When life doesn't go the way you want it to
I really don't know what I thought in the first place, and I would come up with such a name. At that time, I felt that I was very inspired, so I wrote it down, but later I realized that such a name did have a lot of problems for me that I couldn't understand.
It was also a special mood for me at that time, so I thought of such a name, perhaps because my life was not very smooth in life, so I felt that life would not always spoil me every time, and develop towards the life I wanted.
That's why I have such an idea and such a name, life will not always spoil yourself, but you can compromise with life, you can move forward step by step according to the laws of life, and do your best step by step according to the common sense of life.
Life won't go the way you want it to, but you can go the way you want it to.
In life, there are actually two choices, either to change your life or to accept life, and these two choices are well known.
Those very great people, they have a deep ability, so they constantly transform the environment, transform themselves, transform their lives, and even become the masters of their own destiny, and some have also become the masters of other people's destinies, such some people, they are able to change their lives in life, develop and act according to their own wishes.
And most of us, we don't have the ability to change our lives, we don't have the ability to change our current status quo, in fact, sometimes we also think a lot, think for a long time, feel that our lives, maybe we can change some, maybe through our own efforts will be better, but, after a few tosses, after their own careful consideration, but also after some persuasion from some people around us, only to find that it is really not easy to change, and then we gradually found that since we can't change life, can't change the current status quo, then accept life well。
Although such a state is like a state of inactivity, like a state of inactivity, like a state of inactive psychology.
But what can be done? For those of us who have reached middle age, we can face life well.
In the face of what you can't do, you don't necessarily have to compete with yourself, sometimes you find that you are not so competitive, calmer, life will be calmer, life will also be more calm, life will not always be so stormy, at least some stability.
After living for a period of time, we found that the life we want is also able to be peaceful, a stable life, not the kind of life with the ups and downs of the wind and waves, because the ups and downs of the life of the wind and waves are what we can't bear, what our life can't bear, what our soul can't bear, and sometimes I feel that when we are facing a lot of pressure and some unsolvable pressure, we still have to be calm, so that the life can be smooth.
This is already very good, and those winds and waves for us, maybe a heel has capsized, so that we can no longer find ourselves, can not find the direction we once had, so when life will not develop in the direction you want, then move forward in the direction you want in life.