Not only Liu Weijing is very happy, but Zhang Shihui is also very happy.

Because the early eighties were still a relatively clean era.

Almost everyone's marriage premise must be based on the psychological preparation of sharing weal and sorrow and growing old together.

Although divorce was legally allowed at this time, almost everyone was ashamed of marriage.

The wave of divorce and extramarital affairs is far from coming.

The wishes for a "hundred years of good marriage" at the wedding are still ironclad rules.

Even in the cross talk paragraph, there is already a "set of furniture with sofas, the second elder is responsible for watching the dolls, three turns and one ring plus color, four seasons clothing wool polyester card, five pairs of leather shoes are wiped, six relatives do not recognize the family, seventy yuan is better, eight-sided exquisite can speak, alcohol and cigarettes do not touch or drink tea, very satisfied and anxious to pinch the ......".

But this is actually a deliberately exaggerated ridicule, and you don't have to take it too seriously.

Higher-priced girls who value purely material things are still rare in these years, and they know that this is wrong.

They will only try to hide their inner desires, and will not blatantly challenge the moral consensus of society.

Decades later, someone dared to openly shout the slogan "I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh behind a bike".

In this era, it is simply unimaginable shamelessness and rebellion.

If anyone dares to do such a thing, he himself will not only be sprayed to death by public opinion.

Even this girl's parents will be disgraced and shameless because they raised such a child.

So the real situation is that because the economic conditions of every family are about the same, there are not so many rich people.

Girls who are to be married even if they want to be able to live a well-to-do and prosperous life after marriage.

But I knew very well in my heart that this could not be done overnight.

The most practical way is to rely on the joint struggle of two people after marriage, and the purchase of one by one can be realized.

In addition, from the perspective of the woman's parents, they are also ashamed to mention the word "bride price".

In the new society where customs are changing, the general consensus is that asking for a bride price is tantamount to selling a girl, and I am afraid that only backward remote mountainous areas will do this.

The reason why the woman's parents still put forward material conditions is only because of the special social structure at that time, and families with many children were common.

They were afraid that their daughters would not be able to speak, and they would be treated perfunctorily by the man's family and be wronged.

To put it bluntly, it is completely out of the love of licking the calf, thinking and calculating for a couple of newcomers.

The things that are asked for will definitely not be left in the woman's mother's house, but the young couple's own property.

Because of this, compared to the situation faced by ordinary people.

Zhang Shihui and Liu Weijing simply want something, it's hard not to be jealous.

Not only do they have a ready-made wedding house, they have sufficient financial resources to ensure their material life, but they also have real feelings to nourish their souls.

And Zhang Shihui is still an only child, and his parents are still working in other places.

There are no such complicated family relationships, and there are no unavoidable family disputes.

For the Liu family, isn't it like a son picked up for nothing.

How can it not be satisfied?

But what's interesting is that maybe because Zhang Shihui's conditions are too good, Liu Weijing's parents are worried about the other thing.

As a result, they not only unexpectedly and categorically refused, but Zhang Shihui took the initiative to honor them with 10,000 yuan.

and directly gave Zhang Shihui a preventive shot.

That's what Liu Weijing's father said.

"Shihui, we have always treated you as our own son. As for you, you're kind to us, and you're quite capable. I didn't expect that in just a year and a half, you bought such a big fortune. We, Wei Jing, follow you, probably won't be poor anymore. ”

"But you, you don't have to worry about us at all, we both have our own salaries, and we have enough to eat. As long as you two can live in harmony in the future, this is better than anything else. There are a few ugly words that I have to say at the front door before I can really feel at ease to hand over our Weijing to you. ”

"First of all, we are an old couple, I don't want you to do anything else, just want you to be good to my daughter. Didn't we talk about the two of you long before you got rich? So even if you didn't make so much money, you would still be our son-in-law. In the future, as long as you don't rely on this, just say that we are respectful and climb you. ”

"Secondly, I'm worried that your kid has a patriarchal mentality. Now the state implements a family planning policy. There will only be one child in the future, and if you give birth to a girl, you kid won't be happy to give my daughter a look and bully her for this......"

These words are really not very good, and they are even quite heavy, but it can also be seen that the old couple loves their daughter.

In this regard, Zhang Shihui only sweated in her head, and even said "don't dare", she really didn't know how to explain it.

Of course, he didn't expect that his wealth seemed to make the Yue family worried.

It seems that he will do something to lose his conscience for the sake of being rich and unkind.

