Chapter 273: Asking for Ideas
Wait until the man and the woman have almost prepared everything for their lives.
After that, it's time to plan for the wedding.
In fact, for ordinary people, the wedding is actually more important than the marriage certificate.
Because this is an act of publicity.
Without such a customary ceremony, people would not think that newlyweds are officially husband and wife.
Even if the materials are extremely scarce, there is no banquet, and the guests can only be given some sugar cubes and cigarettes during the special period.
Even if it is a marriage that advocates "no leave, no gifts, no extravagance", and blesses the era of changing customs and customs by sending some daily necessities at most.
It must also be held in such a ceremony, and it must not be missing.
Even the elderly in the family will not allow a couple who have received a marriage certificate but have not "done anything" to live together.
This is the place of the marriage ceremony in the hearts and minds of our countrymen.
Then it is conceivable that after the reform and opening up, when the people's livelihood economy is getting better day by day.
The weddings of the common people will inevitably become more and more grand day by day, and they will pay attention to pomp and circumstance again.
After all, it is a major event in life, no matter whether it is a man or a woman, who doesn't want to be in the limelight for a while?
So naturally, the banquet was restored, the clothes of the newlyweds became decent and trendy, and the process of receiving relatives became more and more lively.
Only the ceremony of the wedding has not changed much.
There are still a few procedures for the officiant and the leader to speak, the newlyweds to bow to their parents, and light cigarettes and toast the guests.
At most, in the end, let the young people make a hole in the house.
To put it bluntly, our people's attitude towards life is always based on affordability.
All that everyone really cares about is the entertainment and the opportunity to eat and drink at the wedding.
As for the specifics of 1982.
People have begun to wave goodbye to kissing on tricycles and bicycles.
It's not the 70s, when you could hold up the spectacle with just eight bikes.
The level of wedding cars has improved significantly.
If you have a relationship, you usually ask a friend to find a relationship and borrow a car to fill the façade.
It doesn't matter, I will also pay for a taxi at my own expense, and I have the luxury of doing so.
Being as decent as when Bian Jianjun and Li Xiuzhi got married is the credit of Counselor Ning Weimin.
Otherwise, the Bian family is limited by poverty, and the little couple probably still don't know what it's like to be a car.
Of course, for Zhang Shihui, no matter what, it is not a problem.
Although he doesn't have a good father, he is waist-bound.
Hiring a few taxis for a few dollars is a breeze, and it's not a problem at all.
In addition, the social relationships he got acquainted with in business are not old and young, and he belongs to the kind of person who belongs to Lu Ziye.
On the occasion of his wedding, he got a few cars to pick up his relatives, and each of these friends would shirk it.
However, it has to be said that it is precisely because Zhang Shihui's situation is relatively special, she has many friends in society and few relatives in her own family.
What to do with his wedding feast is a bit difficult to decide.
Because first of all, like ordinary people, building a greenhouse, hiring a chef by yourself, and setting up a banquet in your own courtyard can be a lot of things.
It's too trivial, it's too draining. Zhang Shihui alone can play on his own.
And his parents work in the military industrial complex in the Great Northwest that needs to be kept secret, and it is not easy to ask for leave.
It would have been nice to be able to leave two days early to come back for my son's wedding.
It's impossible to help at all.
Therefore, at the beginning of the fight, Zhang Shihui planned to find a time-honored restaurant to hold a table for a happy event, which was pompous and worry-free.
It's a pity that the actual operation is not as easy as he imagined.
Unexpected troubles arose, and money could not be spent.
Dare to love that no one has the ability to hold a wedding in a restaurant these days.
At that time, the capital was a time when the service industry could not keep up with the tide of returning to the city, and it was overcrowded with food, drink, housing and transportation.
There is no manager of the Zhuangzi who is willing to take over his business.
First, people feel that so many people come to eat together, waiting with great fanfare, and they are tired and panicked.
Neither the kitchen nor the service staff will be happy, so why let the employees be dissatisfied with themselves?
The second is that some of the people's concepts at that time still haven't changed.
Many people think that there is a certain risk of public opinion to turn away individual customers for the sake of the marriage of the two.
If you run into that customer more seriously, or if you run into that reporter again, it's not asking for trouble.
As a result, Zhang Shihui ran several times to ask, but they were all in vain.
Fortunately, Chongwenmen Hotel has a joint venture relationship with the cheap roast duck restaurant, and Zhang Shihui can speak in his own unit.
But if you do that, another problem arises.
Because since the happy event is held in the unit's restaurant, the leaders, colleagues, and acquaintances of other departments cannot be pulled down.
The guests who were originally invited were already young and old, and after all, at least forty tables had to be prepared.
