Less than two months after my mother was discharged from the hospital to recuperate, my father came home and said to my mother: "Meizi, I got you a job in a photo studio, and the photo studio was opened by one of my classmates. I negotiated with him that with a salary of 70 yuan a month, you will go to work tomorrow, and you can also learn the art of photography. ”

The mother was a little displeased, and said in her heart: "The doctor told me to rest more, this is not two months before the operation, right?

"When did it happen? Why haven't I heard you talk about it?"

"I met a classmate on the way back today, I haven't seen him for a long time, his photo studio has just opened, and it was when there was a shortage of people, so I thought of you. I took the opportunity to tell him about your situation, and I was worried that people would ask for people with skills and experience! I didn't expect him to agree so happily, it was really Mai Mang who fell into the eye of the needle -- a coincidence! And this guy didn't hesitate at all, he agreed, worthy of being my old classmate, absolutely interesting! Anyway, we haven't said anything about our character in society over the years!

Hey!

The more his father talked, the more excited he became, as if the so-called classmate had given him a lot of face, and he took the trouble to emphasize over and over again: "It's a photo studio, a place to take pictures for people, and you can easily make a lot of money, at least a little less bitter than the construction site where you worked before." And people know about the relationship between you and me, and they will definitely take care of you and won't let you do any heavy work. I see that you have recovered very well this month, although walking is still a little bit uneasy, but usually when you are recovering at home, don't you also have to take a walk, stroll, activities? It just so happens that he is short of people, you go tomorrow, early in the morning, it can be regarded as a help, at least let him feel our sincerity and the importance of this work. He and I directly set up to go to work tomorrow, so that you don't have nothing to do at home, and you are idle. ”

The mother was naturally not happy when she heard this, and the father's words did not take the advice of the female military doctor when she was discharged from the hospital - let the mother rest for at least 6 years to heart, did not care about his wife from the perspective of a husband, did not discuss with the mother to ask the mother about the recovery of the leg that had undergone surgery, did not ask the mother if the leg hurt, whether she could walk, whether she could do the job that he thought was "very easy", just watched his daughter-in-law have nothing to do at home and was "idle"!

"Even if it's work, you're going to have to give me at least three months off to recover, right? When the doctor was leaving, he told me to rest for 6 years and not work. I had less than two months after I had rested and been discharged from the hospital, and I couldn't walk well, so you got me a job? You don't take me seriously, do I? Am I a tool for you to make money now? If I think my body has recovered about the same, I don't need you to say that I am looking for a job myself, and I still have to wait for you to find it for me? Why did I knit sweaters at home day and night during this time? It's not to make money, I knitted three sweaters this week and earned 60 yuan, which is not more than your photo studio of 70 a month? Which eye did you see that I was idle at home?"

"What does that doctor know? The person who is about to enter the coffin is still self-righteous, if it weren't for her white hair, Lao Tzu would have settled the account with her for scolding Sang Huai in the hospital. Father clenched his fists and said fiercely.

However, the hero may have long forgotten the conflict that happened in the hospital and the appearance of the four soldiers who were ready to move, and wantonly said that they wanted to go to the hospital to settle accounts with the female military doctor.

The hero seems to be in a good mood today, and after listening to his mother's words, he did not get angry as usual, but responded to his mother's question with an expressionless face, of course, not to explain and answer:

"Don't forget, who took you to see a doctor? Who paid for the surgery? All the money I earned made you wasted, and you gave people all the money, and you gave you all the "money and wealth" of the family! And said that I don't care about you? Don't treat you as a human being?"

Maybe the hero felt that he hadn't completely vented his anger, and added: "If you think about it, you will go to work, and if you don't want to leave, do you think that the earth will not turn without you? Do you think that without you, the sun will not rise or fall? Or do you think that you will not live without Lao Tzu?"

After listening to her father's words, her mother laughed angrily, and even said: "Your own life is like Wang Xiaoer's New Year-a year is not as good as a year, and your 'Wanguan family wealth' Wang Xiaoer is not rare!"

Having said that, there is no point in arguing. The mother sneered, and then said: "If you leave, you will leave, no one will be pinched with mud! Whoever leaves can live!"

Wearing a coat, he staggered out the door. When you go out, you leave a message: "See you at the court!"

