Chapter 55, I love you without regrets, and I respect the end of the story
"It's just that I love it too much!" Ren Na said: "Because I love someone too much, I love that person so much that I can lower the bottom line and let go of my self-esteem." This is just like the feelings in film and television dramas, and it even feels hypocritical. There are too few feelings like that in this world. So much so that if it appears in reality one day, everyone will feel disgusted! But if it appears in film and television dramas, it will be so moving. It's as if two people fell out of love and the whole world cried. ”
"So that kind of relationship, is it true love?" Zhien-chan nodded thoughtfully.
"If a person can stay sane in a relationship, do you think that is love?" Renna asked rhetorically, "So I know that kind of relationship is true love." So I resisted! If it weren't for true love, I wouldn't want to get married. But that kind of true love is too difficult to meet. And falling in love, quitting, it's too hard!"
Zhien-chan gradually understood a little in his heart. Even she suddenly made a comparison with Kihe and Wangtaika!
When Tianzhien-chan saw Wang Taika so humble to Song Coriander, he really felt incomprehensible. But what is even more difficult to understand is the feelings of Jien-chan at that time. Because at that time, she had already unconsciously compared Jihe with Wang Taika in her heart.
The result of the comparison is that Wang Taika failed miserably!
When Ki-ha and Ji-eun-chan separated, even if they were sad, they were still sensible and even polite, and the two of them communicated. Overall, after all, it was downright and generous, leaving the last face.
And Wang Taika's performance at that time was simply miserable! Humble to that extent, what else can be compared?
But in Zhi'en's heart, it was obviously Wang Taika's fiasco, but he felt that Jihe was not as good as Wang Taika. As for why, Jien-chan couldn't figure it out after thinking about it for so long.
But today, Jenna's words woke her up.
Wangtaika and Kihe are completely different!
Just like when Wang Taika hit Jihe, Jihe was able to give up Zhi'en sauce for his own safety. This kind of thing Wang Taika will never be able to do!
And it was time for Ki-ha to break up with Ji-eun-chan, and his performance with Wang Taika was also different. Of course, it's not that the dead skin and the face are true love, but the performance of Kihe, who is too calm!
Jieun-chan still clearly remembers that in order to keep himself, Ki-ha said a lot of things, all of which were how good he was to himself and how tolerant he was at the beginning. also listed a lot of practical examples, and said it little by little, and finally said that Zhien-chan was even a little guilty.
Ji He used to be kind to himself as a bargaining chip to keep himself! He even used the feelings of the two people to calculate and tell himself that he couldn't live up to him! In this way, he kept him as if he was asking for benefits!
Feelings were originally quite beautiful, but if feelings were used as bargaining chips that could be negotiated, it would be disgusting! So at that time, although Jieun-chan didn't understand why she was bored, she finally broke off her relationship with Ki-ha.
And Wang Taika is completely different, from beginning to end, Wang Taika has never said a word like this. Wang Taika did not list how much he paid to the function, nor did he use his own contribution as a bargaining chip in exchange for the guilt of the function.
In order to keep that one, Wang Taika tried all methods, even some shameless methods to die or live, extremely hypocritical methods, and crazy methods.
But from the beginning to the end, Wang Taika did not say anything similar to Kihe: "I have given so much to you, I have been so good to you! You must have a conscience! You can't leave me!"
No!
It wasn't until this time that Zhi'en Chan suddenly realized! Wang Taika had indeed lost himself because he loved him too much. But it is not because of love that it is humbled to the point of no dignity.
Wang Taika actually has dignity, although Wang Taika has lowered his bottom line little by little because of love, but he has always maintained the last dignity and has not changed!
And the last dignity of Wang Taika is: to keep Victoria with his own sincerity, instead of rationally dividing his feelings into who owes whom, and using his feelings as a bargaining chip to threaten Victoria to stay! Let love always be love, and will not become a bargaining chip and a burden of compromise, and will not be tarnished by messy things. No matter how humble Wang Taika is in the end to the dust and mud pit, but that love will never have a trace of dirt!
If this is not love, then what else is love?
At this moment, Jien-chan's doubts were solved. She suddenly understood what Wang Taika was doing, and even she understood why the one who had the function could pull and pull with Wang Taika for so long, but she still couldn't bear to break it off!
I thought it was unreasonable before, but now that I think about it, I actually see my feelings as superficial, so that I don't understand that kind of real feelings at all.
Love hurts, but love is never a burden. So there is no way to divide a winner or a loser in love. Just like the crazy one who is the function of Wang Taika, but isn't the one who is the function also sad and crying because of this? But no matter how sad it is, this relationship is not a burden, because neither of them uses their feelings as a bargaining chip to kidnap and threaten each other.
Compare it again, but Jihe is really too rational, rational enough to give examples, use a pile of facts to prove that it is good for himself, and then try to use his own guilt to keep it!
Thinking of this, Jien-chan was finally relieved. If before this, she would really inadvertently think about the relationship she once had, then from now on, she will never again!
Renna drove the car, near the company, the company's building.
"We're coming, you can call that person!" Renna turned her head to Zhien-chan and said, but when she saw Zhi-eun-chan sitting in the co-pilot in a daze, her inexplicable eyes were already red, and she almost immediately burst into tears, so she quickly parked the car on the side of the road and asked, "Hey, Zhi-en, what's wrong with you? Don't scare me." ”
"Nothing, I'm fine. It's just that...... It's just that I think if I meet Ernie one day the kind of true love you said. I don't know if I'll be happy?" Zhien-chan was a little sad: "It turns out that what looks so unbearable is the deepest." I felt like I was stupid. ”
"What did I think you were talking about? This is it?" Renna took out a tissue from her bag and handed it to Jien-chan, "That's why I said that times are different." This era is changing faster and faster. are all in the pursuit of fast fast, fast trains, express delivery, fast food. So much so that even the feelings are not deep enough, and love has to be as fast as fast food. If you like it, you will be together, and if there is a little contradiction, you will say goodbye directly. It's like thinking about what to eat at night, thinking about who you're with. Who doesn't even have a few spare tires? Love one, but spend the night with another. Feelings were originally a management development game, but it turned into a game of breaking through and collecting. But that kind of fast food love, even if it is a hundred times, it will not grow much. Some people love once and mature. And I'm telling you this to make you understand, don't accept a person lightly! But if you really decide to be a person, then don't worry about anything!"
"So, that's what it is...... What is the real reason why Ernie doesn't get married?" asked Jien-chan.
"Almost. Ren Na also said frankly: "I have some feelings, but I haven't loved them yet, so I'm tired of sleeping." And some feelings, without touching them, are crazy in love. Therefore, the kind of feelings that are persisted to the extreme, and even paid for it, are really too stupid in the eyes of young people today! To love a person to that extent, in their understanding, this kind of feeling does not exist in this world. ”
"I used to find it difficult to understand, even hypocritical. But now I know that there is!" said Zhien-chan firmly, "I see, I've seen it." ”
"Have you seen that?" Renna asked curiously.
"See, it's right ahead. Jieun-chan smiled suddenly, because through the car window, she saw a figure standing in the wind on the opposite side of the road not far away.
A look of underwhelming!