What is this scene?
The reason why Liu Weijing's parents shook their heads was purely because they felt sorry for Zhang Shihui.
You must know that in these years, the wedding wine is a loss-making business, and the more banquets you place, the more you will suffer, and you will not be able to recover many gifts.
According to the calculation of 551 tables of private banquets, the cost of the banquet alone is more than 2,000 yuan.
That's really a big color TV for nothing, and no matter how much you can earn it, you have to feel distressed.
And Zhang Shihui is not the same as them.
WHAT HE VAGUELY SAID WAS THAT THIS SCENE WAS TOO BIG, AND HE FELT THAT HE WAS A LITTLE OVERWHELMED.
Although he is not afraid of spending money, he also wants to show his face on the most important day of his life and have a good show.
But he's not stupid.
has been messing with Ning Weimin for a long time, and he also understands the truth that wealth is not exposed.
It doesn't matter if such a fanfare wedding is secretly held somewhere else.
Because in addition to relatives, the people he invited were all friends with interests, colleagues and classmates who really had friendships.
No one will figure out where his money is coming from.
But if it falls into the eyes of the unit leader and colleagues who can't communicate with each other, it's different.
He thinks that many people will be jealous and suspicious, and then they will think about certain things.
If there is no reasonable excuse for this, there will be endless troubles.
So Zhang Shihui is out of line.
He could only discuss with Ning Weimin and Qiao Wanlin, two people who knew his details, to see how to deal with this matter.
Needless to say, this is a smart move.
Qiao Wanlin and Ning Weimin are both human sperm, and one of them gave him an idea.
First of all, Qiao Wanlin meant that he could help find a unit's canteen and ask through his connections.
If you can, do it in a different place.
If it really doesn't work, it is recommended that Zhang Shihui release the wind in advance.
Just make up a nonsense and say that there is an overseas relative at home.
With a reasonable excuse, no one will dig into it.
As long as Zhang Shihui keeps to himself and stops doing it, it's no big deal.
At the same time, Qiao Wanlin also had good news to tell Zhang Shihui and Ning Weimin.
This kid said that because of his eye-catching work performance, he was valued by his superiors, and he was soon transferred to work in the district service bureau.
If Zhang Shihui is willing, he can also transfer Zhang Shihui to work in other units, such as the Chongwenmen Hotel opposite.
And next, Ning Weimin also said that it is not Zhang Shihui's personality to seek perfection.
Since Zhang Shihui has been thinking about this matter for so long, if he doesn't do it once, it is estimated that he will regret it in the future.
In that case, it's just a matter of what to do.
It's better to instigate yourself in the unit and leave a vigorous legend.
After that, as soon as you quit your job and go to Pierre Catton, you won't be able to do it.
It is really free from the shackles of state-run units, but in fact, there are benefits.
That's how to make money, it's complete freedom.
If Zhang Shihui is reluctant to give up his current financial path, it is most appropriate to choose this way.
And it's not a matter to work night shifts all the time, it destroys the body and affects the quality of the next generation......
In short, Qiao Wanlin and Ning Weimin have different ideas, although it cannot be said that this problem can be completely solved, it is so in line with Zhang Shihui's mind.
But at least it gave him a foundation and made him feel at ease.
He didn't understand anything else, but he was sure of one anyway.
The worst outcome is not to change the place to eat, so let's do it......
Interestingly, Zhang Shihui has made up her mind, and Liu Weijing's parents can't rest assured.
The old couple privately inquired with their daughters endlessly about how much foundation Zhang Shihui had.
It's not for anything else, just because of this marriage, the old couple also has an account in their hearts.
After calculating it back and forth, they think that Zhang Shihui has spent a lot.
For fear that my son-in-law will have a swollen face and become fat, and the expenses will be too large and the deficit will be lost, so it will still hurt my daughter.
But even if Liu Weijing deliberately prevaricated, he only vaguely said that Zhang Shihui had 20,000 cash in his hand.
I was embarrassed to tell them that Ning Weimin had just paid back another 40,000 yuan in order to fulfill Zhang Shihui.
It's enough for the old couple to gasp.
Liu Weijing's mother was dumbfounded.
Liu Weijing's father, the dentures almost didn't fall out.
10,000 yuan, but even if you have money!
I didn't expect to buy so many things, this kid still has a net worth of 20,000 yuan!
Isn't this a golden beetle's son-in-law?
So they were stunned for a long time, and the old couple was a little clueless, and they coincidentally told their daughter.
"Don't be stupid, you hurry up and give birth to him, if you hear it, you have to tie his heart. ”
"Yes, you should have children as soon as possible after marriage! With children, a family can be truly stable. ”
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