Fortunately, Liu Weijing took the initiative to play a round and opened his words, which saved him from embarrassment.

Liu Weijing told his parents that Zhang Shihui gave money to his parents just because he had been thinking about the old people on both sides.

They have already said that when the two of them get married, they can't only live a good life by themselves, but also have to arrange their parents on both sides if they have the ability.

Of course, her parents didn't want this money because they were thinking about themselves, and she was also very moved.

It's not as good as this, anyway, she helped Zhang Shihui get household appliances together, and she also saved more than 10,000 yuan.

Simply her parents accepted 10,000 yuan from Zhang Shihui, and she also gave her own money to her mother-in-law and father-in-law 10,000 yuan.

This is their heart as children, and they will not be treated badly anywhere.

In this way, Liu Weijing's parents were relieved to accept the money.

But in this way, the specifications of this marriage have to go up even more, for fear of the man's side picking on it.

Liu Weijing's family has to prepare a dowry for them, and they are even more tired.

For example, Lao Li'er pays attention to four spreads and four covers, and Liu Weijing's home has prepared at least eight new quilts for them.

From one and a half catties to eight catties, it can be covered for twenty years.

There are also satin quilts of various colors, red and green, and beaming.

Those quilts are really good satin.

Liu Weijing's mother specially went to Ruifuxiang to pick up, hand-embroidered dragons and phoenixes, wrinkled as soon as they were washed, the kind of very squeamish silk.

And that's not all, Liu Weijing's parents also prepared two duck down quilts, two wool blankets, two gold and silver quilts, and magenta wool bedspreads.

In addition, the fabrics should be prepared for the girls, including curtains and tablecloths, TV covers, and the bride and groom's seasonal clothes.

The Liu family spent countless hours in order to find good-looking fabrics, suitable fabrics, and tailors with good craftsmanship.

Even Liu Weijing himself was not idle, helping his parents to find it together, and they all went to the friendship store.

French curtains, German tablecloths, and British fabrics are beautiful, but the price is really expensive.

It is equivalent to Liu Wei's filial piety and respect for her parents, and it is also pasted back on her and Zhang Shihui.

And it's not enough to just buy it, these things still have to be sewn.

Like a new quilt, Liu Weijing's mother struggled to make it herself, so she had to ask a blessed woman to sew it.

In order to wish the girl happiness in the future, those whose parents are incomplete and whose families are incomplete cannot touch the bride of the newlyweds.

It's really hard to find a woman with Quanfu.

Liu Weijing's mother also chose a side for her neighbors, relatives and friends, and it took a lot of effort to pick out such a person.

As for taking wedding photos and dresses on the wedding day.

Zhang Shihui and Liu Weijing have convenient conditions that are difficult for ordinary people, and these two things are particularly happy.

Because don't forget, Ning Weimin is Pierre Caton's executive.

He has the right to take out the most beautiful clothes in the company, let two people choose at will, and lend them for free.

Therefore, Zhang Shihui and Liu Weijing didn't use the wrinkled and bad-textured clothes in the photo studio at all.

They wore their own suits and wedding dresses and took color photos.

Liu Weijing also brought jewelry from Zhang Shihui.

As a result, the effect is good, Zhang Shihui is like a gentleman, and Liu Weijing is like a princess.

The fashionable style of the suit and the shiny and exquisite workmanship of the wedding dress made the customers waiting in line to take pictures at the back misunderstood.

Everyone saw that they were going to take their clothes away after taking pictures, and they just didn't do it.

They had a quarrel together, and they had to take pictures with the clothes and jewelry they had taken off.

The people in the photo studio had to explain again and again that they were Zhang Shihui's own clothes, and the anger of the crowd could be stopped.

The rest, of course, is indescribable helplessness and envy......

However, the wedding dress is beautiful, and Liu Weijing did not choose a white wedding dress for the dress on the wedding day, but chose a red suit by Pierre Caton.

It's not that she doesn't know how to be blessed in the midst of blessings, and she doesn't need to have convenient conditions, but the key is that this is still a matter of concept.

Because according to our tradition, happy events have to be red, and white is unlucky.

Unlike in the West, white means pure and noble.

Therefore, when Chinese people get married, it is good to wear a wedding dress when taking wedding photos, and no one dares to wear it at the wedding.

But then again, compared to the first two years, the bride's red color only dared to be worn under the clothes, revealing a collar and cuffs.

This is quite open and bold.