Many of us will be held in the palm of our hands by others because of their own characteristics, just because of the characteristics of a certain aspect, and the other shortcomings do not seem to be shortcomings, or even not so obvious, but one day, really show their own shortcomings, or compare their own shortcomings with the advantages of others, it is really a little ashamed of themselves, and it is really a little self-conscious, don't blame me for saying something ugly, this is the case.

I remember when I was young, I studied well, so I had a lot of pride, it can also be said to be pride, everyone thinks that you study well, you are a good student in the eyes of the teacher, and the top student in the eyes of those poor students, so such a halo is on your head, you are excellent in any aspect, this is when we were young, the teacher's evaluation of us, those students who study poorly, maybe the advantages are less than the disadvantages, and those top students, all the time are imprinted in the eyes of others, and even in the minds of others, for a lifetime.

It's like this when you're studying, you work well, you do everything well, you don't do your job well, you are like a sinner through the ages, you are ostracized all the time, nothing is good, it's really like a game, when you win, it's a talent for the ages, but what if you lose?

Then you are the purest person, the most stupid person, this evaluation may be a little one-sided, but this is the truth, this is also our deepest feeling, when you really put aside work, or when you were young, your academic performance was very good, and put aside your aura, put aside your excellent aspects, and other things that are not your strength, can you really do well?

Maybe not, or maybe most of the time, no. At this time, your own heart is unbearable, and the people around you may also look down on you for a certain reason, people need more opportunities like this, so that they will still let their hearts hit a few more times, a few more setbacks, this is the biggest thing to hone a person, and you have never experienced these people, your psychological tolerance will be very poor, and even because of some few things, and can not bear, those former halos, may be the most beautiful decoration for you, but have never experienced failure, have never experienced a blow to people, when can escape from such a haloCan you make your psychological endurance better?

The most important thing for people is life, and there are some people, although they are good enough, but people can't be victorious generals, at the right time, they still have to experience once, or more failures, so that they have some experience in their hearts, and have some psychological endurance, so that they can face and live calmly, instead of being intoxicated under their own halo, they can never find the most true self, and they can never withstand blows.

People still have to live well, not to be happy with things or to be sad about themselves, but this sentence is easy to say, but it is difficult to do, which makes me think about why the poor students in the class will be more able to bear the mental bruise, because they have always been criticized by their parents since they were young, and they were also criticized by teachers, and even criticized by others, so the more times they have been, it has also improved their psychological endurance, but I also want to say that the more I grow up, the more I can say goodbye to yesterday's aura, and it is good to mature and grow as soon as possible.