In life, many times you will meet a lot of heartthrobs, these people sometimes they are very good to others, to anyone, in fact, such people, are they really good to others?

Is it really good for everyone? I think maybe it's a very superficial phenomenon, a lot of people are because they will have some skills in dealing with people, and in fact, such people really think about others, really think about people who think about others sincerely, maybe not like this at all, these people are just very hypocritical, and others only think that some people like this are very good at thinking about others, like perfect people, I have seen such people around me, a person I met before, I have always been with such a person, at that time no matter what happened with him, others would say that I was not good, it was my mistake, and I also found out laterIs it true that he is good in all aspects and that I am not good in everything?

I was also in this kind of experience, very lacking and losing confidence, feeling that I was not doing well anywhere, and others were doing well, and when I quarreled with him, I found that my friends around me blamed me, saying that it was my fault, was it really my fault?

Maybe it's really because of some misunderstandings about others caused by bad temper, but later I found out that these heartthrobs, your people are not necessarily so beautiful in people's impressions, because through one thing, I also slowly discovered that when I encounter things, there are many people who will help me, and for the heartthrob's friend, the heartthrob's friend can't think of a way, and I really don't know where the reason is.

It was in an experience of borrowing money that I found out that as long as I opened my mouth to borrow money from a friend, my friend would actively lend me money, even without taking the interest from the bank, I remember that once a friend lent me money, it was a fixed deposit she deposited in the bank, and then she changed the money into a current deposit without interest and handed the money to me, this behavior moved me very much, but I found that the heartthrob friend was also in the same situation, but he couldn't think of a way, he didn't borrow any money, but was waiting for his family to borrow money, I think this may be a very fundamental reasonThose who leave a bad impression on others are not necessarily people with poor character and low efficiency in doing things, and those who have a good impression on everyone and are praised by others may not have a lot of people to help him when they encounter things, in fact, I have also found some shortcomings like this, many people are like this, when they encounter things, they all hope to meet some people who sincerely help themselves, but where are there so many people who sincerely help themselves, or they still have to help others sincerely in their usual times, so that when they encounter things, they will have people who sincerely help themselves, and you are a heartthrob, The people around you think you are a good person, but they know in their hearts that you are good for who and who is not good?

People still have to have some emphasis in society, who is close to whom, who has a good relationship with whom, and who has a bad relationship with whom, these are all focused, not that you are good to all people, and as a result, all people have a bad impression of you, or when you encounter things, you feel that you are far away, what is the meaning?

I think friends in life still need to find a few intimate friends, although some friends are few, but each friend has its own meaning and role.

I remember when I just graduated from university, many of my friends told me that their classmates or friends went to do pyramid schemes, and then pulled them to do pyramid schemes and other things, and when I told them, I was also very surprised, because I thought how could such a thing happen, I had already fallen into the trap of pyramid schemes, how could he pull his classmates and friends and the people around him to do pyramid schemes?

But then I found out that I have very few friends, but my friends around me don't have such messy people there, they are all sincere people, and later I found out that in fact, people gather like and things are grouped, which is very reasonable.

You are a sincere person, and you will still find some sincere friends to get along with, and I still don't feel much about those flashy people, and I still don't like to get along with them.

I want to stay away, maybe that's what makes me a person, and sometimes it's hard to speak.

But I still hope that I will be sincere and kind to everyone who walks around me every time, and to every sincere friend who walks by me.

Later, I found out that in my life, I still have to be an angular person, in this way, although some people say that I am a bad person, it is equivalent to some people who will say that I am a good person, I still know in my own heart whether I am a good person or a bad person, and there is no need to care so much about what others say and say.

This kind of heartthrob, everyone says hello, good people say you are good, and bad people say you are good, so are you a good person or a bad person?

This is what a friend of mine told me a long time ago, so I still feel that I am a good person, a bad person, and a matter that has already been decided, rather than saying that you are a good person or a bad person in the mouth of others.

I don't want to lie to myself like this, I don't need others to evaluate, I don't need others to evaluate, I don't need other people's white lies, in fact, I know it in my heart, as long as I recognize the facts, recognize my own essence, recognize whether what I have done is right or wrong, always insist on doing what I think is right, always do what you think is good, so it is a good life, instead of always pursuing other people's eyes, to pursue other people's thinking, to pursue other people's praise, is it necessary？

How tiring it is to live like that, it is better to live yourself, live the life you want, do what you want, as long as you think the right thing, you will actively do it, and you think it is wrong, and there is no need to force yourself, force the people around you, so that it can be a happy life, a positive life, and a life you want, so don't be a heartthrob in life, you must learn a lesson, and don't provoke those heartthrobs anymore, just add some trouble to your life。