Life is very realistic, but it can be such a reality, make us feel terrible, this really shouldn't be like this, although life is very realistic, but at least give us some buffer time and space for these fragile hearts, no, this is impossible, life is very cruel, how can there be time to give you time buffer, life is to ask you to accept such a living reality, not this time, next time you have to accept, not accept is harm, it's the same.

Last time when I deleted my phone book because of some things, I didn't save a phone, but when I looked for it again, I found that such a phone book couldn't be found, it was really just very clean, and it was only clean for a few days, I haven't called others these days, and even few people called me, but such a moment will not last long, someone will always call me, I am also waiting quietly, really as I expected, the phone rang, it was a colleague calling, and then after saying the thing, she saved her phone in the phone book,This is the only one saved after the phone book is deleted.,But after a while.,I found that when I have something.,It's still inconvenient.,But I'm also in the way of face.,I don't want to ask for other people's phone numbers.,But if you want to know other people's phone numbers,It's also very easy.,Just say that your phone book is lost.,Wait,Find a reason to tell others.,And then others will easily tell you their phone numbers.,But I don't want to do this.,I also slowly found that the people who called me were some colleagues.,Later, after continuous saving.,I found that the phone book except for a few classmates.,The others are all colleagues' phones. , and those who are closest to me, their phone numbers don't need to be saved, I remember them in my heart, and the phone numbers in the phone book are all saved if I can't remember them.

Flipping through the phone book, many of the previous classmates have lost contact, but in a brief chat again and again, we find that we have fewer and fewer common topics, each has its own life, and we are all fine.

Even in an article I saw a few days ago, it was said that the group of classmates in college was still able to chat hotly, but as soon as they saw the news that they were going to borrow money, they pretended not to see it, and just quietly did their own things, although I have not encountered such a thing, but it is also very normal, because everyone is not with each other anymore, everyone has their own work and life, they are busy making money, busy raising children, busy taking care of their families, many people will think that we had a good relationship at the beginning, we should be good friends for life, but what？

Everyone wants to get along well, they all want the relationship to be long-term, but what about the facts? or can't stand the test of time and space distance, this is very normal, everyone is not together, to put it simply, there is no reason to use each other, this is the reality, what can we do, what will happen when you face such a situation, what will happen if you can't think about it, isn't it the same to accept the reality, accept all this?

So, in the face of the reality of life, we struggled, we tried, but in the end, we still had to accept it, nothing else.