This is the habit we have developed over the years, that is, whether we go to other people's homes as guests or go to dinner together, we will fight to pay, and even because we give something to others, but others don't want to live or die, and then push and push here and there, such scenes are really common, in my life, and even in other people's lives, but why don't I adapt to such a scene, why don't I like it very much?

Sometimes I think about it, eat a meal, eat a meal time is not here to pull and pull the time more, it's really strange, I want to say, almost forget it, there is not a few dollars to eat a meal, everyone can afford it, but this kind of push back and forth, let others see it is really not good-looking, although everyone knows at a glance what this is doing, it is to tolerate and shirk each other, but if it lasts for a long time, it will be unhappy with each other, just start to tolerate each other, if the other party does not let you pay, then don't keep fighting, this is a habit we have been developing, I don't think it's good to stop it completely, it's good not to do it at all, but everything always pays attention to a degree, no matter what you do, it's like this, and the scene of shirk is no exception, although I already know that everyone is well-intentioned.

Sometimes, we go to play together, originally with a good mood to go, sometimes even a few relatives and friends to go together, but also to increase the feelings between friends, but also to make their mood a lot better, are out to play, who will go alone to play, how boring, this is our point of view, but every time we meet the time to pay, everyone scrambles to pay is also very common, but I always feel that if such a fight, such a shirk, or not to last too long, because for a long time, both sides will be unhappy, which is seriously affecting the mood of travel, Some people don't understand these, some people politely feel that they don't want to use each other's money, owe others favors, I think if that's really the case, it's better not to come out together, this hurts feelings, originally out to play or dinner, the starting point is very good, but because this thing affects the mood, you have to pay, the other party also has to pay, no one will let anyone, really unhappy, this is my personal experience, when this time, I think this time, next time, I will not go out with this person anyway, every time we get along with others, or very particular about details, some people, we don't even know what happened between us, We have all been estranged, just because we are in a certain thing in life, a certain moment, or even a certain look is not done well, so that the other party feels unhappy, so people are alienated from you, next time not to come, there is no future, this is life, anything between friends is to pay attention to principles and methods, otherwise we will have fewer and fewer friends around us, I don't know why, the other party is already angry, this is really strange, but think about it carefully, these details about getting along with people around you, you will find that some problems are just your own inattention。

But I don't like this kind of scene, it's just me, maybe others like it very much?