There was nothing to do that night, but I went to watch a movie with my husband, who knew that this movie was still very good, it was a movie about family love, called "Bad Dad".

Although the plot of the story has long been expected by us, that is, this father did not fulfill his responsibilities as a father when the child was young, so his children hated him very much, and after his children grew up, there were all kinds of shortcomings, not only the people around him were at a very low level, and when his father went to recognize him, this father had reached the terminal stage of cancer, just wanted his child to be able to recognize him as a father, recognize him as a little bad father, but then his children refused to recognize him, there are some rebellious psychology, in fact, many times we are like this, at a certain moment we hate our parents very muchAlthough he is good for us, but we still don't understand some of his practices, his child at two or three o'clock in the evening, but he is still playing games, and his father interrupted his game like this, and then let him go to sleep, we also have a lot of such experiences, in the process of growing up, sometimes there will be such and such mistakes, but he does not think he is wrong, so when the parents forcibly stop, he will have a lot of rebellious psychology, in fact, we should be able to think of such a result, in real life, no matter what kind of time, we will definitely have such and such ideas at a certain stage, and some are unrealistic, or factors that are not good for our growth, but dads or mothers will always stop us at one time, which causes some misunderstandings and frictions.

I also had this experience when I was young, sometimes I did something wrong, my parents told me that this was wrong, that was wrong, but I didn't understand much, every time I even contradicted my parents, only to find out later that my parents were right, and sometimes they forcibly pulled us from the wrong track to the right track, although a moment hurt our little hearts, although at a certain moment it will make us hate thoughts, but in the end, we will still understand some of the truth, or when we grow up, we will know that we did something wrong when we were young, and I will thank my parents for stopping me at that time。

If we let it develop like this, maybe the final result will not end at all, and every time my parents make a mistake in us, I also know their excitement and anger, and every time my parents tell me, it's okay, although there is such a serious conflict at some point, although it seems to be a peak showdown scene at some point, but you will still find that they always think, I am your biological parents, I am like this, what can you do?

I have such a strong advantage just for your own good, and I later found out that their advantage is enough to make our shortcomings frightened.

Many times we also face our parents with a variety of moods, in the past for various reasons to go abroad or have some of their own ideas, the child in other people's homes, and then wait until they grow up to look for it, maybe there is no such a good thing at all, a lot of family affection is still growing up together, living together has more feelings, rather than putting a child anywhere, he grows up or his own, such an idea, there may really be some deviations.

The father in this storyline is also, when he was very sick, he went to find his child, and tried all kinds of ways to make his child recognize him, maybe it is the final end of life, so that the child wants to recognize him more as a person, in fact, many times we can also understand his child, at that time did not live together, or there are all kinds of contradictions there, there must always be time to solve the misunderstanding in each other's hearts, in order to accept each other.

But the relationship between blood relatives can still save something or something, after all, there is a blood relationship.

I watched a TV series called "Wild Duck" , Although such a name looks rustic, but such a TV series reminds me a lot, that is, her mother went to the United States to study abroad, and her children pinned their hopes on her classmates, and when she grew up, she found that she couldn't change the child's mood and rhythm of life, in fact, it was the same, everyone grew up in a different environment, and the final personality and results were different, we also found that many times those parents have given up the support of their children for their dreams, and finally found that when you really want to get back what you want, it is also so difficultWhat you discarded at the beginning still requires some time and energy when you want to get it back, rather than discarding it when you want to get it away, and get it instantly when you want to get it, so even if it is a very irresponsible and unfair status quo.

In real life, we can sometimes think of a lot of things, for example, now people are working outside, and many children always live with their grandparents, which may cause a lot of educational problems, but what can be done?

Many people are forced by life, for the life of their families, have to work outside, children's education has really been put on hold for a long time, in real life, we will find that no matter which of our choices, when you have gained, there will really be something to lose, the key is that we have to choose a better result between getting and losing, not to mention the education of children, many people have chosen to go out to work, earn high wages, but many years later, you find that the money you have is always not as good as children's education, and some of the thinking and views from childhood to adulthood are difficult to correctSo I think money will never be as important as these children, but many people will never think of such a result.

The final result is that all the education problems of our children are pinned on a generation like grandparents, but there is a saying called next-generation relatives, that is, grandparents love their children very much, meticulous care, and they don't notice the existence of problems at all, so it's better to be good parents, and those previous dreams of going abroad or other dreams, maybe just to change their own life status, not because of money at all, maybe you are very rich, but your own children, refuse to recognize you, such situations are also a lot。

This is my revelation after watching this movie, it is a very good film, and a certain plot is also very moving, but later I found out that people and people's tastes are also different, when I came out of the cinema, although I didn't know him at all, he said a word, what is this play?

Although I think it's still very good, but others think that acting is nothing, this may be the difference between people and people's thinking concepts, and one day I will find out that I have my opinions, and I can let others have other people's ideas, which is a kind of respect for others, not that anyone's ideas are completely consistent.