Do you find that I have some big bad problems, but for my friends who play with me, I still think that people who can accept my bad problems can only play in this way.

And some people you can't accept the shortcomings of others at all, then there is nothing fun between you, in my opinion, this is the case, whether it is friends with you, or some other things, you can't accept the shortcomings and you don't deserve to enjoy the advantages.

It's the same in real life, everyone who walks around us, when you want to have the advantages of others, then you have to know clearly that anyone has shortcomings, and not necessarily perfect people, there are no perfect people in the world, and we have to face other people's various shortcomings, or have the spirit of acceptance, and some people will always feel that they are unique, they have a variety of advantages, that is, they do not want to accept the shortcomings of others, and will always feel that they have to let others correct, in fact, no matter for anyone, it is very troublesome to want to correct, and some are even difficult to changeThere is a saying that the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change.

That's the truth, some shortcomings are a shortcoming formed for decades, and it is not easy for you to help others get rid of it for a while, and what is used to yourself, how comfortable and how to live, and people's shortcomings are not necessarily a shortcoming, and such people, we still have to silently accept the shortcomings of others.

After a long time, I realized that most of them are the best one in our lives. People who can accept the shortcomings of others can naturally accept the advantages of others, this is a topic that does not need to be said, and such people, they are generally people who will have better choices and abilities, because they can accept the shortcomings of others, and those who can't accept the shortcomings of others.

We also end up with the disgust of others, and we can't get the advantages of others, or we can't enjoy the advantages of others.

Disadvantage is a very real problem, but the disadvantage is sometimes a kind of advantage, it depends on what you say, different environments, different things are changing, the disadvantage may also be an advantage, it may also be a disadvantage, such a dialectical relationship, we will still be very clear, there is a saying called dialectical unity, this is the so-called dialectical unity, in fact, you can turn everyone's shortcomings into advantages, it is also a resource, it is also a good choice, but in fact, many people do not have such ability, then we can only slowly accept the shortcomings of others, in real life, I want to give you some preventive shots in advanceWhen we choose friends in real life, we will find that those friends who can play with us are those who can accept the shortcomings of others, and those who can accept our shortcomings, and when we can't accept the shortcomings of others, we will walk away quietly, and those who can't accept our shortcomings, they will also stay away from us for no reason, this is friends in real life.

So it's really hard to change others in real life, but it's still easy to change yourself, everything has to put all your eyes on yourself, don't put all your eyes on others, look at others, see those advantages in others, what can we do?

You can't change the shortcomings of others, and you can't enjoy the advantages of others. We still have to put all our eyes on ourselves, on improving our own abilities, our own shortcomings slowly become advantages, our own shortcomings are narrowed, the advantages are magnified, this is what should be done, in fact, sometimes I find out that in real life, many people say that I also have advantages, but the shortcomings cover up the advantages, hearing such words, I also feel terrible, yes, anyone has advantages, even if it is a bad person, but when the shortcomings cover up the advantages, this person will be considered by others to be a useless person。

This is in life, because others think that there are many shortcomings of people, so there will be few friends, but sometimes only to find that some people can still accept our shortcomings, such people, although it is said that there are very few, although it proves that you have very few friends, some people, only to find that there are many friends of those people, they are, interpersonal relationships are very good, they are good at changing themselves, good at changing their strengths and weaknesses, let themselves have more advantages, let their shortcomings be less, can magnify their advantages, can cover up their shortcomings, they will have all kinds of friends, have all kinds of good interpersonal relationshipsAlthough in real life, some friends are few, which is a kind of cleanliness for our lives, we don't have so much time to maintain the relationship between others and us, but we still have to recognize our own shortcomings, recognize the advantages and disadvantages of others.

After a long time, I found that it is difficult to correct my shortcomings, let alone change the shortcomings of others, and later found that I must slowly accept myself, accept this imperfect self can also accept the friend, accept this imperfect self, only people who can accept my shortcomings are worthy of enjoying my advantages, in fact, in real life, many people should have such an idea, we will also have such an idea, people who can accept our shortcomings, of course, can also enjoy our advantages, we will also slowly cherish those friends in our lives, friends who have always existedThey will also be sad for our shortcomings, sometimes our shortcomings are like thorns in our bodies, like hedgehogs will hurt the people around us, they are also able to stay by our side after every injury, this is really a friend and cherished person who is most worthy of our cherishment!

So in real life, please like my shortcomings, then I will magnify my advantages to you, so that you can enjoy the joy of life, let you enjoy the passion of life, and enjoy the fun of life!