Learning to be grateful is not necessarily how much others have helped you, and you have to pay for this person for the rest of your life, and you have to recognize this person's account for the rest of your life, no matter what you encounter, whether it is big or small, or other inconsequential things, you must do everything he says.

Because sometimes we also have our own opinions, we will thank those who have helped us from the heart, and when we encounter things, we also have to do it according to our own will, and we have helped others, others in the difficulties of the first to help us, such mutual help is a lot, without deliberately reluctantly, some people help you, you have to let you buy his account for a lifetime, a lifetime like a dog's tail behind him, in fact, this is not necessary, and sometimes we find that you like a person, or someone else has helped you, you still have to know how to be grateful, at the right time to help others, so like a kind of repayment, and not necessarily a lifetime always have to obey others, people still have to have a little bit of their own thoughts, whether it is a person or an animal, you have to do what you think is right and do it, not necessarily say that what others do is wrong, and you also follow others to do this, maybe it is an imperfect life, many people are because others have helped themselves, they will follow this person for the rest of their lives, and strive to do what this person asks you to do, and sometimes maybe this person is doing good deedsIn this way, you are like a good choice, you have your own life of life, and every time you are doing the right thing, and if the person who has helped you, what he has done is not good, he is a wicked person, but when he helps you, he has a different purpose, I hope you can work for him, do things for him.

So are you really doing things for him all your life, just doing something for him?

Is there really no room for turning back? Maybe people still have to think clearly in their lives, or think clearly about whether what they are doing is right or wrong, others have helped you once, and you should also help others once at the right time, don't force yourself and others like this, some people are like this, every time they always want to force others with their own will.

At that time, I found that no matter whether others need help or not, he will extend a warm hand to help you, and then you have to thank him, and these people who have to let you buy his account for the rest of your life, I think there is no need to obey him all the time, and always accept the help of others, but in many cases, we still encounter difficulties or need help, and we don't know how the other party's character is?

We don't know whether the other party is helping you or harming you when they reach out to you, so we still quickly correct it when we realize the mistake of the matter, don't make such a mistake again and again, after a long time, there is really no room for change, and even we don't know how to correct it, let alone others.

In our lives, from childhood to adulthood, we will meet a lot of people who have helped us, if we go to the calculations like this, with a lifetime of gratitude, we will also be very tired, because of our mood, in addition to living by ourselves, taking care of the people around us, but also taking care of our friends, and we also have to know how to be grateful, in the end choose what kind of good way to be grateful, in my opinion, or to know how to refuse others, when others have helped you, when others encounter difficulties, you must think clearly whether his request is reasonable, whether it is a correct choice, so to choose whether to help others or reject others, and there is no need for others to help you once, and you have always relied on one person to live all your life, there is no need at all.

Someone else helped you once, maybe someone else is an unintentional help, or a casual move, in fact, in the eyes of others, you don't need so much in return, and help is regarded as a very heavy grace.

Then when we repay others, we also have to think clearly about how to reciprocate, not like wine and meat friends, others help you once you have to gradually get closer, two people are intimate, in fact, it is not necessary, everyone has their own life, everyone has everyone's life circle, you may not have everyone's ideas and friends, everyone still has everyone's characteristics, and those friends who can walk with us every time are the people who decide to distinguish in the future, and others have helped you once, not necessarily people of the same kind as you, and we don't need to change others, or change ourselvesIt's not necessary to be the same kind of person we want to be, and to reluctantly walk together, and I think the best way is that someone else has helped you once, and you help someone else when they need it, and that's fine.

There is no need to add a heavy burden to yourself, as if you have been owing others, in fact, you owe it, you can do what you like, or at the right time, when others need to help others, return what others owe to others, so it is good, and there is no need to feel uneasy all the time, because in many cases, we will meet a lot of people who have helped us from childhood to adulthood, if you add a psychological burden to yourself, I think your life will also be very heavy, everyone still has to live their own life within their own ability, and then we can help others and help those around us who need it when we can, and sometimes we also hope that those who help us can take life lightly.

Let these people who have helped us, don't help others for some very strong reasons, so when we help others in life, we still have to help others with sincerity and kindness from the heart, instead of letting others know how to be grateful, know how to force others to reciprocate the mood to help others, this is a bad mentality at all, when helping others, we must not think about how others will repay themselves, when others do not know how to be grateful, we should also understand others, and should also think of such people who do not know how to be grateful, should think of such a result, not after they have helped othersIn the case that others don't know how to be grateful, Geng is worried that he has increased the psychological burden on himself, and he feels like he has made a wrong decision, helping others by himself is paying for his kindness, and whether others know how to be grateful or not, that's someone else's business.