When she said this, her mother had already made up her mind that this time she must divorce her father and leave this man who filled her with painful memories.

My sister is at school, and it's just me at home.

As I watched my mother go out, I yelled, "Mommy, don't go, Mommy!" but there was still no response.

Then I heard my father's fierce voice yelling at me, "What are you shouting, hurry up and chase your mother!"

The hero's intentions are obvious - to use the child to bind the mother, and use the greatest maternal love in the world to maintain his control over his wife.

After listening to my father's words, I ran out crying like crazy: "Mom, wait for me! Mom, wait for me...... Mommy ......"

Whining......

It took me a lot of effort to "catch up" with my mother.

Actually, my mother didn't go far, and when she heard my crying, she deliberately slowed down and waited for me.

At this moment, it seems that the hero's method has begun to work.

My mother wiped my tears for me and took my hand to move on, not fast, but resolute.

I looked up and saw my mother burst into tears.

The tears in my eyes "scramble" from the corners of my mother's eyes along the cheeks of tears slowly fall, occasionally a "naughty" tear swayed down, dripping on the corner of my mouth, salty, extremely salty mixed with a little bitterness.

When my mother took me to the gate of the courthouse, my father chased after me on a bicycle and yelled at my mother, his wife, on the crowded road: "Do you want me to lose my job? Do you want me to lose my job? If you go to the court to sue for divorce, I will definitely be fired from the hardware and machinery factory, and will I have the face to live in this place again in the future?"

"Think about it, what a shameful thing divorce is! It's not just you who is ashamed, but also your family! Not to mention Lao Tzu! Aren't you afraid that you won't be able to raise your head in the future? Let outsiders look at you in the future? How do you think of me? After you get divorced and die, you can't even 'enter' your ancestral grave!"

At this moment, the mother's compassion once again occupied the initiative in the brain, and the inferiority was once again thoroughly manifested, and her compassion increased greatly, and she immediately began to consider from the perspective of the other party: "If I lose my job, it will be troublesome! Won't I become a sinner for the ages? Once divorced, how should he live without a source of income? The court will definitely sentence each parent to have a child, and no matter who follows him, he will not be able to live!"

"How do I face my family after a divorce, how do I face my parents, how do I face my children, and what do outsiders think of me?"

......

After a struggle of thoughts, the essence of kindness finally defeated all external factors, and my mother "decisively" left behind everything that my father did not treat her, and finally "obediently" pulled me home.

And so on and so forth.

My father figured out my mother's personality in the process of "gaining inches" and "combining rigidity and softness" again and again, and my mother was also bullied and tricked for half her life under the "rule" of her father's "non-violent non-cooperation movement".

Do fathers and mothers have love, do they have family affection?

I know that my mother, and certainly not only my mother, was filled with endless hatred for him.

I don't know, I'm not him after all, and I certainly can't think about the whole world with his mind.

After trying countless times to no avail, I gave up the idea of turning the family situation around. It's not that I don't want to, it's just that the time has not come.

Just as Xu Sanduo, the protagonist of the TV series "Soldier Assault", suffered from his father's improper illegal storage of explosives, blew up public property and was detained, and the family's house was also blown up by explosives, the eldest brother went to the company to report the news, and the second brother carried everything in the family alone, and when facing all the creditors in the village to collect debts, Xu Sanduo borrowed 200,000 yuan from the company to bail his father, and he needed to repay it with 208 months, that is, 17 years and 4 months of wages and allowances. Subsequently, before his father was released on bail, he returned to the team.

After returning to the team, captain Yuan Lang asked him:

"The problem of money is solved, is your problem solved?"

Xu Sanduo replied: "Every family has its own problems, and it is impossible for me to solve all the problems in the family." Just like I couldn't solve all the problems I encountered, my father was sick, my brothers hated, my home was like it had just been shelled, and life was one of problems...... But, the problem will be solved. ”

Yes, I always believe that the problem will be solved eventually.

The fact that wars, oppressions, slanders, insults, and slanders like this again and again tell me that my sister, like my mother, has only hatred for my father, and it is pure.

In the end, the mother's "uprising" ended in failure again, and she went to work in a photo studio.

Of course, the body did not fully recover, but with the support of tenacious perseverance and tenacious endurance, it supported, strengthened, and persevered...... Never gave up.

And such an act also left an incurable root of the disease on the mother's leg.