Happiness is because of your choices
Many people say that happiness lies in management, and happiness is because of management, so it becomes happy, but I have a different point of view, in my opinion, happiness is because of choice. In fact, everyone has everyone's point of view, but in my personal experience, I feel that happiness lies in the choice, you choose the right person will be happy for a lifetime, and if you choose the wrong person, you will fall into a difficult predicament, the last time I met the person, maybe because of my personal reasons, but he always ignores me every time, and after getting married, it is not interesting, every time he is always silent, not even a word, I never expected him to call me, call me, and I always call him every time to tell him, he will not answer my phone, and such a marriage, I really don't know how to continue, sometimes think about itChanging a person is really like changing a life, what kind of result should life be, what kind of result should be, and I found that I couldn't continue at that time, and choosing to replace the other half is really an inevitable choice.
In the eyes of some people, in their marriage, they can choose to accept their fate, that is because they still have the things they care about, if your marriage does not have those things that you care about, in your marriage does not have those things you hope to get, without those things you care about, when you are not happy anywhere, I think you will also choose to leave, instead of persevering like this! And those who can go on are not because of how strong they are, but because they can still move forward!
It's like running a 5000-meter race, some people keep running, that's because he can really run, it's the same as marriage, but when you really can't run, it's not because of your other reasons, but because of your physical strength or your various factors, so that you can't run anymore, this is the difference between people and people, although it is not very big, but it is also a small difference, it must determine the winner or loser. In real life, it's like a marathon of life, when you really can't run, then stop and take a break, and replace a life partner, just like passing through a post station in life, start again again, maybe there will really be a good life, and sometimes you find that every time it's a person like you, you haven't made any changes at all, but just replaced the other half, and from an unlucky person to an unhappy person, you will become a happy person, what is the reason for thisMaybe it's because of the other half, and there is no reason for it at all.
And what you think every time is to make yourself happy, to make yourself happy by changing yourself, sometimes it can be achieved, sometimes, even if you change yourself, people who don't like you still don't like you like you like that, or still hate you like that, what extent do you change yourself to get your happiness, how can you make yourself happy every day, happy every day, some people will always naively think that happiness is because you are managing your marriage, but sometimes you really can't manage your marriage, that means another choice, happiness is because of choicewill be happy because of it.
What I want to say is that happiness is made by choice. The first is because of choice, the second is management, you choose the wrong person, you choose the wrong marriage, you choose the wrong relationship, and how do you work hard? Maybe you really struggle, but you still won't be happy, because your choice is wrong, no matter how hard you work in business, you still won't be happy.
And when you choose the right person, sometimes you find that you are very relaxed, you will feel very happy, but also a happy person, but also a happy marriage, but also a happy relationship, but also a happy life, the gap, I think many people will understand that happiness, the key lies in your own choice, and you choose a good person, your life will be very easy, will be very happy.
Life is actually a trip, which is very different from the means of transportation you choose, if you choose the plane, it is very easy and comfortable to reach the destination, if you choose the high-speed rail, you will feel very good, the time is very short, you can get to the place you want to go, and it will be very comfortable, if you choose the train, the train will also be a very good choice, and when you choose the bicycle, you have to be very tired to ride a bicycle, to reach the place you want in life, the destination you want in life。
But if it's really a distant journey of life, I think most people will choose to be good, some people will choose bicycles, and some people choose to walk, so that even if your life is hard, no matter how hard you work, there is no other person who can achieve the goal of life, can reach the state of life. I think a lot of the time it depends on your own choice, what kind of choice you make, what kind of life you will have. This is the case in real life, and the same is true for daughter-in-law, who you choose, what kind of life you choose, what kind of life you choose, what kind of life you choose, so I think happiness is because of your own choice, if you choose the right one, you will have happiness, if you choose wrong, you will be very tired of management, and you will not have happiness, this is my understanding of happiness and the view of happiness! If you have different views, keep your own point of view, try it well, whether you can accept the shortcomings of others, whether you can accept other people's different lifestyles and a different life, I think, the final result will be that you will have an extraordinary understanding, and have a different conclusion about life!