Many times only personal experience, only to know the taste, the New Year is approaching, because I have a lot of things to do, the New Year everyone has to do a lot of delicious things, and I have a lot of will not do, such as frozen meat, although it seems very simple, but I have not done it once, so this year when the New Year, I also didn't say anything, I originally wanted to buy a pot of frozen meat on the street for the New Year, but later I found out that my mother had made frozen meat, let me take it home to eat, this is really a good choice, when I found out that my mother spent a lot of hard work, in order to make a pot of frozen meat for me, I don't want to take it, because next time she will do this, and I don't want her to work so hard, so I don't want to take it, I just want to buy a little food, but then she refused to let me take it, and said that it has already been done, and they can't finish it if they don't take it, so I have to take it back.

I just got it back, I also tasted it, the taste is really extraordinary, and the frozen meat made before is still the same taste, the same beautiful, a very close taste comes to the face, not as greasy as others do, nor as strong as the street sales, because there are a lot of so strong things sold on the street, all of them are food glue, and they are all made at home are original.

At least I can eat peace of mind, when I come back, my husband always says every time, our family still has frozen meat to eat, and I always tell him every time, I just don't eat, I don't want to eat, wait for me to eat when the New Year, but, there is no New Year, he always says every time, after a long time, it is not fresh, maybe people and people's ideas are different, he always feels that he can't finish eating things is not fresh, but then I found out that eating can't finish it is also an attitude, many things are not necessarily just one kind of thing every day, and he likes to eat frozen meat made by my mother, so he has to eat frozen meat for three meals a dayThere are a lot of other delicious things in the refrigerator, why does he say that he is afraid that he will not be able to eat it and then throw it away, in fact, it is just to tell me that he likes to eat such food very much, and I don't want him to eat it every time, just because I have a little selfish psychology, looking at what my mother has worked hard to do, and I will still cherish it, I want to eat a little at a time, eat slowly, and every time he is so greedy and greedy, the man eats a lot, and the appetite is very big, more than double that the woman eats, so I think it is better to control his amount of food, sometimes I find that the rice is too delicious, and the people are fat, like raising pigs is not beneficial, and after a winter of training, we also eat some simple meals, unlike those times before, every time we always go to the street to eat a big meal, every Sunday to eat some delicious and delicious meals we want to eat, so he also gained weight very quickly during that time, after knowing me, he has gained dozens of pounds, but after a winter down, my weight has dropped, his weight has also dropped, this is not a pleasure, and the simple meals I eat every day are radish and cabbage, and these seasonal vegetables are still some good for our body, We didn't eat so well, but also out of the concern of another friend, that friend and I met by chance, when I saw me, said, why are you fat again, and then she asked me, is your family's living standard too high?

I said, it should be, because the standard of living is too high, so the weight continues to climb, after a long time I found out that it is really my distress, eat so well, and finally have to eat more things to remove, this is not a very sad thing, and we eat poorly, the weight will not be so heavy, and there is no need to lose weight so deliberately, the nutrition in the two aspects is also enough, not to say, because of poor eating, and lack of nutrition.

Today is 29, and tomorrow is Chinese New Year's Eve. Soon, this year has passed, after the New Year is the next year, and we also bought a lot of delicious food during the New Year, which proves that this year is good, in fact, I bought so many delicious food, I also look a little worried, because, after the New Year, I may really want to eat fat again, and I still think it is better to eat less meat, so that at least it can be easier for me to lose weight, instead of eating some greasy things, and it will be very difficult to lose weight, and I feel that weight loss is a trouble。

And then I found out that every time I eat the delicious things made by my mother, I still have to learn a few more delicious things to do, and then when my mother is old, I can still take care of them, make some delicious meals for them to eat, maybe it is the so-called filial piety, and every time I help my mother wash the dishes, clean up, or do some housework at home, my mother is very happy, always say, you have finally grown up.

I think I'm already in my 30s, and I should do some housework, and when my brother was at my house that day, he asked me, do you know how to cook?

I said, yes, then I said that I often cook at home, I said, I have become a housewife, and then he said, it is normal for people in their 30s to become housewives, and then I also gradually did a lot of housework in the laughter of others, and now I am diligent, although I used to be a not very diligent person, but the environment is enough to change everything, when the people around me are not very diligent, I slowly found that I am still the most diligent one among these not very diligent people, and sometimes I find that the housework done at home is not the best, sometimes classmates come to the house to play, saying that your house is cleaned OK, but between the words she spoke, I found that her standards were much better than mine, and what I did was at some point that she was very satisfied with and said, ouch, your house is so clean today, but sometimes when I see other people's housework, I know that I am not the best.

But when I look at the housework I do, it's actually much better than men, the most diligent man in the world, it's just that, sometimes I find that many men are glamorous on the outside, and they look clean and refreshing when they go out, but when you really go to his house to take a look, if there is a woman who is helping him with housework, it's better, if there is no woman at home to do housework, if there is only one big man, the house is messy, all of them are disorganized.

Having said all this, I still think that when I grow up, I will understand what to cherish.

In the end, should we cherish family affection, or cherish love, or cherish some other things? Sometimes we will inevitably abandon the basics and put our minds in those places where we should not put them, and sometimes we find that when you really treat a person with your heart, you will find that you should still put your mind in a normal place.

And when you meet a man who wants to ask for something from you every time, you will find that those who are good to you are so valuable.