73. Changes after giving birth to a daughter (1)
Cao Xiule was happy: "You child is really sensible, tell your aunt, why do you like to go to school?"
"If you don't go to school, you won't be able to get into a good university, and if you can't get into a good university, you won't be able to find a good job. ”
"That's the life of a child from a poor family, you follow your aunt, you don't have to work for others in this life, and your aunt and uncle's money is as you like. ”
"Auntie, isn't this okay?" Xiaohe pulled her hand out of her palm: "My mother said that people have to rely on themselves." ”
Cao Xiu was rude, and said angrily: "What your mother said is not entirely right, listen to your aunt in the future, from now on, you will be your aunt's child." ”
Xiaohe didn't understand that "there is no free lunch in the world", but Cao Xiu's words made her uncomfortable.
"Does my mom want me?"
"It's your mom and dad who think that your aunt and uncle can take better care of you, and your aunt still says that you want to see your mom and dad, and you can go back at any time. ”
Xiaohe was stunned: "Are my aunt and uncle my new mother and new father?"
"Oh, Xiaohe is so smart, what's wrong? Not happy? You don't want to live with your aunt?"
Xiaohe hurriedly shook his head and shook his head into a rattle: "Aunt, I'll go to the bathroom." ”
"Go ahead. ”
"I want to go to the bathroom in the hall. ”
"Isn't there a toilet in the room. ”
"I want to go to the hall. ”
"Okay, okay, let's go. ”
Xiaohe grabbed her mobile phone, ran out of the room in her pajamas, and called Shen Xi's mobile phone as soon as she closed the door, but she couldn't get through, she covered her mouth and crackled inexplicably with tears. She misses her mother.
Make a phone call and cry as soon as you connect it.
The garden explained to the parents about Shen Xi, and as temporary guardians, Han Di and his wife were also notified. Lu Xiang heard Han Di and Gu Hua talking about Shen Xi, they said that Shen Xi was pitiful, and Xiaohe was pitiful.
Lu Longing's heart was cold, and she was always said to be pitiful, and she didn't like this word.
How does a six-year-old child know any major changes in her life, she only knows that Xiaohe's mother is gone, and she doesn't want Xiaohe.
"Xiaohe, I'll sing you a song. Lu yearn sang to himself: "My good mother, I came home from work and worked all day, how hard it was, Mom Mom sit down, Mom Mom ......"
"I don't want to listen! I don't want to listen!"
"Xiaohe, my mother has to go to work and take care of us, my mother is working too hard. ”
"Mommy is hard, so she doesn't want me!" Xiaohe roared.
"Xiaohe's mother is going to rest, and when Xiaohe's mother is rested, she will come back. ”
Lu yearns for Yi Chengfang. Every time my mother loses her temper for no reason, beats her, and waits for my mother to sleep, it will be fine.
"Little baby, be a driver, send mom, go to work ......"
"Mother's kiss, sweet kiss, makes me miss it to this day......"
Lu yearn was singing, Xiaohe was screaming, and finally the two of them were rushing to cry, louder than whom.
"Have you thought about it, in fact, it is not the divorce that hurts the children, but the two people after the divorce. Wang Zhao faced Yi Chengfang and said this sentence gently. When I came to see Yi Chengfang today, Wang Zhao did not take the task of a white swan, but out of care for her once little self, she did not want to yearn to be like her, and spend her life to heal her childhood.
It is also out of the search for the answer that I have been longing to know for so many years: why a woman is willing to have children, but not to be a good mother.
She used these two purposes to try to dispel her dislike for Yi Chengfang, who was similar to Qi Huixian. After not seeing him for a few days, Yi Chengfang became even more haggard, adding a weak and wind-like style, and compared with the last time, he was much calmer, and asked calmly: "My child, is she okay?"
Removing what she did to Lu Nian, this sentence makes people really distressed to hear, Wang Zhao said: "Lu Nian is very good, she told me that she is about to celebrate her birthday and wants to spend it with you." ”
Yi Chengfang sniffled and didn't cry: "Thank you." ”
"Answer my first question. ”
"I have thought about it, but lawyer Wang, you haven't had a child yet, before I had a child, a friend who became a mother said to me that a woman must have a child in her life, not for anything else, just to make herself a better woman. You know what, it's the most romantic thing I've ever heard come out of a woman's mouth. ”
Wang Zhao opened the notebook and avoided making eye contact with her: "Then let's talk about why this romantic sentence has become an unromantic reality when it comes to you." ”
"Lawyer Wang, where do you start?"
"Let's talk about what you least want to talk about first. ”
Yi Chengfang hesitated for a moment: "Let me talk about my failed marriage first, is it okay?"
"Yes. ”
"After graduating from university, I went to White Swan to work as a writing teacher, and the job was not bad, and like most ordinary girls, I began to look forward to a good relationship. My best friend You Lan introduced her husband's colleague Lu Shanhai to me, and Lu Shanhai and I met and fell in love, and then entered the marriage hall, and lived a plain and happy life until I was born. ”
Wang Zhao wrote three words in the notebook: follow the crowd.
It means that Yi Chengfang's life is in order, and most of the women who have this concept of marriage and love are content with a small life, and if nothing else, they can see the end at a glance for a lifetime.
"What's the problem?"
"No, how can the responsibility be on the child, it's a problem for the two of us. After giving birth to a child, those trivial things, such stories, lawyer Wang must have heard them. ”
"You should have also heard that happy families are similar, unhappy families have their own misfortunes, speak slowly, don't be in a hurry. In order to find out the reason why this "Qi Huixian" came to this point, Wang Zhao prepared enough patience.
"Okay, before I had children, I lived with Lu Shanhai and two people, our family conditions on both sides were okay, my parents handled all the matters of marriage for us, we don't have to worry about the house and car, we can say that we can live as we like, do whatever you want after work, and go where you want to play. ”
"I understand. ”
"But the child was born different, the in-laws lived, and the small world of the two became a big family of five people. ”
"In-laws are here to help you with the child?"
Wang Zhao wrote down two words: mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. She thought of her childhood, and remembered that their family had never lived with her grandparents, or grandparents, which meant that when she was still a baby, it was likely that Qi Huixian would not be able to take her with the help of the family's "internal force" at all.
"I said I was here to help me take care of the child, but in fact, I ......" Yi Chengfang paused: "Actually, it's taking the child." ”
"You don't have to think about the wording, tell the truth. ”
"The psychology of my in-laws is that they help me take care of the children during the day, and when we get off work, the children should be taken by us, and they need to rest. Lawyer Wang, do you agree with this view?"