Today I read an article about a woman who went to a restaurant for dinner, and what happened, but at such a moment, I wanted to tell about it myself? Here's what the story is about:

In a restaurant in Shanghai.

The waitress who served us was as young as a young leaf on a tree.

As she held the steamed fish, the plate tilted, and the fishy juice poured down recklessly, spilling on my leather bag resting on my chair!

But before I could have a seizure, my dear daughter stood up like a whirlwind, walked quickly to the maid, smiled very gently, patted her on the shoulder, and said, "It's all right, it's all right." The waitress looked at my purse at a loss, like a frightened puppy, and said, "I, I'll go get a rag to ......." You go and do things, really, it's okay, don't take it to heart. The daughter's tone was very soft, as if she were the one who had done something wrong.

I glared at my daughter, feeling like a balloon, overfilled, about to explode but unable to explode, inevitably hard.

My daughter looked at me calmly, and under the bright lights of the restaurant, I could clearly see that there was a thin layer of tears in her big eyes.

That night, after returning to the hotel, the mother and daughter were lying on the bed together, and she showed the medicine sold in the gourd.

After 3 years in London, in order to train her independence, my husband and I did not let her go home during the university holidays, we asked her to plan her own backpacking trips, and we also hoped that she would try to work part-time in the UK.

The lively and outgoing daughter does not touch the spring water at home, and it is not her turn to do rough work, but when she arrives in the UK, where she is not familiar with life, she chooses to be a waitress to experience life.

On the first day of work, she got into trouble.

She was assigned to the kitchen to clean the wine glasses, which were as thin as cicada wings and would break into a pile of shiny pieces if they were a little stronger. The daughter trembled and walked on thin ice, and finally washed the large number of wine glasses that seemed to be unwashed in a lifetime, and just breathed a sigh of relief, but she didn't expect her body to be crooked, and she knocked down the glass with a stumble, and the glass fell to the ground in response.

"Mom, at that moment, I really felt like I was going to hell. There was still a little palpitation in her daughter's voice, "But do you know how the foreman reacted?" She came over unhurriedly, put her arms around me and said, 'Are you okay, honey?' and then turned to the other staff and said, 'Hurry up and clean up the debris!' to me, she didn't even say a word of reproach to me!"

On another occasion, when the daughter was pouring wine, she accidentally poured the bright red wine on the customer's milky dress, as if she had deliberately planted a season of broken bougainvillea on the dress. I thought that the customer would be furious, but she didn't expect her to come over and comfort her daughter: "It's okay, the wine stains are not difficult to wash." As he spoke, he stood up, patted his daughter on the shoulder, and quietly walked into the bathroom, without publicity, let alone shouting, and calmed the frightened bird in front of him into a little swallow on the beam.

The daughter's voice was full of emotion: "Mom, since others can forgive me for my mistakes, you can treat the other people who made mistakes as your daughters, forgive them!" At this moment, in this quiet night, my eyes were wet.

After reading such a text, I was also thoughtful, in real life, our patience was gradually erased by mobile phones, sometimes I think about it, I am not in a hurry to play a day of online games at home, but if you are asked to do other things, you can't wait a minute, in the previous time, I also encountered such a thing in class, classmates do not give in to each other, in class, obviously have already talked about the things that students should get along well, and the truth is all told, but when it comes to doing, they still can't deal with it well, in fact, when you ask them how to deal with it, They also know how to deal with it, but it is really difficult to let themselves do it in person, which makes us all feel embarrassed, but it is easier said than done, which is a portrayal like this, in many cases, we don't know each other's situation and keep blaming each other, but in the end? Sometimes we also find that in fact, the other party is also for our good, which is actually a kind of incomprehension, we are often shocked by such occasions, sometimes, think about a lot of things, and when you really say it thoroughly, you feel that there is a power from the heart.

When I was in class, it was not a time, I didn't know how to get along with each other at the same table, sometimes, because of a little thing and lost my temper, it was really not worth it, in class, I also found that some students listen to the class very seriously, and study well, but their own qualities are not how good, which may be the biggest stain for a person, when in school, it is not good to cultivate people's quality, and it can be good in the society? I read an article today, saying that China's Nobel award rate is very low, but the quality of Chinese people is still good, the quality is good, it is also a good shape, in a person's life, your quality may be the most valuable touchstone of your life, of course, we also hope that our country can have a few more Nobel winners, but character is still the first, this is very important, I also copied the original words of the original text, I hope you can also think about some meaningful development for yourself when you see it, let yourself grow up quickly。

Please take a look at the following passage, which is the original sentence from Leif Q&A:

5. There is a saying in China that the United States has produced dozens of Nobel laureates despite having a terrible basic education, while China has a solid basic education but no Nobel laureates. What do you think about this?

Leif: I've received a lot of awards, and I don't think they mean anything. My daughter went to the most famous medical university, and her mentor was a Nobel laureate, but he was of bad character, so it was meaningless for such a person to win the award. The students I take take perform plays every year, and there are many people who come to see the play from different places. After 30 days of playing, after the performance, I don't give out awards, and I don't have a party, because I think acting in a play is a reward, it's a party. There are a lot of problems with education in the U.S. and China, but they won't change because of the rewards.

This is just one of the questions and answers, but the other questions and answers and my current question are not very involved, so I will not repeat it in this way, when I see such a news, we also have a other view on some of the people who have won the Nobel Prize, although this is not a view of all people, but it also illustrates some problems, among those who have won the Nobel Prize, there are still some people whose quality is not very good, people are still the most valuable quality, when we pursue our own career success, we still have to take good care of our character, without the support of character, no matter how great your achievements are, it's just like planting a time bomb for someone else.