Speaking of such a topic, the first thing I should thank is those who have rejected me, and those who really don't care about me at all, don't treat me as the same thing at all, and even sometimes embarrass you everywhere, such people are often in our impression, are the object of our unhappiness, and even hate, think about it, such some people, in your heart did not leave a good impression on yourself, or a character who offended people, but is promoting your growth, but we have never thanked him。

In that book called "Zengguang Xianwen", I understand a sentence that says that those who are good are my thieves, and those who are evil are my teachers, and it should mean that those who criticize us every time, those who don't give us a good face every time, are actually those who are really making us those who are sometimes really making us. Why do we sometimes have to thank those who embarrass us and criticize us? Criticism and disapproval are those that are in opposition to us, but exist in places that promote us everywhere.

There was once such a story, I remember one time, that time was when I was present with my own eyes, I saw a leader scolding an employee, scolding in a very ugly tone, what parents have scolded, such a leader, if in the eyes of many people, is unbearable, that time I am the same, I am guessing, is not this colleague really resigned from such a thing and left, but things are not done well, even parents scolded on the leader is really rare now, the situation at that time, there are many colleagues are unbearable, all for such a thing that such a leader is too much, really can't stand itThere were many people who defended the employee, but what about the employee? He didn't say anything, just listened to such a scolding. But he never wanted to leave, he always told himself that there is still a long way to go, he was scolded like this, indicating that he really has a deep mistake when he will be scolded, the first job he participated in in the past, but also because he was scolded by the leader and left, at the time of graduation, usually there is no such endurance, no work experience, no social experience, the first time he was scolded by the leader, the next day he really did not go to work, this afternoon, he received the news of being fired by the company, he could only leave, but the leader in the unit gave him a lesson at the moment of his departure, told himNo matter where you work in the future, you must remember not to bring your emotions into your work, which is really dangerous.

After so many years, such a sentence has always been in the mind of this young man, he really told himself very clearly, no matter at any time in the future, you must take work as the first, it is inevitable to be angry, wherever you go, as long as you are still someone else's employee, as long as you are still taking someone else's salary, it will always be the same life, the same everywhere in the world, and when he understands such a truth, this time, he has never chosen to leave, when he is angry, no matter what bad temper leader he encounters, he can find out his own shortcomings in the leader's temper, and correct himself again and again in such criticismand constantly revise their thoughts and behaviors.

So, this time, he figured it out thoroughly, he told himself, no matter what, he can't leave, so the next day, he still goes to work and gets off work like others, this leader, the next day he didn't say anything, there have been several days, this leader didn't say a word to him, but what about him? is just doing his own work silently, if there is nothing to do, he will not take the initiative to talk to the leader, the scene is really embarrassing these days, but the work has not been delayed at all. After waiting for a few days, because of work, everyone still couldn't avoid talking, and they still worked and cooperated as before.

But after a long time, such a leader began to pay attention to such a young man, although such a young man sometimes does things that are never the most perfect, and even not so many other employees have strong work ability, but he knows that at such a moment, he should not justify, as long as he knows what he has done wrong. Although he will be scolded every time, he will tell himself that he is really scolded because of his shortcomings, so that he can make himself more perfect, and it is a good choice to meet a leader who can tell him what he is doing badly every time. Here, it is also such a leader who is willing to give him one opportunity to exercise one after another, a few years later, he still got the affirmation of the leader, whether it is in work or in life, he is very enthusiastic about this young man, as for an important job can be handed over to this young man, but also for him to raise his salary, take the initiative to help him solve some problems in life, and later he really found that such a leader also has some advantages, and does not want to be as unbearable as everyone imagined.

This young man with a story, who is still working in this unit, is still living the same life as before, and has gradually grown up in such criticism and blame, and can take charge on his own. He was still glad that he hadn't chosen to leave in the first place. Later, he thought about it, in fact, it is those who can achieve themselves who criticize us bluntly, if he chooses to leave, as everyone thinks, he still has to find a new job, maybe the next job will face the same problem, if you don't change yourself, the problem of where you go will not be solved. In fact, in society, if you really want to give yourself a place, then thank those who criticize us, blame us, and those who think differently about us, who have achieved our growth.