but I found that during this time, I dreamed that HR still appreciated me, but this was just my own dream, and in fact I found out that I was still working in the original unit, and I didn't want to change jobs, because I was old, I didn't have the courage to jump ship, or I wanted to stay where I was, in a familiar working environment, in a familiar occasion, I can make myself happy work, maybe it's the life I want, sometimes I think about it, facing the appreciation of others, it is not necessarily the reason for me to change jobs, when there are many people who will appreciate themselves, I still feel that I am not confident enough, or, to put it simply, I am still a little bit worse, compared with those excellent people, will I find that I am surrounded by elites, all talented and capable people.

Later, I found that when you really pay attention to others, you really find the advantages of others, only to find out how much you need to learn in others, but sometimes you find that you don't have so much time to focus on others, and sometimes, but when you really look at others, you find that others are really good, and my own dreams are just dreams!