When I was working in the field, I was also deeply shocked by some people's outlook on life, many people are just for material pursuits, for money are willing to do anything, once a colleague in a unit asked me that time, have you talked about a boyfriend, I said yes, he said, he has no money, I said a poor egg, he said, then you are still good with him, I was stunned all of a sudden, what is this, I said how can not?

He said, the boyfriend you talked about might as well be your lover to someone else's boss, I said what are you talking about, he said, I'll give you an analysis, you talked about your boyfriend, but after talking, he can't give you anything, it's better to talk to the boss or something, so you can get a sum of money, I said, the relationship is really like this, I still won't be like this, what are your views?

I was also very surprised, but I am not friends with this person, otherwise it is not possible, there is such a serious difference in outlook on life, but in such an environment, I also deeply know that he turned out to be such a outlook on life, and he only had a one-sided relationship with me, I was also in this conversation, just a few words of small talk, and I never spoke again, I don't know where this person went later, anyway, they don't work together, I don't know where I went.

It is also in this way again and again to see the views of these people around me, I am also speechless, but I have always adhered to my own principles, like is like, not like is not like, even when I talk to others about feelings, I will take care of myself, whether it is financially or in some other aspects related to money, I have always adhered to this, because I have my own principles, in such a day, I also deeply discovered, I still want to find a man I like, find a man who can always be good to me, I also found out in this way, in fact, in life, I am a very happy existence, I think the road of life is very long, to find a man who is good to himself to marry, has always been the happiest thing in life, because no matter what position you are in, no matter what kind of status quo you are, you like others is like others, don't like others is not like others, there is no need to sacrifice your youth and body for money, feelings are feelings, break up when there is no feelings, or don't talk about feelings, anyway, in such an environment, I also found that I still like the purest kind of feelings, like is not like,But in real life,This kind of relationship doesn't seem to be much.,In the third year of junior high school,I saw a sentence in a classmate's notebook that said,There is no real love.,There's no eternal friendship.。

At the time, it did sound very reasonable, but at that time I was still young, I really didn't know what this sentence meant, and as time went by, I realized that when I gradually began to understand feelings, I also found that I had always liked the most favorite feelings, maybe only in the most dreamy castles, but in real life, why is it so difficult to find?

There are some men, who always say that they don't care or anything, but they will still be very attentive, and there are some men, when I talk about the role of Duan Zhengchun, I am also deeply intoxicated, because this role is too popular with boys, I don't know why such a flowery man has so many women like it, I am also strange, and many of the objects of boys' worship are him, even if it is not him, there are some similarities, and maybe to be a man who loves his own women wholeheartedly, I can't say no, but it's really hard to find, when you really taste the ups and downs of feelingsI realized how precious a single-minded feeling is, and I am constantly discovering my distress in such a deep wait.

In fact, it is by luck when you find a lot of objects, in many women, before you marry into their family, you don't know what the situation of their family is, what their people are like, their living habits or something, some are lucky to meet a good mother-in-law, and when you are unlucky, you can only suffer yourself, very hard, you know after the hard work, and in such an environment, I also deeply understand that those women who are very helpless have to do a lot of housework, or work hard in other people's homes, just for their husbands and children, and this husband is sometimes not how good he is to himself, but can only endure it, and many people are no matter how hard their future life is, they all hold a kind of idea of marrying a chicken with a chicken, marrying a dog with a dog, and some always hold the idea of a husband and a wife, but when your efforts become disrespectful, we will still stick to our promises like this, always insist like this, until we are exhausted.

It is also in many times, many people among them, the people they love, the people who love themselves, and the people who are married, are often not the same person, this is the source of pain, sometimes, you obviously like someone very much, but can not be together, and someone you are with is also together for some other reasons, anyway, the reason is not feelings, it is some other things, or because of age, so there are people who marry for the sake of marriage, and when they are at the age of marriage, but there is still no person they like, and they don't want such a person to be single, so they find a person with comparable conditions to marry, But after getting married, I found that this day is also very boring, because they are not looking for someone they like, and those reasons for getting married because of marriage, sometimes it doesn't seem so sufficient, just because of such a reason, a marriage without feelings is always boring, in the communication of life again and again, we are also slowly beginning to understand that in fact, life and marriage is a very common thing, marriage is unhappy, sometimes think about it, those unhappy marriages, in fact, it is very sad to make do with it all the time, because it is just for a life, everything is under the calm surface, so turbulent and tasteless.