Do you really live up to what you ask of others?(1)

When I just graduated from university, I studied the normal major, but some friends around me suggested that I should not be a teacher, in fact, I don't like it very much, one of the reasons is that they think that when a person like me does something, it is always wrong, or illogical, that is, in such a day, I found out that in fact, as a person like this, I also know some of my own problems, so I am also afraid of misleading people's children, so I don't like it, but my major is normal, when I studied for a long time, I still think that normal is goodWhen I go to do other things and work, I still face the trouble of professional mismatch, so in the end, I still chose to be a teacher, although I know that I have some shortcomings, but I have the confidence to correct it, so I do it like this, but when I am working, I also found that in fact, children nowadays, always want to have equal rights with adults, according to reason, it should be like this, people should be equal, but every time like this, I also found some problems, I remember once, when I was in class, there was a teacher assigned a lot of Sunday homeworkSo some of the students said, the teacher is so beautiful, no need to write homework, I am also very surprised, the reason why they have such an idea, is because they are faced with a lot of homework, but they envy the teacher does not have to write, they obviously want to have the same status as the teacher, but at this time, I also thought about it and told them, don't you want this?

Because when the teacher was young, he also wrote like this, but the teacher has grown up and has missed the best time to write homework and read books.

They are also in such a question again and again, I found that they also have some students who grow up with the ideal of wanting to be a teacher, in fact, their ideal of being a teacher is also very simple, some students think that being a teacher is very great, but there are also some students who choose to be a teacher with a very abnormal mentality, what they mean is that when they grow up, they can let the children write more, just like revenge to write homework and read, what kind of mentality is this?

Reading is for their own good, but in their words, I also know that they don't understand the teacher's deep understanding, and always think that the teacher's role is to let the student write homework, such a simple thing.

There are also some other aspects, such as the most obvious time is when eating, some students go to pour the food, but the teachers also go to pour it out like this, because sometimes we can't finish eating, and when we can't finish eating, we can only do this.

But the school doesn't allow you to pour food, so every time there are teachers, or graduating students staring there, like a police officer in a prison, but after a long time, they actually develop such a habit, it's really bad, that is, standing next to the waste water bucket to eat, standing dozens of looks, why standing here to eat, because they want to find a suitable opportunity, in this opportunity, they will not miss it, the teacher or the senior classmates said that you really can't eat and throw it away, but you must pour it in the bucketAt this time, they flocked to the waste water bucket like a swarm of bees, and in an instant, all the meals were solved, and I was also fascinated, because when they heard the teacher or senior classmates say that they must finish eating, they just ate next to the waste water bucket, or eat slowly, very slowly, enough to show that they are waiting.

But every time we go to pour food, we are told by the students, because we are teachers, they are students, and others are more relaxed in their requirements for us, and every time they see us pouring food, they will always say, why do you think the teachers can pour the rice, but we can't?

This is their muttering, when my colleagues and I heard such a voice, we only answered once, and said that others were speechless, that is, we are teachers, you are students, this is different, I want to be a teacher like the teachers, I remember this deeply, when I think of this sentence, although there are some strong words, but this is also a shield for us and parents, although this statement is not very reasonable, but it is also natural to explain a lot of things, for example, drinking is not allowed in the student days, especially in the dormitory, such behavior is really inappropriateWhen you are caught by a teacher or a school, it is troublesome, but some students are very confused, why parents can drink like this every time, but they can't, what is the reason for this?

When some parents really can't explain such a thing, they will say to their children, parents and children are different, you want to drink, I won't care about you when you grow up, this is what parents say, which also makes many children have a kind of worship of parents and teachers, hoping that they can grow up quickly, this is their idea, but also because our answer will always make them speechless, but they will still have some unhappiness in their hearts, because what others can do, they can't do it, how to say this, so I think the best way is not to let them have any inner dissatisfactionThe best way is to let them understand that their parents or teachers do not have such shortcomings, why do they have such shortcomings, such shortcomings, or such shortcomings, in short, under these shortcomings, we still feel that we do not have such shortcomings to be more convincing.

Students are like this, not only in school, but also in the family, many children are really too similar to their parents, because such shortcomings are learned by their ears and eyes, not deliberately by parents, but also in some living habits, I found that people from the same family, there are a lot of things in common, some are common advantages, some are common shortcomings, anyway, they are very similar, some thoughts and ideas are also very similar, this may be contagious, and it will be such a result after a long time together。