In the past few years of teaching career, I have found a problem, that is, children nowadays generally have a more selfish mentality.

After a long period of observation, I realized that selfishness is human nature, and this nature still needs to be taught by teachers or parents to gradually become tolerant and fraternal.

But sometimes I find that no matter what, the effect is still minimal, and sometimes I find that in such an education process, some students do not pay much attention to the cultivation and education of such qualities, and some parents always pay attention to academic achievements for their children.

We can clearly see that in these years, parents are very important to children's grades, and gradually pay attention to children's grades, and at such a juncture, people's selfish nature, as well as such education, is simply not to complete the quality of cultivation, especially sometimes, in our opinion, there are many students, do not pay attention to quality education, probably because they do not scruple about such aspects, but in school, teachers are also every day in a very heavy teaching scope of ripples, in a very heavy teaching knowledge while wandering。

So sometimes, there may be some neglect or contempt for quality education. I remember there was a problem that I have observed for a long time, that is, if I have a class every day, if my class is in the first class, just enter the classroom, you will find that they only put down their own stools, and some of the stools are placed on the tables in the classroom.

In fact, we also feel that after every cleaning, it is a very normal behavior to put down the stool, in fact, sometimes it is a matter of raising your hands, casually raising your hand, you can solve such a problem, but then I found out that the first time I would tell them to put down the position of the same table.

Then they put it down like this, and then I said, in the future, I don't need the teacher to say it, when the table has not come, put down the stool at the same table, and I also made it clear that this situation has been said once, and the next time, don't happen again, but it will still happen every time.

In fact, sometimes we find that people have a lot of inertia, that is, they don't want to do more things, especially such a thing, we have explained it very clearly, we have told the students, but every time they will not do this, and even think that it is just a matter of doing something, but they don't want to do it.

Every time I always do it when the teacher says, every time I put it down when the teacher says it, I still can't remember it next time, or wait for the teacher to say it again, and then put the position of the same table, in fact, sometimes we find that the same problem, we emphasize it many times, or there is no good effect, this is a very common phenomenon in school, some problems, we have emphasized many times, but the problem still has to wait until we encounter it again, and solve it again.

This is really a very puzzling problem, and even sometimes we meet some students in the classroom whose books fall to the ground, they will not have anyone to pick them up at all, but when they pass through this book, the moment they pass here, they will directly cross the past, and some people are stepping on the book in the past, such a long time, when the first person steps on the book to pass, the people behind will also feel that such a book, is it not wanted, but sometimes, when we pick it up, we find that it is obviously a book to be used this semester, maybe such a book is a certain student, but some people accidentally knocked it off, or it fell to the ground, or it was an accidental movement of a certain student's own moment, the book fell, and the people who passed by here saw it, wouldn't it be good to pick it up?

But they don't seem to have such a meaning, they will always be like what I just said, either they will cross over the past, or even step on it, so that a good book will be ruined, and when we use it, we look at a lot of footprints on it, and it feels very dirty, and we also feel that such a book is trampled on and dirty, and there is no way to use it again.

Sometimes we have clearly talked about such a problem, and we have already told the students what to do is the right thing to do, but then I found out that this effect is not obvious at all, and when you encounter problems and encounter things, you will know that they still do it the same way, or they will not stretch out their hands to help others, or they look very selfish, and it is not only a matter of their own high hanging, not only among parents, but also among children, such a thinking is really not good at all, but in many cases, I have found that they may have felt that the current material is very surplusNow the material life is very good, especially such textbooks and exercise books, etc., such books seem to be less precious in their eyes, they can even buy such books online, so they may not think that such a problem is a big problem, and even some people think that when they step on the books, we can also buy the same books through the website for more than ten or twenty yuan, but after a long time, we found that this is not a simple money problem, which is related to the nature of our human beings, especially the selfishness of human nature, etc., sometimes I feel that it is really not a problem of moneySometimes, we still have to feel that children should know how to love each other, and get along with others, rather than being so selfish, sometimes I find that people's selfishness is like a kind of nature, people are only concerned about their own lives, and do not pay attention to the lives of others, and even do not want to pay attention to others, which is really a kind of mentality that has nothing to do with oneself and hangs high.

However, we still have to let children understand that helping others is to help ourselves, in the process of helping others, sometimes you help others, others will remember your good, the next time you have difficulties, others can also help you, sometimes I found that they did not develop a habit of helping others, not only the fault of teachers, but also the fault of parents, I still hope that in the future, we can do a good job of ourselves, and I also hope that parents can train their children to help others in daily life, and let their children have a better personality in terms of quality。